What do I do when my ex girlfriend doesn't want a relationship anymore because she wants me to focus on my studies, but she wants to focus on her studies too. And she currently doesn't want anything that does with me being in love with her. So what do I do??Oh she also said it will be fine even though i wouldn't love her anymore. She also said we will be together one day if we were meant to be.
What do I do when my ex girlfriend doesn't want a relationship anymore because she wants me to focus on my studies, but she wants to focus on her studies too. And she currently doesn't want anything that does with me being in love with her. So what do I do??
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Jauquin
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Just like you said. 1. She doesn't want to be in a relationship with you , and don't want to hear anything of you being in love. 2. She obviously thinks you both should focus on more important stuff like studies 3. She try to make it clear that what would be, would be. I really think if you proceed with bothering her with love, questions and uncertainty you will loose her forever. You sound very clingy. Just consentrate on your studies as she suggested and see what happens.
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it nneans youre probably distracting her fronn focusing on her studies
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By in large what she said is completely irrelevant weighed against the understanding that she does not want to be with you. Sorry but there is nothing to do and if she doesn't want the relationship it's over. To carefully go over the words she used to look for a way around her not wanting to be with you is totally pointless.
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Focus on your studies and improving yourself and your life situation. When the time is right don't hesitate to see other women, but stay away from little girls who don't know who they are or what they want. Focus on those mature enough to make adult decisions. It sounds to me like your ex made a wise choice for both of you for the time being, because if its not right for either of you its not going to work. And if and when the time is right you may end up back together, but it is more likely you will find someone else.
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Move on...as she obviously has. All that BS is just her blowing smoke up your hiney to 'let you down easy', or because she doesn't have the ovaries and backbone to tell you the real reasons she wants to end it. Probably she has monkey-branched, and found a better sucker elsewhere, or scored a badboy.
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forget her,,seems she is just making an excuse to end the relationship,she is not game to just say its over.....so just try and move on from her and concentrate on ya studies
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"EX-girlfriend" sounds like you know the relationship is over but don't want to move on. "Possessiveness" could be part of the reason she doesn't want anything more to do with you. Leave her alone and look up the definition of "stalking".
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yeah, that's a dump dude. she's not in to you, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. MOVE ON!
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She is breaking up with you and doesn't want to hurt you.
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Do as your heart desires. If you think she is the One go for it. If you unsure, then wait and see. If you think she is not the One, then just drop her. Look for the right One.
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