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  I was with my ex for 3 years, she was my first and I was her first. we've lived together for about 2 years and recently broke up in February. She dumped me because she had thought I was cheating on her but when she realized I wasn't wasn't things started slowly coming back together. Couple weeks later we got into a huge argument after our argument she started acting different and coming home late. It was unusual of her to come home late because she's a nurse and her schedule required her to work the 5-7 shift. I would stay up until she got home to talk about her why she's been coming home late, she would she grab whatever she needed and she would leave again and not come back home until about 2 or 3 am. One day she gets texted saying she needed her space and if I could stay at my parents, for the first week I disagreed to it but shortly after I changed my mind thinking it might be a good idea and that I should respect her space. Two days later I had found out she slept with her coworker by logging into her Snapchat. I asked her if she had done anything with anyone she kept telling me she had not done anything with anyone, so I pulled up her snapchat to show her that knew what had happen after I gave her space. We were officially done I grabbed my stuff and had completely moved out, couple weeks later she started texting me about how she had made a mistake so I went back to her. For about 5 months she was going back and forth between me and her coworker. Last week she broke down mentally and was calling and texting me non stop saying she wanted to hurt herself and she felt like a piece of shit for doing this to me, she wanted me to come over to help her out with her breakdown so I told her she needed to text her coworker and have him deal with it because I was really upset about the last few months. She continued to text me saying that he doesn't know how to deal with her when she's like this only I did so I agreed to help her out and comfort her, she asked me to be her boyfriend again but I refused because everyt
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  How do I get my ex girlfriend back? Hi so I’m in a situation where I know my ex still loves me and is in love with me. However the reason for this breakup (48 hrs ago) was for us to work on ourselves, to get the ball rolling on our careers and after we do that she said she promised we’d try things out again. She said she has no time for me rn because her mom just went through a kidney transplant and she needs to focus on her plus she said she doesn’t feel like she loves herself enough and before putting all 100% into me she wants to do that for herself. We took a 2 week break and she told me she felt awful because she wanted to give me attention it’s just she needs to be strong for herself and show herself that she can be responsible. So she broke things off so she doesn’t feel like I’m waiting on the sidelines for her. She also wants time for herself to do yoga and make new friends. Our breakup wasn’t bad. We talked and talked and even had sex and took a last picture of us kissing before going our separate ways. She contacted me the next morning telling me she hopes work went good and we talked for a bit then the conversation ended and restarted again at night while we were both at work. She told me during the breakup that she felt uncomfortable in the relationship because when we argue or fight I’d be an a**hole and yell and cuss at her. I told her I wanna change for myself but also for us because I realized that it’s not cool of me to be yelling over dumb things. She said she doesn’t know if things will workout in the future between us but we will try again and as long we work on ourselves rn then only good things will come. Any advice would be helpful as this time for me is hard because we told each other we’d work through anything and that our relationship could go to hell and back and we’d still love each other. I know this is hell rn I just want things to workout again.
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  So,im with my girlfriend for 16 months now,she staied friends with her ex that she broke up cuz she just didnt like him that way.They still txt now and then,he calls her for coffe she goes sometimes,even tho i said it makes me feel uncomfortable.We are in the bus now and shes listening to song that he wrote for her and reading the lyrics.Is this ok,should i do anything?
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  Well my girlfriend and I broke up after she decided to text/mess with a guy at her church. We got back together and she wants me to go to church with her. I don't know what to do because everytime I think of the guy I want to flip out, beat him, and just fall apart for the amount of pain he put me through. He pretended to be my friend and it totally betrayed my trust. I don't know what to do or how to handle the situation. Her family goes to the church but I don't know if I want to ever see that guy again. Can somebody please give me advice? Btw this happened 5 1/2 months ago and I still haven't gotten over it.
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  What do I do when my ex girlfriend doesn't want a relationship anymore because she wants me to focus on my studies, but she wants to focus on her studies too. And she currently doesn't want anything that does with me being in love with her. So what do I do??Oh she also said it will be fine even though i wouldn't love her anymore. She also said we will be together one day if we were meant to be.
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  My name is Fabian. So there is this girl i have a big crush on, (not dating) I'm not ready to ask her out yet. But her name is Alyssa . I met her in middle school and me and her still text ALOT, like everyday. We sometimes hang out and chill. me and her care and love eachother alot, she loves me because i always been there for her, and i always made her feel better, she said she wouldn't know what she do without me. She said i am like one of the realest people out there. she said me and her will rock together forever. but these past 7 days i feel like me and her were getting dry, like if our bond wasn't the same , like if something was wrong with her. I miss texting her more, laughing and having funny and enjoyable convos, where we texted more and she replied faster. I noticed she has been sleeping in all day until 5 or 6pm , and she goes to bed earlier then usual, it made no sense to me. She also hasn't been texting anybody that much and she hasn't been on social media that much, i asked her and she "said You're the first person to actually notice. but idk, I've been sleeping a lot and idk why . Then i asked her what is causing all that and she said " I just got out of a really toxic friendship and it's been taking a huge toll on my emotions lately ". Turns out it was her bestfriend (Jony) they were really close. She really cared and trusted him. I asked what happened and she said "A lot of manipulation and mental abuse". What do you think she meant by that and what do you think might of happened? She said "We still talk a lil bit,, I just needed some space" But to be honest i don't know how to really help her, i need to find the right words to have her move on and whatever they have wasn't real anymore. I don't want her to think i am trying to talk her out her feelings, i also don't want to make her sound guilty or anything like that, i don't want to sound like An Asshole either. I am that type of person that is always going to be real with people and she knows that. I want her to be strong. Alot of people hurt
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  I am so tired of my life, what do I do?Firstly this is not for attention so please do not attack me with cruel comments. I am only 26 and I already feel as though I have lived for way too long. My childhood was a hell filled with instabilty, parents bitterly seperating & getting back together(10 times), constant moving, verbal abuse from my whole family, physical abuse from my brother, years of isolation with little contact with the outside world (We were home schooled from the 4th grade up and lived out in the middle of nowhere) My mother hoarded cats and so from ages 13 to 20 I lived in a run down trailer that reeked of animal urine and fecal matter and I often was literally feasted on by hungry fleas (yes! They will bite humans!). My brother controlled the entire household and I was taught from an early age (by my own mother!) not to fight back or stand up for myself. So basically whatever my brother wanted or said went. My mother died at 19 but I didn't get out of that hell hole til I was nearly 21. I spent the next 3 years working my ass off at a shit job at a grocery store and found out too late that they pay no one more than 10 cents over minimum wage. I met the man who would later become ny now husband while I was working there and acquired a better paying job at a different grocery store shortly after the wedding. Although that job did not last very long but I'll get back to that shortly. I want to be up front that I was aware before we got married that my husband has aspergers. However we dated for nearly a year and a half before we even discussed marriage and there were many habits/behaviors which he did not exhibit then but he does exhibit now. Many of them I am able to deal with but there are some that I am beginning to wonder how much longer I can put up with. His job stability is horrible and he refuses to keep one job while looking for another. So I have no choice but to make up for his slack by working extra hours and finding ways to earn money from home on my few off days. He seemingly has
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  So,im with my girlfriend for 16 months now.She staied friends with her ex.She didnt like him that way.They txt from time to time he calls her for coffe,she goes sometimes,even tho i told her it makes me feel uncomfortable.We are in the bus now she listens to the song he made for her and shes reading the lyrics.Is this ok,should i do anything?
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  I am so tired of my life, what do I do?Firstly this is not for attention so please do not attack me with cruel comments. I am only 26 and I already feel as though I have lived for way too long. My childhood was a hell filled with instabilty, parents bitterly seperating & getting back together(10 times), constant moving, verbal abuse from my whole family, physical abuse from my brother, years of isolation with little contact with the outside world (We were home schooled from the 4th grade up and lived out in the middle of nowhere) My mother hoarded cats and so from ages 13 to 20 I lived in a run down trailer that reeked of animal urine and fecal matter and I often was literally feasted on by hungry fleas (yes! They will bite humans!). My brother controlled the entire household and I was taught from an early age (by my own mother!) not to fight back or stand up for myself. So basically whatever my brother wanted or said went. My mother died at 19 but I didn't get out of that hell hole til I was nearly 21. I spent the next 3 years working my ass off at a shit job at a grocery store and found out too late that they pay no one more than 10 cents over minimum wage. I met the man who would later become ny now husband while I was working there and acquired a better paying job at a different grocery store shortly after the wedding. Although that job did not last very long but I'll get back to that shortly. I want to be up front that I was aware before we got married that my husband has aspergers. However we dated for nearly a year and a half before we even discussed marriage and there were many habits/behaviors which he did not exhibit then but he does exhibit now. Many of them I am able to deal with but there are some that I am beginning to wonder how much longer I can put up with. His job stability is horrible and he refuses to keep one job while looking for another. So I have no choice but to make up for his slack by working extra hours and finding ways to earn money from home on my few off days. He seemingly has
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  Hi, so beginning of school this year I started talking to these 2 girls that both seemed interested in me the bad part was they were both friends and I seemed to be getting in the way of their relationship I couldn't decide whether I should go for one (if yes who would I go for?) or if I should stay away and let their friendship continue. Unfortunately I went for one, and of course it ruined their friendship:( the problem is I stopped talking to the other girl while I was dating her former friend but now we've broken up and I think I'm just realizing that this other girl may have been the better choice for me, I'm almost convinced she is the one. But because of the beef with her friend she is no longer involved with my friend group and I fear she might hate me too for killing the relationship they had together (I feel like a total dick for that btw) and I'm scared if I go for her again I might just look like a douchebag, shes a super nice girl and I want to get to know her better I just don't know if I should start to talk to her or not, please help.