Women only: why do all women look for a men with looks and money over someone who would be loyal, kind and loving.
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ak_spook
ANSWERS: 61
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Not all women.. at least I'm not one of them.. Why are they like that? I do not know. But I want to make sure that you know, not all women are like that..
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I picked the loyal,kind and loving one.
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Why do all men make sweeping generalizations about what women look for? Oh, wait... Not all of them do! ;)
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Not all of us are like that. I look for the loyal, kind and loving type myself. Someone with a good personality. Anything after that would be a bonus.
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I certainly don't, the ones with money and looks are usually ba**ards!! been there and learn't my lesson the hard way, my chap is good looking and can earn good money but he is loyal and loving and thats all i want, he could be a bin man and i wouldn't care as long as he is loyal and supportive.
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I don't...
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No I dont! I prefer loyal men above rich men.
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I am a boy but still I would like to answer your question. Not all women prefer men with money. If they had, then by this time we would have had millions of bachelor senior citizens!
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Erm - we don't?
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All women do not look for a man with looks and money.
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"ALL" women do not.
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Looks initially attract you to a person, the personality traits you mentioned would keep me talking to the man. You need a good combo of everything, honestly. I think that's what most women are looking for.
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Money has never been important to me...and as far as looks go...well, thats all a matter of perspective.
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All women? I will take loyal, kind and loving every time.
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Money has never really mattered to me although a job would be nice. Even a crappy job so long as he's working. Looks; however, normally spark the initial interest. Honestly I prefer the kind loyal and honest guys now, but it's getting difficult to sift through the bulls**t to find them.
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I'd pick the second option anyday. Of course - the loyal, kind and loving guy has to be at least decent looking. I find myself more attracted to someone's personality than what they look like on the outside, anyway. A shallow, hot guy is okay for a fling but I'd rather settle down with the nice guy.
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I don't!
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http://divalion.livejournal.com/163615.html A woman responds to this allegation, at length.
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You're talking to a woman that found a guy who lived at home and had a job working in a grocery store as a box boy and drove an old VW bus! He IS the most kind and loving and gentle man. And we've been married for 34 years.
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Not all women. For instance, some women are gay. ---- ADDED --------- As far as not gay women are concerned... Maybe in societies which do not give women the possibility to make money, and as they sometimes would have to stop their career to participate more in the education of small children, they look for a man who could support them financially. Moreover, many people, men or women, are more impressed by appearances than by true values. Particularly if they are looking for an adventure. But there are also some women who are looking for someone serious, be certain of this.
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There's men out there who are loyal, kind, and loving? For the same reason a lot of men want a woman who looks like a Barbie doll over a woman who is loyal, kind, and loving.
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Women don't do that. Golddiggers do.
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I never did that even once
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Not ALL women do. I can attest to that because I'm not one of those gold digging broads who only marries for money. There are SOME women out there like that, but they're the minority (though it is nice to feel secure financially). I am in love with, live with, and am in a relationship with someone who is attractive to me, but not necessarily in a "traditional" way (super fit, nice clothes, styled hair, etc.). And he's definitely NOT rich. In fact, right now he's unemployed. So you can put that in your pipe and smoke it. Just because you've met a few women who are like that, don't lump the ENTIRE gender together. You haven't met literally everyone on earth, so to assume literally every woman, from the beginning of time, to the end of time, acts like that is a big, fat, load of bullshit. Also, if you put a period (.) at the end that makes it a sentence/statement. If you put a question mark (?) at the end, that makes it a question. ;)
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That is an unfair generalization to make. Not all women do that. Maybe just the ones you've gotten to know. My boyfriend is loyal, kind, loving, and more. I would not trade him for any other guy at the moment and hopefully it will be the same way in the future. I love him for who he is, not for the size of his wallet.
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Don't generalize. I don't care about looks or money, or I would never have married the men that I did.
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Not all women do that. Some women (and men too!)feel like they would rather have security over love. I think that they live very sad lives of desperation if they pick a partner for those reasons rather than someone that they enjoy being with and that makes them happy. Money and appearance doesn't take away loneliness and being miserable with the wrong person every day.
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I would say that definatley not all women would look for a guy who has looks and money. Actually i'm pretty sure more women would look for trust and love and loyalty. So ur like way wrong on that one buddy.
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If they do, it's probably evolutionary instinct.
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Money to me, doesn't mean "money"... it means holding down a stable job and being able to relax and not stress about bills. I would like to be comfy with my squeeze.
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No no! Ive never dated for money. Although I have dated a man who had an overabundance of it. I had an Escalade, a MonteCarlsSS, and a GTO. I couldn't tell you how many times I've screamed That F*CKING Escalade didn't wipe my tears, or hug me back, or tell me that it loves me... because he never did. Take that fat wallet....and shove it.
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Well they do at first, but after realizing all the other woman are after the same thing, which includes their boyfriend or husband and they get hurt, the loyal, kind, and loving take the forefront.
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You are painting with a mighty broad brush, dear. My loyal, kind, loving husband would never win a beauty contest, but he is beautiful to me. I was originally attracted by his warmth and humor and I still am! Depends on what you mean by money. The ability to hold down a steady job and earn a living wage goes more to character in my book. Only one of my friends chose a really hunky looking guy, and he does not have much money but he does have a huge heart and a wicked sense of humor. I guess don't know this ALL to which you refer. Are you considering only women with looks and money?
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First of all how can you say all women second who says that a ltal kind and loving man can't have looks and money
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Not all women do that.... just like not all men do that... i no that i personally look for a man who is sweet, can sweep me off my feet, and cares and gives me the respect that i deserve.... i think thats what most women want.... maybe you are just looking at the wrong kind of woman...if thats all a women looks at she must be very insecure about other things in her life.
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Well,i think most women will pick the guy with the looks and the money even if he is the biggest idiot in the world. All the talk about :girls are looking for love and caring" is just talk.
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I wasnt looking for looks and money- and I got a loyal, kind, loving, husband!
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Well. They don't. I think that's a total generalisation. And I don't believe that's true. Some women, maybe. But if all he can offer is money and looks, I'd say she's pretty damn shallow.
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just because a man is attractive and has a good job doesn't make him a sleaze ball cheater
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I would rather be poor and happy than rich and miserable, anyday.
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I am one of those women you seek the handsome and rich-- But the great personality is the thing that ALWAYS gets me. The personality is what makes someone beautiful
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Imma man but I think it's because they want a good first impression while walking around with him.
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not all women, i would rather have someone loyal,kind and loving. which im lucky to have found.
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I don't....lol.
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I didnt, my partner is loyal, kind, loving and good looking. money and looks are not as important.
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That isn't true. Stop generalizing. I have never been attracted to a man for his money, and his looks are not important in any meaningful way. I will always pay more attention to his mind, heart and attitude.
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You must have something wrong with you, if women are using looks and money as an excuse. Most of us prize personality over anything else. I suggest you take a look at your own, before you make a sweeping accusation.
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Sweeping generalizations like that are infuriating to me. Women aren't all alike, don't like the same things and don't all belong to some club. Looks and money are nice. Loyal, kind and loving are nice. This woman is attracted to men who respect me for my professionalism, my intelligence and for my sexy body. Just like men, we're a complex package.
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I think that some attractiveness has to come into play to draw me in. But women don't look for money all the time..at least I don't. It is a bonus, but all in all I think women just want someone to love them wholeheartedly
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hell no, its just easier to find aman with looks and money than a kind, faithful man. Good men are much more rare than rich men.
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All women don't. I would never date a guy just because he has money or good looks. If he's wealthy enough or attractive enough his money and/or looks can actually be negatives. ;)
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Where do you go looking for woman? We aren't "all" like that at all.
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That's not what I'm looking for in a man!
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Looks and money are not things I look for in a man :)
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All women do not just look for a guy with looks and money. I for one am more attracted to a guy's personality over anything else he has to offer.
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probably from the old school way of home maker and bread winner. if we are to go through labour pain, we want beautiful babies, there go his look! and money? it just works better that the man provide it, say if mothers have to go to work outside the home, who will tend the nest then? and making sure the children get a quality up-bringing? not saying i d go for a serial killer if hes handsome and rich but it doesnt seems wise in long term marrying someone who cant keep their finances straight and gives no care about how he looks(how do i honour the marriage bed then?). loyal, kind and loving are equally essentail tho, without these, i doubt if i d even fall in love in the first place.
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greed
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well, men are just as bad. they look for the hottest idiot they can find and screw them, its basic science.
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NOT THIS GIRL
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That is absolutely not true for every woman. I appreciate kindness, loyalty, and love and so do many women. Stop being so shy and ask us out already.
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"all women" ?? i'd pick a loyal one over a rich one anyday.
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