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I think the beauty is what catches their eye and captures their attention initially, but the brains are what make them want to continue the relationship. No use dating an attractive woman if she can't count past ten. +5
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I look for brains. Beauty is second, because it's how they act that really matters.
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They look for beauty when they should be looking for brains.
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We initially look for beauty, but if you're not on the same wavelength intellectually, it won't last long because you'll be bored to death.
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Both. If you are really beautiful but have no brains then guys take advantage of that, this relationship wont last to long. If you are really smart and are not that beautiful guys pass you by. In reality, its really all about how you make a man feel. Beauty attracts men, brains show that your a hard catch. when guys know they got something good they hold onto it.
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They look for beauty to get with the girl, and if she has brains aswell they will be more likely to want an actual relationship with her.
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I'm think'n BOTH; emphasis on the "brains", though!
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It's a ratio. One can offset the other. I know I have to be attracted to the person one way or the other for it to work. She does not have to be super pretty or super smart there just has to be chemistry. But I cannot handle dumb and I cannot handle overweight. Maybe a sign of bad breeding or something subconscious in my mind.
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both
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Half half
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I would say initially they would have to be attracted to the person, so beauty would have to come into the equation. But, to stay with that person they would have to be of equal intelligence.
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The visible part is the beauty so most of the men look at beauty.Those who look at brains they sneakily peek at other women!LOL!
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Beauty will get a man's attention to begin with. Brains and/or personality will keep it there.
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Got to have the brains or I would go crazy not being able to have a senseable conversation
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I beautiful deft mute with brains less fighting that way.You know the woman is always right anyhow.A man who fight with wife during the day gets no piece at night.
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A good balance of the two... I'm not looking for the most sexy, hot woman in the world, but I must be attracted to her, but of course I need someone to talk to as well, someone who won't bore me from being overly smart or no brains at all...
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You have to have that initial physical attraction, the brains are a plus, not genius, just to be able to get along and communicate! Without that the relationship goes no where. +5
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Totally depends on the man. I'm sure most would prefer beauty, and some might be totally intimidated by a woman with brains. But then some men are intimidated by a beautiful woman as well.
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Brain.. Coz women are beauty!
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A happy combination of both.
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looks i guess mainly for all the guys i have met
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I do not care how smart a woman is (within reason.... I want someone who atleast has the ability to understand logic) but that they are smart enough to not "know" too many things which are not true is a requirement.
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I am fortunate to be married to a beautiful & intelligent woman! (after all, she was smart enough to marry me...or crazy enough, I'm not sure which it is)
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Well brain actually but beauty is important as well
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Yep both. No one can deny the value of having a mate you are attracted to as shallow as it sounds but who wants to be with the ditsy girl with the IQ equal to a rock? An equal medium is good, I dont need nor do I want a super model but a girl who is not ugly and has good common sense/intelligence, bingo!
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A good mixture of both, though im inclined to lean a little more in the direction of beauty. Its hard to love someone if they are not at least somewhat physically attractive.
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I look for brains first.
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for me it depends on the mutual purpose and goal of the association. were I looking for a woman as short or long term life partner to share goals with I would want brains with a beauty that I am personally attracted to. for casual dating as long as I am physically attracted to her brains do not really matter.
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Depends on the guy. We are not all alike, you know.
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Can't I have both?
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Men will usually go for the level of brains & beauty that they feel best complements their own. Personality seems to be a big factor too.
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most of us are shallow so we look for beauty
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Beauty is near to last on my list. The most beautiful girl i have ever met wasn't considered beautiful in the eyes of most men. How they couldn't see what i see still mystifies me.
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I look for beauty with morals....seems to be a hard sale.
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