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  • I would tell him that you read the emails and what was written in them really hurt your feelings. Tell him that if he's cheating or thinks he may cheat that he needs to be honest with you so you can work out your issues and not have to keep secrets.
  • Tell him that you heard a story of a man who had his genitals cut off by his wife. She became jealous just because he had been corresponding by email with a woman. Watch his reaction .....
  • I am not sure what you mean by "semi-sexual." But there's a good chance I would not be happy about it. Also, how did you just *find* these emails? If you feel the need to snoop, that's a huge red-flag that things are going wrong. Just trust your instincts.
  • Agree with other answers, I wouldn't be happy about it. However the question does come up, if you "found" them, you had to be snooping about in his email. One does not login to an email account on accident. If you have to snoop than you have more problems than a few sexual emails.
  • i would feel ashamed, betrayed and VERY ANGRY. A man/woman should not be sending any sexual emails, letters, etc to someone who is not their spouse or s/o (unless you are swingers or in an open relationship agreed upon byboth). That can only lead to heartbreak and anguish of the other partner....destroying the cornerstone of trust in that relationship. :(
  • I would be really pissed off. REALLY PISSED OFF!
  • First you have to address why you were reading his emails. What was his relationship with this woman four years ago? Why have they started communicating again? Does he feel neglected or unappreciated? Is he just flirtatious in general, but means no harm by it. There just isn't enough information here for me to tell you how I would react.
  • First I would clarify semi-sexual...lots of folks joke around with opposite sex friends about body parts...it's not sexual it's comical so there is a salaciousness that would have to be present before I would make a stink. If that sexual intent is obviously there...then I would react like the wife of a man who is having an online flirtation and/or affair. I don't know about you but that he can't reach out and touch her wouldn't lessen the hurt that he is sharing a part of his life with someone else besides me. A part that should, unless agreed otherwise, stay in the marriage.

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