my birthday is coming up and every yr my family will call but i resent that they ignore me the rest of the yr, I have tried myself to contact them at other times other than their birthdays so its not like im doing the same to them. but if i email or facebook them i rarely get a response, its like they reserve the talking for once a yr, my parents are gone so i cant get calls from them, my twin sister dont do that but my two brothers do that, i feel resentful that they wont contact me the rest of the yr, and hate picking up the phone that day, ive tried asking one of my brothers to call more often, he said he would but never did, i have nieces that wont contact me either unless its the big day, even if i facebook them or email them most of the time they wont write back. Im starting to really resent this, and not sure what to do. should i just take my phone off the hook or what? ive thought of doing that, other times ive deliberately took off to avoid calls but that dont work if they call the next day, i heard my aunt and uncle from uruguay are just going to email me, im disappointed cause i was looking forward to talking to them but then they only call once a yr too, i have a half sister that will call my sister all the time but wont call me, not even on the big day, i have no idea why; any suggestions on how to deal with all this? im really resenting it cause other times during the yr when im having a hard time cause of being out of work i hear nothing. when i couldve used s...