ANSWERS: 100
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cheating.
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Physical and emotional abuse/violence.
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Selling the BMW I gave to him (JK of course)
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selfishness, smoking, liar/cheater (different sides of the same coin.)
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There's plenty of things. Abuse, like Molecule said. Wanting children/not being okay with the fact that I don't. ... Which i guess isn't plenty but offhand I can't think of anything that there might not be a circumstance for. need food and sleep before i can think, i guess.
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Cheating or hitting :)
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abuse.
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Lying - abusiveness - drug use - smoking
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LIES, LIES, LIES. An decent relationship needs to be based on honestly and trust. If you dont have it (Lie lies about drugs, abuse, monogamy, money etc) there is no solid basis for a relationship to ewxist. Honesty is by far the pivotal point in a couples success...
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Cheating Abuse of any kind Heavy gambling
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i have "relationships", not necessarilly sexual, with persons of both genders. are you talking about a personal/sexual relationship.
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Cheating. Of any kind.
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Cheating , Dishonesty or any kind of abuse.
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abuse cheating lying
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Total neglect (then came the cheating and lying).
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She's a crack ho.
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Abuse of any kind Cheating Dishonesty
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Cheating. Dishonesty.
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Cheating - Im married and this is the one thing that would end it for me....he says the same.
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Biggotry.
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1. Can't/won't accept my children (now teens) 2. Drugs or Alcoholism 3. Infidelity 4. The slightest hint of abusive traits 5. Participates or supports hunting
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cheating
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a penis?
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if my husband suddenly decided he was homosexual
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Infidelity. Game over.
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cheating, abuse, and addictions
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1) history of naked hang gliding 2) butchering of the lyrics of Billy Joel. 3) habit of making whipped cream animals for "kinky" reasons. 4) unbending pretzels 5) hiding the remote in the cat.
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Lack of Trust, truthfulness, faithfulness & dependability.
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If she hates Trek.
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gender reassignment in process
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bigotry
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violence
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1) Dishonesty 2) Intentional harm, emotionally and physically 3) Violence 4) Insensitivity 5) Rudeness and overuse of swearing.
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1. Cheating 2. Lies 3. drug Abuse 4. alcoholic 5. emotional/physical abuse
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Physical/emotional/psychological abuse
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violence, cheating, incessant lying
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...relationships cannot actually be broken, they can appear to change form however... ...insistence in myself blocks the fluidity of the mind and therefore experience as well... ...if I sense myself becoming insistent, I step back, then let go of whatever it was I thought warranted so much of my attention or contention...
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Cheating...without a doubt.
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Not being apreciated for my conversation, my love, my affection, or my attempts to please her.
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Buying Diet coke instead of Regular Coke..........and her belongings are thrown out in the street.
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cheating.
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making me feel like im second best/a backup.
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Being shot
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He must truly love me. If he truly loves me, everything else will fall into place.
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Bitching about me slapping her around.
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Cheating. Been made to feel inferior.
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Cheating. That's something I could never stand for.
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(1) physical or emotional abuse of me or mine (2) married or otherwise committed (3) mental or emotional instability (4) any history of the above (5) stupidity (6) irresponsibility (7) addictions of any sort (8) too young or too old (9) a bunch of kids by miscellaneous stray women (10)you are a controlling butthole
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lying about anything...I hate liars!!!!!and manipulative people that make you out to be wrong all of the time!!!!
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almost plowing me with her car
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Cheating or either lying to me.
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1) Doing anything to harm my kids 2) Patronizing me 3) Disrespecting me (I don't mean once in a while disrespecting an opinion of mine, I mean just having no respect - but then "why would we be in a relationship" would be a good question).
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Not wanting the same things i.e. kids Cheating Lying
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Dishonesty. Or moving my stuff around where I can't find it.
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A flat chest. Before people try to physically hurt me, I'm KIDDING. Sort of...
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Disloyalty.
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I find out she's got man parts. That's the biggest I can think of.
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Obviously and clearly it would be cheating, however, all this other stuff you guys are discussing is part of life. No one on this earth is without fault. It is part of being a human. Addictions, alcoholism, mental illness, physical problems....these things your other half needs help with and rather than write them off you should offer to help if you love that person. Everyone falls sooner or later, it is not about money or status. Part of loving and being in love with someone unfortunately and fortunately is being there to help the other get through the rough patches. Would you want your significant other to dump you if you made a bad decision, told a white lie, smoked, did drugs or had/have a drug problem or an alcohol problem? Then no one would be with anyone. Everyone has problems and it takes a bigger and stronger person to help the other because sooner or later you will be the one that needs help. And wouldn't it be great if you got dumped or divorced because you had/have a problem. The true test of love is being there through thick and thin. If you really love the other person you have to sacrifice. The guy upstairs put us here to help one another. Of course the cheating stuff is not acceptable but it does happen and you need to decide if you are willing to forgive and try again. If you never learn to forgive you cannot move on in your life. Easier said than done. I have been there and wasted twenty years of my life but at least I tried. But if the other person really does not want to be in a relationship or be with you why the heck would you want to stay. The grass always looks greener on the other side....no kidding. Good Luck.
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Missing the birth of your child!
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Cheating and if someone is non-commital (ie. does not want marriage and kids in the future).
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Dishonesty of any kind.
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Cheating.
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If I find out she has a penis!!
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Just like some others - cheating will break a relationship for me, and it will break the other guy's fingers :P he should have been more careful! and if its a girl well then ill just be sad.......
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Excessive lying and physical abuse.
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If she is no longer trying to acheive her goal(s). Like she's just sort of floating through life like a peice of crap.
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death
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being unfaithful
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Abusive behavior, physical or emotional Cheating (likely but not definitely, depends) Destructive behavior which deteriorates quality of life Falling out of love. Loss of trust to the point where you feel insecure.
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cheating...that is it for me! Also, physical abuse.
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Abuse Cheating Disrespect
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Abuse, Cheating
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When a relationship is 100%-100%, or very close to it, and such seems to just come naturally without a lot of "work", you don't much think about "breakers". I've been in such a relationship for 36 years...and envied by many.
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Cheating. Almost anything else can be compromised.
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Lieing and cheating...I won't put up with either one... and I need a guy who's sex drive matches mine..
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halitosis and smelly feet.
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When the other person is so busy with so many other things and projects I feel they only make time for you as an after thought. This is in addition to their regular employment which is understandable.
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cheating. It's a total deal breaker
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being untrustworthy, be it in the form of lies or infidelity doesn't mater. If I can' trust you - you're not worth my time.
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Maintaining contact with an ex. Huge pet-peeve of mine when it comes to women. If her ex is her so-called good "friend," then I immediately move on. I'm not controlling and would never tell a woman who she can and can't be friends with, nor would ever give an ultimatum. The only person I can control is myself, and I just won't get serious with her. We can keep it casual, but I won't date her seriously. Dealt with the ex boyfriend thing a long time ago and it ended in complete disaster. Never again. I refuse to share the affections of a woman I'm seeing with a dude who USED to see her naked. No thanks.
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No blow jobs and cheating...those two would kill it..!
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Any sexual activity outside of the relationship.
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Any kind of cheating: phone sex, kissing, spending 'our' time with someone else.
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cheatin a second time physically or verbal abuse gettin pregnant by someone else or him getting someone else pregnant LYING!!!!
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Smoking, drinking, drugs, jealous behavior
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Drugs and cheating...
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THE deal breaker for me was the girl burping loud in public and talking and being rude to shinny girls she didn't know. yes she was very fat. but i liked her but we slit cuz she refused to not do those things in public.
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smoking,drinking and dishonesty
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Playing the tuba.
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Well; for me it would be Smoking, Cheating, and Dishonesty / Lying .... I would NOT tolerate any of the above behavior ...
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not knowing if she wants to be with me was so offencive that I told her not to come home.... I have since calmed down and am willing to take her back if she signs a postnup
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Dishonesty or Betrayal.
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Cheating
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Cheating, poor hygiene, lack of job.
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Cheating, obsessive drug user or lying etc.
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Lying or having stds.
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Smoking, drug abuse, too interested in sex.
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Naivety and low intelligence. Lack of self-respect. Whinyness and neediness. I like my women strong, independant, and smart.
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one person smoking cigarettes.
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eating living human infants. I just have low tolerance for that sort of thing.
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