I care a great deal for my g/f. she is going through some stuff but idk what it is because she wont tell me anything. how do you support somebody who wont let you?
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Just be there for her, and let her know that you are there if she needs a shoulder to cry on, or just to lend an ear for her to talk about anything that's on her mind. You must keep everything that she tells you in confidence though, or she really won't tell you anything. :)
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You can't support someone who won't let you. Give her space and stop being so clingy. You may be a source of her troubles rather than a solution.
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just remind her that you are there for her and when she is ready to share her woes with you you will be there for her. Sometimes, what we may be going through might be so hard for us even to accept or overcome. Sometimes we just need time. But it is always good to know that someone said they would be there when we're good and ready to share. As friends, we must be patient. Unfortunately, we can't force people to share with us what they are going through. Unless you feel she is in a dangerous situation I wouldn't press the matter, but this is only my opinion. I hope this helps.
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