Would you agree to an arranged marriage - but with a very beautiful person?
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crazytamil
ANSWERS: 41
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No, because I wouldn't know what their personality was like (probably)-they could be an abuser
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no. i wouldnt know what the person was like. he might be the most good looking person in the world but he might have the worst personality ever.
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never. i am not a possesion. i only love/marry out of free will and with someone i chose myself/feel connected to/love.
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no i would need to no everything about thet person. thay mabe beutiful on the outside but rottern on the inside
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Beauty is not that relevant in a marriage. It wears off, after a time: the person you couldn't keep your eyes off today become boringly familiar in a few years. A really *nice* person - caring, about the right intelligence - that would work. Good cooking or good DIY would also help.
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My marriage was arranged, I proposed and she arranged it!
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I would only marry ,and cautiously, who I meet on my own,and outer beauty would not be the primary factor in my choice.
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Beautiful like you? It would be difficult to disagree!
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No. Looks arent important to me. And I tend to do the opposite of anything someone tells me I HAVE to do.
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No. At the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what if they broke their nose, or had an accident which made their face distorted? If they were shallow or just an unpleasant person I would'nt fancy sleeping in the same bed with them or chatting to him when we have tea if the conversation run dry. If you love someone I think a good character shines outwards, making them good looking.
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No, I have had one very happy marriage and I do not believe anyone could choose a mate for me.
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I'm happy married, so no I wouldn't agree.
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If I were not married.... I would agree to an arranged marriage if he were at least mildly attractive, had good hygiene, was kind and would not beat me or keep me prisoner and had lots and lots of money..... (But I can only say that because I have already - and still do - have great love...so it is not something missing in my life)
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Ok. When?
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Possibly depends on the situation I'm in and the persons personality. Just to make it clear, I don't care about the persons looks, even if that wasn't part of the question my answer would be the same.
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I think i will
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Its an extremely small possibility even if they are as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside... I would rather be able to choose my life's partner for myself instead of being tossed into an arranged marriage...
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No, I would like to choose who I will spend my life with. Beauty is a small part of what I look for.
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No way..beautiful, lot of money etc,just nit worth it.
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Arranged by who? Even if its the people I know very well I wouldn't feel confident about the marriage and it could either be wonderful or a disaster.
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Arrange me with Johnny Depp or Clive Owen, and consider it done. EDIT: Or Ender.
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Arranged with my boyfriend sure. XDDD Seriously, no I want to choose who I want thanks. >.<
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No. I have to be close to the person no matter what. I couldn't love a complete stranger. We don't know each other and we wouldn't know how our life would unravel.
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Nope no matter how good looking they are.
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absolutly not...I need more to stimulate me as a person than looks
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I've heard that arranged marriages actually work out for the best most times...so sure. Why not.
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If that is the only way to get a woman then HELL YEA!!
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NO WAY JOSE!!! I understand that this is a tradition in some countries but I guess I was raised diffrently. All I know is that I am my own person and I really want to know what I'm getting myself invoved with....not knowing is a little scary and I don't want to be in a marriage where scary is my first reaction to a guy...I want it do be "Hey your pretty nice."...not..."Whats your name again?"
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yes , i'm geting an arranged marriage . i have seen him he is very beautiful :) but beauty isn't the reason i said yes .
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absolutely not.I married my first wife because she was so pretty, married my second because she was so sexy and had the nicest rear I had ever seen, I'm divorced again and the one thing I learned is there has to be a lot more than beauty and sexiness to make a marriage work, you should be very good friends a long time before getting married,that is not possible with an arranged marriage.
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yes i wanna agree arranged marriage but i don't believe beauty as a factor of marriage,honest is the best policy.
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I have two friends who have had arranged marriages. Both of them are very happy with their lives. Their husbands are both attractive and successful, but most importantly, respectful and loving. Both of these ladies were brought up in cultures where arranged marriage is the norm. Both were very nervous about the idea initially, but accepted it. Based on their experiences, I would have chosen an arranged marriage had I had the option.
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Beauty matters, but it's the inner beauty that counts. even if it is arranged by parents, you have the option to withdraw if not happy before the marriage take place. I'm up for an arranged marriage and scared too.
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Only if I knew them already and loved them. If not, then it would definitely be no.
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No. Beauty only lasts so long. They could be in some kind of unspeakable accident and it disfigures them- if not, old age will set in. It has to be about the person and who they are, not just what they look like. And I couldn't do arranged marriages anyway. It's so impersonal and not about what you want. I need to choose who is best for me.
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yes even if she is not beautiful i wanna agree 'coze in my community all marriages are arranged by tha man's parents.
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Most of my family members have arranged marriage and they are happy ever. I picked my wife myself, and divorced her after 8 years.
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I would only want to marry for love, not because someone wanted me to marry their son.
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no. i choose my life partner, not anybody else.
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I might agree with a rich one
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nope:) Thankfully I found my hubby on my own and lucky for me, he;s sexy as hell:)
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