What is your opinion of a woman who has been divorced twice? Would she make a good wife the third time?
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Neptune66
ANSWERS: 26
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The odds are against it, but it HAS been known to happen.
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If she finds the right man the third time!
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It depends on whether she's learned from her failures. Well, her share of the failures.
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Without knowing the woman or the circumstances of her first 2 marriages it is really hard to say. I can tell you, that I know of two women (my cousin and my ex-sister in-law), who are both on their third marriage and it seems to be the one that is sticking. My cousin had two marriages when she was quite young, but her third marriage is going on 20+ years.
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A gal I know is on her third marriage and it's the longest lasting of all of her unions. She married a fellow Chrisitan the third time so that might help a bit. My sister in law is on her third marriage.. I don't know how long this one will last.
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Depends on her choice of 3rd husband....and why the marriages failed. Altho' they say it takes 2 for a marriage to fail, that is only true if neither party was abusive or unfaithful. If her former spouses mistreated her or were disloyal, perhaps the reason for the divorces was not her fault at all. In which case, if the third husband is honest, and has integrity, and treats her well, chances are she would be a happier wife as a reflection of a suitable husband.
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Why not! Try to learn from past mistakes and be hopeful for the future...!!
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Depends entirely upon the woman and why she was divorced. The criteria for a good wife doesn't change simply because a woman is divorced.
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1) Your use of the passive voice ("who has been divorced") instead of the active voice ("who has divorced") suggests that her partner took each time the decision. If this were the case, this could mean that although she was twice in a bad marriage, she did not want to leave it herself. A reason could be that she did not consider the marriage to be bad or that she wanted to fight to keep it running. This would be a good thing for another marriage. 2) A reason why the other marriages did not work could also be that she did not have the appropriate husband. Maybe she learned in the meantime what kind of husband could be better for her. Another reason could be that she made some errors herself. Some people learn from their errors (but others don't).
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odds are either she she had issues that will make mairage unpleasant or she had bad taste (which is another issue) if you are a good guy then maybe she finally learned her lesson... or she is messed up. if she changes teh day you sign the wedding papers get an anulment.
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Know way to know, Mumtaaj. She may have made bad choices in men...or she may have been the bad choice. She is really no more of a risk than marrying a woman who has never been married...unless you know more about her...Marriage is always a risky business, but those who have known each other the longest usually do better.
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Based on that information alone I would say no. Biggest thing I would look for is whether or not she talks poorly of the previous two. If so, run. If she can still speak kindly, or at least not speak about them then she's an adult and the first two simply weren't a good pairing.
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If she is 19...unlikely
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I would say no but you never know.
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If she did the divorcing, then from experiance I'd say no. My s/o's mother divorced 2 guys because they couldnt make as much money as she spent. Talks about both of them and says horrible things about them infront of their kids. She now refuses to marry thinking that shes a victim in both relationships, but now she also wont date anyone that isnt making lots of money. Or in another case, my bestfriends mum married a guy who treated her kids like his own until they got married, marriage lasted a week because he tried to kick the older one out of the house and slapped my friend. So it really depends on the circumstances.
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Third times the charm.
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Oh, sure, third time's the charm...unless it's not, of course
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In my opinion, I think if she has been divorced twice, she would most likely make a very bad wife the third time. There are reasons she divorced the other two times. So whomever marries her the third time is taking chances. However, things to look for: Were her parents happily married forever? Is she religious? Has she had premarital sex? Women who have had premarital sex have a higher chance or divorce and cheating. Has she ever cheated?
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theres no way of knowing. there are limitless possibilities. maybe she is the problem, maybe she choses bad men, maybe she married very young and has grown up, maybe she refuses to forgive cheating, etc. I would no sooner rule her out than i would rule out a man who has been twice divorced(unless he was cheater, he is auto disqualified)
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Well I have been divorced twice and it does not mean anything...I will probably marry again...I did not enter into those without thought or time. People make decisions for various reasons , alleast she had the guts to do it and live thruw the break ups....most people are to scared to make decisions about big life choices and either stay in something they are not happy in or never do it at all.....I think you need balls to do what I have done.... You cant learn from your experiences if you dont have them.....
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It would be inconclusive. Having been divorced doesn't make someone undesirable or indicate that they aren't material for a good relationship.
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be wary but maybe she just has bad taste and you are the best thing to come her way. but if she is my (soon to be) ex wife though she has only had one divorce she will have more if she remarries.
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My opinion is the next time she gets divorced she will be a woman that has been divorced three times. Please!!!! The stigma around divorced women is finally easing. Why? So many women today divorce and many multiple times. It happens.
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evidently she did not learn from the mistakes of her first marriage, so she kept making the same mistakes as well as choosing the same type of guy.
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Without knowing the facts as to why she divorced twice, you cannot say with any certainty if she would make a good or bad wife third time around.
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Seems like she hasn't figured herself out yet; not sure of what she wants, her needs, her desires, her offerings, etc. Some people just aren't sure of what they want or it keeps changing. Good luck! q:)
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