ANSWERS: 100
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It's only gay if he grabs your ass while your hugging him.
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Honestly, anything is only gay if you do it because you have a sexual desire for your own gender while doing it. So really, you can make peeling an orange gay if you're doing it to win the favor of a dood you want to play lightsabers with
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My husband hugs our son.(he is 35) My nephews (they are 32) hug my husband. Nothing gay about any of them.
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I know lots of guys who are NOT gay that hug other guys. And I know gay guys who don't hug other guys.
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only if the guys are actually gay. ...or if it's a straight guy who's completely insecure. Real men hug!
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its not gay if the balls dont touch. general rule of thumb.
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not at all
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Not in 1988 in Angola .. I saw Guys kissing each-other when the other Guy put his ass in a sling to safe his Mates life in a Contact ..
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Only if there's tongue involved.
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Only if you are insecure about your own heterosexuality.
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It's cool, but there is a 3 second time limit, and you are required to push or punch each other afterwords to assert your manhood!
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No. As long as the guy who hugs the other guy doesn't close his eyes.
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No.. I KISS my dad on the cheek (we're an Italian family) and I'm really really really straight. I hug friends and family all the time. I guess it's an American thing.
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If it is then I don't know any straight guys.... and I mean ANY.
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I hug everyone and I am not gay.
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You know what's REALLY funny..The MANY definitions we have for 'Gay'. First it meant 'happy', then 'homosexual', & now 'feminine'... To me, hugging another guy itn't gay, just uncomfortable, except at funerals (& maybe a wedding).
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Many Middle Eastern, and Southern Europeans hug each other out of customs,In fact they each kiss both cheeks.Many men the North America hug,friends,brothers,fathers and sons.It is not gay to do so.
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Only immature people who don't know many homosexuals would say it is. It's definitly an English/American thing, as other cultures kiss and hug all the time. Some of my straight male friends greet me with hugs and kisses, and it's no big deal.
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Of course not. If you hug your mother does it mean you want to have sex with her? That isn't what hugs are all about. It is sad that in our society men are not allowed to touch each other..in other cultures you see this happening all the time.
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No of course not.
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No, I just see it done with one shoulder and a cough at the end.
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no my boyfriend hugs everyone guys and girls
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No. Hugging your mother doesn't make you incestuous. Hugging your dog doesn't mean you are into beastiality. It's only gay if you have sexual feelings behind the hug.
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No, as long as you give three pats on the back. These signify the words "I'm Not Gay".
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Depends on the type of hug and the situation.
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No thats like saying hugging your father means your gay. To bad in this world it's looked down on. Theres nothing wrong with hugging anyone.
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no!..no!!...no!!! I can't add anything more except for ..NO!!!!
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Just dont grab his ass and you'll be ok. don't forget that patented "one arm hug with obligitory pat on the shoulder" move. Works best for straight guys. ;P
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No lol not unless you mean it in a gay way.
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"Clark! Now is not the time for a manly embrace!" -- The Tick, to Clark Oppenheim
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As long as there is no erection.
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In the ass?
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it so shouldnt be, in a normal sense.
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father and son
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It's only gay if it gives you a boner.
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Not unless there is a penis involved.
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it's gay when there's a sexual attraction between the two. that's it edit** and that's between the two of them and nobody else to judge
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No. Thats nonsense
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Not at all. my b/f hugs all his firneds and a few of them say I love you.
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only if they are picking out matching bath towels
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of course not! what a silly question!
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maybe if his finger goes in his........... just kidding. NO i don't think so. more men need to show affection towards eachother. in other countries it's quite common.
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It's only gay if both guys are gay to begin with and are expressing their love and sexual attraction for each other. The act of hugging is not "gay" in itself----it may be interpreted as such, between two guys, but then that's as stupid as saying "you're a racist because you picked a fight with a black guy (if you're white)." The act of fighting with a black guy is not racist. People of both sexes should hug more----we need more of that in this ugly world, and it doesn't matter who you hug.
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It SHOULDN'T be... Went to a friends' father's funeral, and was surprised when he hugged me. It's strange, simply because of how we were brought up, but it's not gay, nor is it wrong. Do you think all the sports players who hug are gay? I'm also glad they show macho guys hugging now and then in movies and on TV.
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Is it incestuous when you hug a family member? A huge is not a sexual act.
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Nope. Guys can hug whenever they want. We all have a Bro-mance.
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If they're both naked and well-oiled, yes. Probably not, though.
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not at all...now if you kissed him (even though other cultures this is a normal act)if I was dating you, I would have to let you go..
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No.
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Men need hugs too! Ascribing a sexual motive to something like a hug is false - otherwise it would become a sexual act between everyone who hugged. When a father/daughter hug, it's not about sex. When a father/son hug, it's not "gay". Therefore, when people hug, it's not about sexuality unless you make it about sexuality. Two men hugging is not gay unless they want it to be.
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in some countries stuffs lyk dat is considered. lyk yer kin hug a male member of yr family or a close friend.but in ma country ah think for a guy ta realy hug another kin only happen in parties whereby yer gettin drunk n yer just want ta hug yer friend for a laf.... wen havin fun. but if not dat, then it is completely gayish otherwise.hahaha
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No... Just dont grope when you hug and all is well.
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i've got a general rule among my friends. Lets say my hands are dirty, and i need to reach in my pocket, but i cant, so my pal has to do it. as long as he reaches in palm OUT, that is totally straight. if he goes palm in, thats gay, but he might not know the rule, so it still has a possibility of being straight. ANOTHER EXAMPLE, say my nads itched really bad, but both arms were broke and i couldnt scratch em, so my friend had to do it. same rule applies. Palms out, straight. palms in, queer. i guess the same could go for hugs. but we are all heterosexual lifemates, even the gay ones! its all just a game really.
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no
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no, i hug every one of my good friends as a greeting, however, the hug has to be my right arm over his left arm, his right arm over my left arm. a gay hug would be if i went over or under with both arms.
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yes its a very happy thing to do.
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Absolutely not.
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its not a gay thing, i hug my mates all the time, BUT it probably is gay if your worried about it being gay.
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No, guys hug all the time and do that back slapping thing, too. sometimes the butt slap:)
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No way hon, It's an act of friendship!
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yeh thats how you get gooties (gay cooties). rubbish answer but first thing that came into my head
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yes, LOL. of course it's not.
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Nope thats called a man hug :).
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I wouldn't think so.
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No. Not at all. But, here is a guide that can help the process go easier.
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no, its not..
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no............but you have to rethink that if grinding becomes involved.
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No
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No. It's gay for a guy to have sex with another guy. I'm pretty sure you're alright with just hugging...
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No, not at all.
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No..
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Only if they are both naked.
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Not at all....the hard on part is another story
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No, but if there is cupping of the buttocks then it's questionable.
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Only if he gets a boner. Otherwise, uhm, no. In several other cultures (such as parts of Southeast Asia and parts of Africs) it is commonplace to see to men walking while holding hands.
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If you start to kiss the other guy or grab his ass then you might be a little gay. Otherwise no a guy hugging another guy is not gay.
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No!
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Plenty of men hug one another as a greeting or a form of comfort. It's not uncommon to see men hug one another at church, for example. Nothing gay about a hug, unless as Chezter said, you have ulterior sexual motives when you do it.
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no way. its gay not to
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Ummmm - NO !!!
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No - they are just being friendly
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no, i don't think it is.
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Uh, no. Unless both of them are gay and they are a couple.
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Where did you get an idea like that?
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As a woman, I feel good hugging men or women, and people don't question that I'm a lesbian. Why can't a man hug another man to feel good and not be gay? This double standard needs to be pointed out.
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It's definitely not gay. Unless, there are other feelings underlying the hugs. If you are comfortable with your sexuality, and know that you don't feel anything but a platonic friendship for your mate when you hug, it isn't gay. Plus, I believe hugs are completely natural and fine.
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Not necessarily, it depends on the local custom. A hug at greeting or departing is pretty common in many places, especially among close friends. More than that will make most people uncomfortable, at least in North America - we have to have our personal space.
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its not gay. i havent hugged any guys outside my family though and thats only when im saying goodbye to my grandparents really.
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sometimess in some cultures it seems gay... but if its in a man to man way like u no how the yo(ErS) hug.. it could be fine.. but its how its done.. that makes people say its gay or not
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i dont think it is its like a girl hugging another girl, why is that seen as "normal" then when a guy hugs another guy thats seen as gay...? ok unless one of the guys are actually gay then no, it dosnt mean they are gay. sometimes a friendly hug is nice, although som guys may be major homophobs so that is possibly where the idea of guys hugging being gay comes from:) x
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Only if they're both gay.
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Not always. It depends who hugs who, why, and how. I think this 4 minute video really helps! (LOL)
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No. My friends and I hug all the time. I love my friends, they're the best. I even have a friend who's gay, and I hug him, no big deal. It's not gay for guys to hug, it's gay for guys to have sex together.
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i dont think so but this video is FUNNY
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if while hugging your only thinkin about you pelvis touching his..then yes
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nah dude i gave this guy a hug of appology after hitting on his girl by accident...no gay there man
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No. Seems to be a very common practice these days.
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It's only gay if they are sexually attracted to each other...what an ignorant question...
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No..but it is a downright shame if a guy won't hug another guy for fear of being thought gay.
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Nope, but it's gay to be worried about it.
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