12 years old is too young, missy. Once you're old enough, you'll know how to flirt.

Sorry, if you're twelve you shouldn't be on this site. Also, you might want to focus on school right now, instead of boys.

With respect, most 12-year olds lack the finesse to flirt.

At 12 years old you don't know s$%&

Well reading from your comments I would say you can just watch what others are doing at your school. Humm. not the best idea to jump off the bridge because others do though. - Why would you want to flirt with a guy if you wont talk with him? Does not make sense in my mind but I don't think at your age level.

use MSN lol and texting and also reading and understanding body language is a skill it takes effort that effort you should be putting into school work atm and also you just know when a female or male is right for you

I have to agree, you are too young to be considering these things. You will figure them out in time, trust me. But since I know that you ain't gonna listen to shit that is saying don't do this, I'm gonna give some advice. First off, if he is any older than 15, you are asking to get emotionally abused and toyed with. At 12, yes, you don't know shit, and at 15 to 20, he probably doesn't know shit, but knows enough shit to take advantage of you in the worst ways. If he is your age to 15, and you really wanna walk this road... Guess what, you are going to have to TALK. It will NOT work without conversation. He will NOT notice you unless you engage him. That said, don't be slutty, please don't be slutty. My suggestion is to walk straight up to him, build up some guts, and say to him 'I think you're cool, we should hang out sometime'. This is assuming you have a specific target. If you are just trying to 'put yourself out there', STOP. That's a great way to become a slut, and that's not the life you want. But you are 12. Go hang out with your friends, and be happy and don't worry about this shit. It's not worth your time yet.

Your not old enough to properly flirt without talking, live your life. Relationships don't mean shit until you get older anyway, and even then their not that important.

boy trouble!i remeber being 12.i liked this boy who was popular but i wasnt.i had nice looks but even if your pretty if your not popular your not noticed.anyway i agree with the others that you should focus on school but if your that desperate when you see the boy in the hallways and he is looking at you make good eye contact and smile small and natrual for a few seconds.in class run your hands throw your hair like a comb and if he starts looking at you give him good eye contact and smile at him again while running your hands throw your hair like a comb.also try a website called wikihow.you can find tips for anything in there including boy tips.remember to write your age group too.type in exactly this wikihow.com/flirt with a middle school boy and you will get the rest on your own.good luck and remember the grade too.no boy likes a dumb retard

talk to him sunnyjay. trust me he shall like u if u talk to him. he probs likes u but guys normally dnt have the balls to go up to a girl. have a go wats the first that can happen

You're twelve? Twleve?! I repeat....TWELVE???!!! C'mon kiddo what are you expecting at your age? Attracting the opposite sex is a natural thing otherwise it wouldn't ever happen at all. Don't worry it'll come naturally when you're ready for it. Liking someone isn't only about body language and the physical - the most important thing is the person. Don't get yourself into places where you shouldn't go yet. Focus on your friends right now because your social skills are still developing! Take care kid.

Just be yourself

Why don't you just concentrate on gaining good solid friendships with both girls and guys and let yourself develop as a person before you worry about finding a love interest. Work at becoming the sort of person you'd like to find.

You don't want to hear that you aren't ready for a relationship right? You just want a boyfriend to hang out with for a while right even if it is 3 weeks. The guys always do something stupid and that is about how long it lasts in middle school. So anyway don't stare at him all the time or anything like that cause that is creepy. Don't tell your friend to tell him you like him cause then he will wonder why you didn't just say Hi to him in the first place yourself. It shows lack of confidence someone else does it for you and that isn't attractive. Confidence is Attractive. You could just smile and say Hi! Once a day for like a week. That would let him know you can talk!! :) You have to talk to the guy sometime. I mean when he is your boyfriend how are you going to talk to him then if you can't now?

OMG lol

At 12 simple things suffice. A smile goes a long way.

omg im twelv andi have the exact same problem!!!! thats weirdd lol

Man, everyone is chastising this poor girl when it is only natural at that age to be curious. A better answer would be that even if we explained what to do "exactly" chances are good that other boys her same age wouldn't know how to read the signals anyway. There is nothing wrong with being curious so long as that's as far as it goes at that age. So to that end I would say smile a lot and don't be afraid to just talk to the guys you are curious about. Don't think you have to pretend to like the same things they do, or agree with everything they say. Be your own person, and if they aren't interested and blow you off, don't take it personal, people are different and not everyone can get along with everyone. Just give it your best shot and don't have expectations or it may feel disappointing if it doesn't work out.

Stare at her for at least 3-5 seconds every time you will see er. Talk to your friends and turn and look at her. Go and talk to someone that she is talking (if it’s a boy, not a girl because she would think that you like that girl) and just stand next to her. If you are in the same class just try to get in the same groups, projects with her.

u shouldn't be thinking about that most girls who can figure out how to do that eventually become slutish. your TWELVE!!!!! u dont need to know that stuff,if girls are doing that at your school then they are stupid and they will wind up probably being mistreated by all the men that they are with through out their entire life, believe me u dont want that i know girls who were like that and now they are 16 and are having a child by a peice of $%&* guy who are drug addicts and always get in trouble with the law. i may only be 17 but i know what i am talking about just trust me, ok? just an FYI i am not some innocent chick who has no personal experience in the matter. i hope u make the right decission. :)

YO YO YO I AM 10 (DONT FREAK OUT I AM GREAT WITH FLIRTING) ALL YOU HAVE TO DO TO GET A BOYFRIEND (IT REALLY REALLY WORKS I PROMISE) IS TO JUST SMILE AND LOOK AT HIM FOR ABOUT 2 SECOMDS OR IT WILL TURN INTO A STARING COMTEST AND THAT IS CERTAINLY NOT FLIRTING! p.s. DONT LISTE TO THE OTHER PEOPLE THEY ARE THINK LIKE KISSING OR ANYTHING I KNOW JUST AN INOCINT LITTLE RELATIONSHIP LIKE A BOYFRIEND WHEN YOUR THAT AGE IS LIKE YOUR LITTLE BODYGAURD (TRUST ME) GOOD LUCK! ;-D

*pats on head* go plat with a rattle

You do absolutely nothing. You treat the guys you like like the ones you don't and if they are not gay they will come running for you. Guys like sassyness!

Give him your sweetest smile of the century.

Under 13 is not acceptable for this site. And you are 4 years away from dating.