I never really had any, I like women too much. Especially women with (or called) nice jugs ! Hehe ;D

I was about 17 and went west with these two guys in their van and when we got to Arizona they wanted to go to a strip club. One of the dancers there - who probably was not much older then me - the way she moved was really captivating and I started heating up. So much so that after the show I went back to try to meet her. But there were all these guys around her so I knew she would not want to have anything to do with me.

I started noticing girls the way I did with guys. I was probably in grade nine at the time.

My story is a little --- weird. My gf and I have been together ten years and have three children together. We are, for the most part, pretty traditional. (That is, if you don't count the part about us wanting to live together and have a family but not be married.) However, for a while before my gf became pregnant with our first child, she was into the idea of gay sex between men. We would laugh about it - and even watched some gay porn - but at her office Christmas party I met a colleague of her's. Good looking guy, slightly younger than me. A few days later my gf came to me and told me that the guy was gay and had confided to her that he thought I was really "hot." We laughed, but then my gf asked if I would be willing to sleep with him - she thought it would be really sexy to watch us. I about fell on the floor and we actually had a bit of an argument over it. However, I got the guilts. First, my gf is about as open to, and selfless about, sex with me as anyone I have ever been with. She will often tell me that she believes that she should be open to sex whenever I need it. I generally try to be sensitive to her moods and needs to, but honestly, I probably don't always hold back when I should and she has probably had sex with me at times when she would really rather have just gone to bed or watched a movie. Second, he was not that bad looking and while I am straight, I have to admit that I tend to like the idea of experimenting, so to speak. So, I relented. He - I did not know at the time - had actually suggested this to my gf, but had said that he wanted to sleep with me one on one so "he could get used to me." After much to-ing and fro-ing, I agreed and we had sex two or three times. To my surprise, after the first time, it was not bad and I actually found I enjoyed it sort of. So for a few weeks after that we would put on a "show" for my gf. It didn't last, though. Once the novelty wore off, my gf and I found we just wanted each other again. The guy just wanted me and the emotions started to bubble up toward the surface. Eventually we politely ended it - helped by the fact that he eventually got a new job. About a year after that, my gf surprised both of us with an unexpected - but probably perfectly predictable - pregnancy, and when the doc puts that little baby in your arms for the first time, suddenly "experimental" sex does not seem like such a good idea anymore. Still, it was quite an adventure and if I were not a bit embarrassed about the whole thing, I figure I would have one hell of a movie script. So, long story short, what was my first thought? "Hmmm, I never thought I would be having gay sex - but at least he's good looking."

During that first communal prison shower...

For me it was in middle school during a sleepover. We all talked and I realized I wasn't the only one that loved playing with her pussy. Or watching over girls play.

I was always attracted to boys, but in high school, I started noticing the girls. I tried being heterosexual for a few years but I found I still wanted sex with boys.

I've played softball all my life and even though I'm "straight" and into guys, I noticed that I was having thoughts about some of the girls on my team, and not just that they were good players or even that they were pretty. Much more sexual thoughts.