ANSWERS: 38
  • No, the question of whether or not to stay when things turned ugly for a while was the hardest decision I've made in my life. Also, I wouldn't recommend asking single folk why they're not married yet. ;)
  • why am i not married? i'm still trying to put my life together...plus he hasn't asked.
  • I'm not married because I'm not ready nor have I met someone I would want to marry. I'm not sure I'm ready to pick up after someone that is capable of picking up after themself or be bothered by their snoring at night. I'm not sure if those complaints make me incredibly wise or incredibly shallow. (I'm a 27 yo female)
  • it wasn't hard at all. It was something that I was very certain about. I was sure about our love and our life together. Never a doubt I had found and chosen the right person.
  • who are you my grandmother with that last question? soon we are though
  • I havent heard the bells yet.
  • Marriage is for insecure people.
  • No its an easy decision when its right, Trust me you will have many many harder decisions to make after your married.
  • I am engaged and it was very easy to say YES!!!! We have been dating for about 5 years, and I know in my heart he is the one for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • The decision to get married wasn't hard because at that time in my life I thought that I was never going to again find someone else to love me.
  • i am not married because i expect too much. i have learned to be more accepting but i will not lower my standards. i deserve what i want and if i have to marry myself so be it. I feel like im ready but i dont meet people who want the same things i want and i dont want what they have because usually they dont have shit.
  • The thought of marriage terrifies me and I haven't met anyone yet who is worthy of my love. <-- sounds cheesy but its the truth!
  • I'm not married yet cuz out of the guys who have asked me I always find something that doesn't fit in my life. Maybe I'm picky, maybe it just terrifies me and I try to push everyone away. Whichever
  • IM SUPPOSED TO BE MARRIED???? omg i didnt realize i was supposed to have a piece of paper to fulfill my life
  • The decision to get married wasn't the hardest one of my life. It was the most important one of my life by far, but the decision was easy.
  • I am 24 and I am not married because I have made bad choices in the men I dated!!! 7 years with a drug addict.... bad news!!! Now I have the man I am gong to marry... and we will be married here by the end of next year!!
  • No it was an easy decision. If you have to convince yourself that is probably a red flag.
  • im not married because im female! it seems to me that men my age are only looking to use women for sex, they want not part of being in a relationship or even knowing a woman, just sex!
  • nope, I have never had problems making decisions. soon I will have to make a decision to get married again because after I devorce my adulteress I will start imediatly searching for a real wife
  • You missed those of us who have been married and are now divorced. Some people I know who are not married anymore miss being married and are always in search of a new mate. Others like myself, have found that marriage doesn't work, and are single by choice.
  • NO.... staying married was.
  • It definitely wasn't the hardest decision I had to make
  • I am single because I have not met him yet. When I do met the one I will marry it will not be a hard decision :) Communication is the key in all relationships, if you think it is a hard decision to get married I think that it is not the right time for you to get married.
  • For one- I was engaged at one point. It ended terribly. and Two- I'm going to openly admit that I am now terrified of relationships :'(
  • Initially the decision to get married felt indigestible but after some gap ,mind accepted it as one most of the required need of humans!
  • I'm not married, because I will never get married. Why ruin a good relationship, with a bad mariage?
  • It wasn't a hard decision for me. It was an ovbious one, as I wouldn't want to be with anyone else.
  • I am not married/have never been married, because I want my marriage to be a good one.
  • It was one of the easiest decisions I ever made, and one of the best.
  • I'm not married yet because I haven't found the person I suppose. I haven't been with anyone that I thought about marriage with. Who knows, perhaps it will happen, perhaps it won't.
  • Nope, I knew almost from the day I met him I was in love and wanted no one else. He, thankfully, felt the same way. Been married 17 years this April and wouldn't change a thing!
  • No, but the divorce was a pain in the butt. Actually, the toughest decision I ever had to make was pulling the plug (feeding tube) on my dad. That was definitely a final decision.
  • why aren't I married yet? Because noone wants me !
  • Haha..this subject is so depressing for the singles..but i guess i will go ahead and answer it anyway. I guess I am not married yet because... A) I have not found the right person B) I am at a point in my life with my focus is/ should be mainly on education C) I think I still have some time left, so I am not necessarily in a rush and D) I honestly don't think I am mature enough for a marriage quite yet..but I am definitely looking forward toward the time I will learn to grow and mature with love. It should be an exciting step to take. I hope that answers you question..
  • No-- Simple really. It was time and I found the right person.
  • when it's right you know it!
  • HAHA I am not married yet because my s/o has a ex-wife and now he is scared to get married, He goes a lil funny when it's brought up. One day I know it will happen, but I am in no hurry cause my focus is my education!!!
  • Not really. I got married three weeks after we met, and am still married after 20 years. I was a child bride of course. lol ;]

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