• It would be good to set some clear boundaries with your mother about what's acceptable and what is not what you can deal with and what you can't. Family counseling would be a good idea. For now it may be best to back off from the family and take care of you. You may want to check out some self-help books from the library that can help you deal with this sort of thing as well.
  • You tell them both the same thing. You love them nut you will not ne caught in the middle and that includes gossisping to each othet about what the other one is doing and you dont want to hear about their dating lives. Take mom out for coffee occasionally to kerp in touch or to a movie. Do not involve yourself in brothers sneaky gossip. You get into therapy for awhile.

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