ANSWERS: 34
  • i believe i'm hated by the one i love.
  • Yes I have. I lived with a man who was a different race than I am. I'm white, he was black. I was harassed by the police, given poor service at restaurants, and disowned by my family. Although I was never harmed, physically, I am certain our relationship garnered a fair amount of hate.
  • I have been in the reverse situation. The people I am surrounded by will stand behind me whatever decision I make. Sadly, I cannot say that about some of the men I have dated. Then again, I cannot say that I have always been given a fare shake. If you ARE hated for someone that you are dating, and that is why you are asking this question, take a good look at who is hating you and not you or the person you are dating.
  • Nope! :)
  • Not by those that I care about (at least, not to my face). I've had bigots yell at me when we've been to Pridefest here...but, I just shook my head and walked away from those morons. And they all claim to be "doing God's work"....yeah, He told you to skip church and come down to tell us all we're sinners and going to Hell? Look in the mirror, hypocrite! I was in the closet for so long because I feared rejection from my family and friends....only to find out when I did come out that they love me just the same. If I only knew sooner...I wouldn't have wasted so many years!
  • I've been hated for liking certain rock bands and sports teams, not for loving a certain individual.
  • Yes. Sadly, my mom said that if I continued to date my current boyfriend, she wouldn't love me anymore because she hates me. It really hurts me to have to choose between two things I love.
  • I had someone quit being my friend once because I became friends with someone she considered and enemy... even though I knew nothing of the feud between the 2 of them. She came to her senses eventually.
  • yes i have. its just sad really how cruel people can be.
  • No everyone I ever met loved my husband. In fact I think my family loved me more because of him.
  • I feel as though I am. He was my first love, and I think I didn't treat him well, because I loved him. He will not talk to me and has made it very clear that I am not to be in contact. Yes, I think he hates me.
  • I don't know about "hated", but I've definitely had people opine on my choice and cut me out of their lives because of it. It seems they know better than I whom I should devote myself to. I used to be bothered by this, now I see it as a valuable lesson learned: there are tests you can run to find out who your real friends are. This is one of them: how do they respond when you make a choice they don't approve of? Do they give the benefit of the doubt, or do they presume that their snap judgment is superior to your long-considered judgment? Do they listen to what you have to say about it, or do they just "go off" like a gun? Now I'm glad I have this experience under my belt. I was mistaken in the past: I thought that just being open and friendly with everyone was a good way to be, but now I see you need to temper that with the realization that some people are much more interested in their own judgments and opinions than they are in your welfare, and trusting them... letting them deeply into your life, is risky.
  • Yeah, I guess you could say that. She hates me, because I love her. Really, it's her own fault...but I guess it doesn't matter, because I never have to see her again if i don't want to. Besides, have more important people to worry about.
  • Yes, I absolutely have and am. I can't go into details on AB, however. Sorry. :)
  • Yes I am now. I love Jesus and there are millions who hate me for that.
  • No I never have but I can imagine how horrible that would be and I wouldn't wish it on anyone :(
  • No, I haven't. But I have homosexual friends who deal with this problem on a large scale all the time...It's an awful thing to see the toll something like that can take on people you care about.
  • Yes. A pal's 18 year old sister (when I was 26) who really had a crush on me and was now a legitimate prospective date. I disappointed my buddy, but he was a control freak anyway. I partially rationalized it by trying to believe I was helping him overcome his control/power issues! ;-)
  • well my ex-boyfriend hated me when i fell in love with his best friend, lol .. soooo yes
  • Yes, but only by my family,
  • I think so. I didn't really know the people though.
  • No, No one hates me. It's a curse.
  • Sure. I've been in mostly inter-racial relationships my whole life. Some people are... just flat racist.
  • Yes! I hated myself! I just couldn't help falling for the creep!....LOL
  • Yeah my mom dropped me like a hot potato when i hit the 2 year mark with T. She didnt like that i didnt date only black buys like her and dropped me.
  • Yes, but it wasnt a person that I loved, it was my dog! He was very agressive and he was a biter, but he was very loyal and loving to me, never bit me once. Some of my family hated me for loving my dog. I know it was wrong for me to keep him after biting someone, but I thought I could somehow change him, til he bit my husband last week. I was forced by my family to have him euthanized, now I miss him dearly, but I think I did the right thing even though I regret it :( ... I miss you, Bugaboo!
  • Hated, maybe not but given a very very hard time. I worked in a gift shop for 18 months, met a woman on the internet and moved town. A year later., wanted to work there again, they werent happy I left and why and made rules on no internet dating and the like. They were difficult and awkward with references and so in the end left again, and made a really big point that it was illegal and it was very embarassing for the shop
  • Yeah. Hatred usually eminates from ignorance.
  • Hi Jodie my girl, How are you? I am hated all the time for loving Allah. I am obviously Islam. I have lost lots of friends and some family members. :{
  • ive never had anyone tell me that they hated any of my previous partners nor my current one.....infact i think my parents love him more than me now :S and i know the opposite side to the question as my current partners family hates me and have repeatedly told others about it yet didnt have the courage to say it to my face...its horrible when people hate you when they've never truely given you a chance ive never been nasty to them i always made the move to contact them as my partner refused to as he doesnt like them i think the only thing that stands out is the fact i have an elder son whom isnt my partners and they refused to treat him as part of their family even tho my partner treats him like his own flesh and blood. i remember one time after having my daughter it was xmas and my partners grandmother decided to visit to drop off gifts 2 bags of gifts. we exchanged presents but she refused to give the bags over and just placed them under the tree after she left i took the gifts out the bags and not one was for my son but all were for my daughter i think thats a very nasty horrid and vile thing to do to a 6 yr old i returned the gifts and to b quite frank im glad they hate me keeps them from my door
  • Yes...by the US government and countless of other closed-minded Americans who won't allow homosexuals to marry or have equal rights.
  • No. Its more like I've been hated for who I don't love.

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