ANSWERS: 66
  • Did you ever listen to Frank Zappa? He has a song you should maybe give a listen to it goes something like this: What's the ugliest part of your body repeat It's not your nose, it's not your toes I THINK ITS YOUR MIND Cut and paste this on your fridge.
  • Sad way to spend a life.
  • Dude thats messed up.
  • Bad plan
  • I've known a lot of extremely physically unattractive people who were BEAUTIFUL once you got to know them. And the overwhelming majority of them are married so I'm wondering if the issue here is something other than physical appearance. Is that possible? And I'm a little concerned that this was posted in the Suicide section. Why did you post this here rather than is, say, the "Relationships" section?
  • If that is the incentive you need to succeed okay. When you have made a success of your life you will feel very different There should be nicer incentives but hey different strokes
  • That isn't a good idea. You should improve on your self esteem and be happy with who you are. Sure, strive to be a better person and have a nice job, but do it for yourself. You will find yourself with friends and maybe even love if you don't have an attitude like that. And you'll know it's for the right reasons, not about looks or money.
  • It is not the way you look, it is the way you carry yourself. Go to school and get a good job and/or start a successful business and carry yourself confidently. Be self assured and women will flock to you. A good sense of humor will help.
  • And that will work for you, how?
  • Dude that sounds awesome. WHO CARES about your motives to be sucessful fact is YOU ARE! GUYS WHO ARE SUCCESSFFULL TREAT GIRLS LIKE SHIT ANYWAY
  • Sounds fine if you want to become just like the people who treat you badly. If I were you, I'd do all of the above except, instead of treating women like shit, I would find some way of helping people then, who are your age now, so that they don't feel the same way you feel now.
  • I think its just a waste of money if you want to be hateful to people just do it right now.
  • Bring it on!
  • why not rise above and be a better person?i'm also ugly but i harbor no ill will towards anyone who has ever said anything to me.
  • http://www.watchtower.org/e/200805c/article_01.htm
  • It's cool that you want to improve your life, but vengeance is a waste of time & energy, imho. ;-)
  • sounds great up to the treat women like shit part
  • I think you'll be a bitter old hateful person, an ugly person.
  • well in that case you'll always be ugly. maybe you havent been treated badly because of your looks? food for thought.
  • Do unto others as they have done to you. Payback is a bitch.
  • If JAY-Z can hook-up with someone like BEYONCE--there's a chance for guys like US!!!! So forget the tit-for-tat and just be the BEST you--you can be!!! Good luck!
  • WHile getting that education... Make sure you learn how you should never become what you hate... and how counterintuitive it really is before you get there and exact your evil plot to take over the world one shallow asshole at a time.
  • If you look "ugly",it's not a problem.The problem is that you think really "ugly".
  • I think your hanging out with the wrong type of women and i dont think you should sink to their level! Being beautiful on the inside is way more important then what you look like!
  • do what ya gotta do.
  • Study, get a job, make money is a good plan. To hell with the rest it. Dont let revenge it you alive. Best revenge is coming at your high school reunion.
  • you're making yourself ugly by thinking that, you are what you make of yourself. why do you think people hate you?
  • You can change the way you look but you'll never change what's inside. Have belief in yourself
  • This is what to do: 1) Study well, get a scholarship. 2) Go to a good college. 3) Get a good job. 4) Now, just don't do anything and be nice. 5) Enjoy your friends and lovers! LoL. This is what you should do. Do not carry out your plan, please.
  • I think its a good idea, especially the part about treating the women like shit. Nothing spells out a good revenge like being sucessful.
  • Its a great recipe for a really unhappy life.
  • Go for it. Objective: Make tons of money. Suddenly you will be better looking than Brad Pitt. Surgery not required. Do not marry. If you really must marry, get a good lawyer and a pre-nup. What's love got to do with it?
  • The reason people think that is because you just confessed what your feeling on the inside; women really dont care about how good looking a guy is, they key in on who you are on the inside; sounds like they treat you like shit for a reason.
  • By all means get a job, gets lots of money and plastic surgery, but don't take revenge on others. I am sure you want to have inner beauty too. +4
  • Watch out for people coming back down the other side of that path....;-D... . http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/uur_nv_2m-4/
  • your idea sucks. good looking women get treated like crap too all the time. people can always find some shallow dumb reason to act like they're better than you for a minute. those people have their own issues... don't turn them into your problems. if their reason for looking down on you is that superficial and makes you feel small, it's bullshit. my advice is to get over your own insecurity. it's not easy... i've struggled with bad body image for years. find good friends who respect you and give you good advice. face your fears and go to a nude beach. it's better than staying at home and hating yourself. good luck.
  • Plastic surgery can't get rid of the ugliness inside you.
  • I was treated like shit to! Get like the F over it and quit crying about the petty BS!
  • Well I got treated like shit cause I'm a red head. (Im also a girl) I wouldn't change my hair and now people tell me how much they love my hair colour. My conclusion? The people who bullied me were bitter and jealous, so who cares? With that attitude where are they gonna get in life? Nowhere. So fuck them. DONT CHANGE YOURSELF.
  • I think it would make a better screen play than an actual life.
  • Sounds like a Two-And-A-Half men show! Go for it, at least you'll get some joy out of the retribution! Seems like alot of work though for what might not turn out to be so much joy ... but if you end up with lots of money and some good looks, maybe that's enuogh of an end game in and of itself, no?!
  • The best vengeance is happiness. Do well and be happy, and hold your head up high. I don't know how old you are, but I bet you are already handsome, but don't know it. If you have low self esteem, you may not realize how cool you already are. It will truly get better as the years go by.
  • it sounds like you, hate yourself, most of all.
  • As long as you limit your hatred and contempt only to the people who mistreated you, then you will do fine.
  • Sounds like you're ugly on the inside. How you look there is what matters to people. You're more then happy to treat others badly because of something that happened to you that they had no control over, and that is very wrong. In short, your idea sucks.
  • Your plan has one fatal flaw...looking good is almost more important than substance in many career situations. Get the surgery first.
  • True beauty comes from within. Even pretty people get old and lose their beauty. I suggest you forgive these people and accept you body for what it is. Then when you are old, you will be successful, and loved, and your looks will not matter. I know high school sucks. But once you are out of it and in college (to which I am guessing you are headed) you will have many more friends and other things to put your energy into instead of hating others who are just bitter and empty inside.
  • You sound very bitter. Perhaps that is the ugliness that people are seeing.
  • If you plan to treat women that badly, you'll be uglier than ever.
  • I would suggest that you get brain to think with first and stop feeling so damn sorry for yourself!!
  • I think your end objective and plan only lowers you. You know what? I've been there. Exactly where you are. I was NEVER popular as a child. Nor was I popular as a teenager. However, I did study my a** off in high school, college and graduate school. Along the way I received a commission as an officer in the U.S. Navy to help me mature. I also picked up an understanding of how to work with people...and lead them. The life lessons took a long time to figure out. People treated me poorly until I learned one important lesson - believe in myself. It took a long time, but once I truly bought into the fact that I am a worthwhile person, life began to fall into place. All of those who tormented me and hated me are now eating my dust. I'm not going to be featured on TV but my life (albeit challenging) is reasonably successful. I have a great wife, a child on the way, a promising career and a reasonable living. I am not that good looking. I'm not a genius. However, people with much less in terms of talent and looks have accomplished so much. It's all about your attitude...and a little luck. Being a pig-headed, overly determined, failure-averse person doesn't hurt either ;-). There's no point lying, but luck can make a difference. I've caught a few lucky breaks. Surely you will, too. Your question, which is more of a statement, suggests you feel wronged. Believe me, I've been just as depressed and angry as you. This may sound like overly positive crap (I cannot believe I'm even writing this), but if you forge through life, set some non-hateful and hurtful goals, and accept you for who you are (strengths and weaknesses alike) you can be happy. Good luck. I apologize for the rambling. If Tony Robbins sees this he can kiss my a**.
  • 1. this is a selective awareness. 2. if you believe in yourself, it will make it a lot easier for others to believe in you. treat yourself as you are the most beautiful person you know. work hard and live your life as yourself, and you will begin to notice that you will be treated just the same. p.s. most of the publicly swooned over "beautiful" people are just as insecure as the "ugly" people. p.p.s. life isn't fair. but beating yourself up over it, won't help at all. good luck regardless.
  • You're letting the negative actions of others have a reverberating impact on you. It's difficult to keep that from happening, I know. But you shouldn't give the mean ones the satisfaction of having any part of them carry on after they leave the room. In life, you can be a hammer, and egg, or a brick. A hammer can cause damage. An egg is fragile and breaks under certain pressure. A brick can take a hit. Be a brick, my friend.
  • Then there is Bill Gates. Not the most handsome guy in the world....probably considered a geek/nerd in school. He has lots of money, a wife and family, and I'm pretty sure he never had plastic surgery. Maybe you should rethink your plan, figure out where you passion lies, study hard, work hard and make a life for yourself. You would be amazed how attractive someone like that is to the gals! :)
  • I would say do all but plastic surgery and treating women bad. By the time you study, get a job, and get lots of money you will have met a new woman. One who didn't treat you like crap so you shouldn't treat her like crap. NOT all women are jerks! I promise. Give every individual a chance just as you would like for yourself.
  • I think that there might be something deeper then just looks
  • And that would serve what purpose? People may treat you different based on looks alone. But hating you because you are ugly, I don't think so. It couldn't be because of the attitude you are presenting to everyone. Either way treating people poorly in retribution will not make you happy, or get people to like you. Think about it.
  • It may not be your looks after all it may be your personality. It sounds very ugly.
  • harsh dude
  • Hope you die
  • i think two wrongs dont make it right and you shouldnt feel like youre ugly cause god dont make junk
  • It's good to have goals and focus in your life.
  • Revenge is not the answer.
  • I think that would put you right down there in the mudhole with them. Do you admire their ways so much you wish to emulate them and become like them?
  • Do you know for certain people think you are ugly? If there is hair on your head do you think a different haircut could improve your looks? Sorry to tell you there is no guarantee you'll make a lot of cash. My sense is you are very insecure. Maybe seeing a therapist could be helpful. Somehow I strongly suggest you work on your self esteem. Self help books, professional help or self improvement coures, videos are some suggestions. More power to you.
  • Never believe you are ugly and worthless. The Lord God said you are beautifully and wonderfully made. Remember this always. The Lord God doesn't make junk!

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