ANSWERS: 7
  • If you don't see him making any effort then let it be and move on. It seems like a game that I've been pawned into many times.
  • If he's not making any effort, why bother? Why not be with someone who is actually interested in making an effort?
  • Sounds like he's just hunting for a warm body to pass the time with until he moves on (again) to someone else. Unless he really pursues with intent and has made some changes (why did you break up in the first place?), I would advise you move on to someone else who WANTS to be with you.
  • They are ex's for a reason dont look back.
  • There's a reason or reasons you broke up. Unless those issues have been resolved, it's unlikely anything productive would result in getting back together. Good luck either way.
  • Nope, I would not have spoken to him, unless there are kids involved. Otherwise, I would let him see the back of my head only.
  • He's testing the waters = wants to see if you have found someone else or are still available. He likely does not really want to get back together, but is trying to see what's going on with you. Give him the boot and tell him life has been grand since you split up and you wouldn't remotely consider even having dinner with him again.

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