I am happily married. I went out the other night and drank WAY too much with some friends. While chatting with a random couple, they said we should have a threesome. NO WAY, but I did laugh and give the girl a joke peck kiss on the lips. Did I cheat?
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Nope, Just a friendly peck, but your wife might not like it, I wouldn't do it again :-)
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Did you go on to have sex with one or both of them? If not, then the answer is no.
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No.
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No,but be careful it seems drinking makes you do things you don't normally do. You might have been 1 drink away from waking up with 2 other people.
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no you didnt cheat but your wife might not take it so lightly, best you never ever mention it
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Oh, it's me again... I forgot to mention in my post that I AM the wife. So it was a girl-to-girl joke peck kiss. Does this make it any worse or better?
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No, I would say it was innocent. BUT if you think about it more than you should, well then youve entertained the idea and I would have to say, yes its cheating.
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It's me again... So, does anyone think I should tell my husband, or would it be best to just forget about it and move on?
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If it truly was a joke of a kiss and you didn't feel any excitement, or arousal at the thought, then I'd say it was nothing more than an awkward situation and you were fine. You should probably be more careful who you spend time with when you're drinking though. As one person commented already, you may have been just a few drinks away from some major regrets.
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No, not cheating. If your husband is anything like my partner he would be totally turned on by me kissing another woman, but you would know best as to whether you should tell your husband.
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no,most men would find that a turn on.
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Unless you had the intention of actually following through on the offer, no. It sounds like you were just in an awkward social situation.
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I would not call it cheating. I would say that having too much to drink is never an excuse for bad behaviour.
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I would say no... If I found out that my partner did that I wouldnt be happy that they pecked another person, but I would be proud that they left it at that.
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No, but if you're smart you'll stop putting yourself in situations that can lead to trouble. Tell your husband. It's not a big deal and he'll likely be flattered that his wife was so coveted.
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No, i would not call that cheating. :)
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Depends on how you felt. Your wife might feel otherwise if she knew, and her perception would be important as well in that case. I'd say you skirted the fine line there where you could easily have crossed into territory you don't need to go. Count yourself lucky.
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