My girlfriend and I were happy together had a dog lived together and talked of marriage. My friend would always come over and hang with me, after a while him coming over turned into a everyday thing. Long story short, situations happend like me and my buddy hanging in the garage and him saying goodbye and then an hr later I go upstairs and he's sleeping on the floor next to the couch we're my girlfriend is sleeping. Other things like they had exchanged phone numbers without me knowing. I asked them both if anything was goin on I felt like an idiot when they both said no. Time passed then more stuff like I pulled into the grocery mart parking lot and there sitting there talking . I ended up asking my girlfriend and my friend a ton of times if what I was feeling like they were hooking up was real No no no your insane and insecure. Ok my girlfriend ended up leaving me because of all this she told me that they never talked at all. We're broken up now and my friend still comes around but he dosnt seem like a real friend he says I would never do that, and then bragged to me the other day about how he hooked up with a chick who has a boyfriend.
She recently leaked to me that they text every once in a while. I'm super pissed because I feel like they're doing and did something that ruined my future plans and instead of coping to it there blaming me i mean the fact alone that they swore they never talk but yet they do is insane to me. I'm litterally on the verge of beating the shit out of this dude but what if they're telling the truth , no fuck that as I'm typing this there's no way there a bunch of liars I can't believe this shit am I crazy or should I give them the benefit of the dought. I lost my dog in all of this too please help
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You need to set limits when you're in a relationship. Friends don't hangout at your place when you're in a relationship. And Dude is NOT your friend!!
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You had a girlfriend, a dog and future plans and you lived together. AND YET YOU HAD A GUY FRIEND COME OVER ALL THE TIME. You started it! What the heck were you thinking? Why weren't you and your lady out riding bikes, going to the movies, inviting couples over for BBQs, having game night with friends, cuddled on the couch watching movies together, jogging together, taking a picnic dinner to the park, blah blah blah. You ignored her, you ignored the relationship and you encouraged someone to be around constantly. Instead of taking responsibility for ignoring her you did nothing. You should have said you mean more to me than life and I don't want to be a jerkweed anymore by not working on our relationship so I'm only going to see my friend at McDonalds for coffee or the bar for a beer once a week. The rest of the time it's you and me babe. But your selfishness got you where you are. I don't feel sorry for you. You are responsible for your own predicament.
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