ANSWERS: 4
  • You are not crazy. You were in love with her. Love like that doesn't go away after a few months. Even though you know how bad she was to you, you still feel that attachment to her. I had the same experience with an ex of mine that cheated on me with an ex prostitute, used the condoms that I bought to do that, then told me that he wanted to dump me cause he was going to a mental asylum. Yet even after I found out he cheated on me again, I wanted him back. You don't want the pain, but it is hard to let go something that you are used to or have deep feelings for. Don't get back with her, for your own sake. I am not telling you this is going to be easy, this takes a long time to heal. You can still date people, but don't commit until you are sure that you feel very strong feelings for this person and not just rebounding.
  • First. You're not a very good speller. But your spelling and the way you feeling about this person who was according to you not a good person will improve with work. It's ok that you still have feelings for her. You're feelings during that relationship were true. It's going to take time. When you find yourself feeling real low, recount the bad experiences you had with her and how it made you feel. Remember that there is a reason you broke up.
  • I agree with the folks that have already answered. I am a year unto the same problem. I am hopeing for it to end soon, especially since I am currently spending my weekends in jail for text stalking her. I am the crazy one in this but I adored her and have cried and walked many miles trying to get this sorrow out of me. It is coming to an end I am starting to get over what was an 18 yrear marriage. What I can tell you is the current feelings you have now will get better, just hang out with friends or if the ex was your best friend or as in my case just about my only friend, make new ones. Seems simplistic but it is what is helping me so I hope it may help you.
  • well its normal to want ure ex back i think u should talk to her about how she hurt u and tell her that she shoudlnt have done the things shes done an tell her she needs to change it works trust me

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