Would you rather have a big wedding or a small intimate one?
by 
BarnKat007
ANSWERS: 42
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I had one big one and two small ones, so at this point, it doesn't matter! :)
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A small wedding with immediate family only but a BIG wedding reception with everyone- Answerbaggers invited :)
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intimate. It is more memorable. A big one is a whirl wind!!
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a small intimate one....i dont have the friends to invite to a big wedding lol
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I had 2 small ones....I don't think I missed out on anything except I never got to wear a wedding gown. I do wish I had got to do that though.
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With my out-laws? I am planning on financing my childrens elopements.
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I had a small-to-middle sized wedding. We had 35 guests total.
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If I get married I would want a small one, or in between. Not that it matters, I probably wouldn't get to decide anyway...she would!
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I think I would like a nice, small one. It wouldn't be near as much to deal with. Movies make the big ones look terrifying.
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I've experienced both; small and intimate is better.
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small
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a small intimate one........theres somthing about big gatherings i dont like....:D
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The smaller the better! Mine will consist of only 3 people total!
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I would have to say that I personally (if I had the money) would like a big wedding, for me the more the merrier. But I wouldn't be devistated if it had to be a smallish wedding either.
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I had 11 people total (including bride, groom and commisioner) and I was VERY happy with it. I'm not against big weddings either, I've been to a few and have had TONS of fun, but I think the smaller ones are more romantic and personal.
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i got married in june this year and my husband and i choose a small, informal wedding. we had around 40 guests in total and a buffet reception. we enjoyed every minute of our day. i was able to speak with everyone and i knew every person there.
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If I ever do get married... It will probably be on a tropical island or in hawaii, with my family and closest friends... and his family and his closest friends... But that's IF I change my mind about marriage...
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small ...why waste the money on a big or huge wedding, the money saved would be much better used say as a house deposit(average weddings cost $20,000 to $25,000)..I know its the brides 'biggest day' but the amounts spent are a joke... so spend lees get the same result and put the moneies saved to better uses
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I think small would be better
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If or when I am ready to move on with my life and find someone to love that much I think small and intimate would be they way I would like to go. However that is something I would leave up to the girl to decide since the day is all about her anyway.
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I had a very small wedding because my & husband & I where didn't care about the fluff that most people do..NowADays people get competitive w/ weddings & try to be "unique" and out-do others to impress people. It isn't about the size of the wedding, just who's getting married
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We had a big wedding, but if given the choice to do it over again, we would take the small route. The wedding is about you and your spouse, not 300 of your closest "friends"
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Small and intimate.
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I had a small one..and it was beautiful! there were only 5 people present...including myself, my husband and the person marrying us.
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I prefer a big one. I want everyone to know Im getting married to such a wonderful man....altho I havnt found him yet.
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i would prefer a small wedding to a big one any day, i think its more personal that way. i like to know everyone at my wedding not have alot of total strangers or long lost relatives.
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The smaller the better.
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It depends on how much i can afford. If i am able to afford a lavish and a big wedding i will go ahead. If i cannot afford a big one i will settle for a small intimate one.
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i better have small intimate one rathere than spending thousands of dollars in a day that i will need the rest of my life.
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I would have loved to have had a big wedding. I really wanted to invite all my family and all my friends. Sadly, our budget didn't allow for that and we had to make it much smaller, much to the disapproval of others.
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I think would rather have a smaller wedding. That way there's a little less to worry about and you get to spend more time talking to each person.
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I had a morning Brunch wedding...small and intimate and w/ jazz musicians. We had Eggs Benedict, eggs anyway, omelets, bountiful fruit, tasty breads and a cake that was a liquour Strawberry cake. We married at a country club so no traveling once we were all there. Open bar, juices a plenty and it was a lot cheaper than had we had a later wedding! We had a view of the mountains on one side and the golf course on the other. The atmosphere was perfect and had friends and family who we all knew. 60 people! Would do it again that way.
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A small intimate one ....that's what I had and if I go back I woun't change a thing.
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I would have a small wedding with family and a handful of friends. Sweet and simple
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personally i would rather have a small wedding and be able to really spoil my guests with a wonderful meal and band and etc
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Had a big one. If I ever do it again, it will be small. I would like to have it in a hot air balloon with just two witnesses and a priest. Oh, and the guy operating the balloon would be useful too.:)
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My husband and I had about 100 guests at ours. When we have our wedding vow renewal, I want to have it even bigger. Not all of our family members were able to attend. We both have large families. We only had family and close friends, though.
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small intimate why the hell would you want hundreds of people you don't know there maybe because of wedding gifts i guess, so i see now.
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small with around 100 people. just close friends and family, we could go to a nice hotel and stay for 2-3 days so we can celebrate my wedding. p.s my sister had 8000 guests in ger wedding, he made 30000 pounds that night
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i want both, but if i get married maybe a big one?...and then a small one lol...
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I would much rather have a small intimate wedding. If we could get married and it only be the two of us it would be alsome.
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we had a medium sized one, about 200 guests:)
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