ANSWERS: 82
  • Graduation, for once I graduated, and went off to college, we went our seperate ways. Now he is in northern North Dakota and I am in eastern North Carolina. Close friends? :)
  • One was gossip. Another was alcoholism I could no longer tolerate. And another was because we started sleeping together.
  • The fact that he made a pass at me in front of both his spouse and mine in my house.
  • Going into business without a partnership agreement. This friend I thought I knew, lied to me, the banker, even her own sister. We borrowed a lot of money and bought a business...five days later she informs me that she is moving out of state. She did not keep her word to perform the duties she told us she would perform. And did not feel that she could send money for me to hire someone else to do what she was going to do. After 13 months, I was toast. Being the only employee in a business that needed atleast 3 employees, I was physically, mentally and emotionally spent. After two years, she has still not acknowledged what she did. I have forgiven her to a degree...as much as I can without an apology from her. We were very close...for about 17 years. I hate it when I see her around, I cannot say more than hello...like I do to complete strangers I pass. Trust is the basis of any real relationship, if you cannot trust someone, it's over. Besides betrayl is never an accident, it takes too much planning...anyone who will betray you does not value you. I don't have time to waste with people who do not value me.
  • The reality that they were not really a friend.
  • I saw a side of her that I never want to see in a person.
  • No, nothing will make me end a close friendship. We can't be close friends for nothing. If our friendship could end then our friendship was never close in the first instance. I am believe close friendship like marriage could only be nullified when my life on earth has ended.
  • We fell in love...and then broke up.
  • Without getting into a long story .... getting stabbed in the back by people I trusted.
  • She betrayed me in every way possible after I did so much for her. Put her on her feet, gave her a place to live, shopping, salons everything. I still talk to her but I will never look at her the way I did before, or ever try to help her again, thats for sure!
  • I told her i liked this guy, the guy seemed interested in me too, long story short, they went out on a date, she called me from the date and said "i'm out on a date with XXX is that ok?" I said yeah, but come one, seriously what was I gonna say? "bring him back, no you can't see him" and to make things worse they went to a motel and she performed fellatio on him. He became a really good friend of mine after and told me what happened, he said he wished he knew i liked him because he didnt respect my friend for what she did. He asked me out too but I said no. That would have been gross. BTW my ex-- friend slept with alot of the guys i introduced her too and she thinks i dont know. Each guy she slept with has told me she slept with them. She even tried to get with my brother, and my cousin and my ex boyfriend oh and my uncle!!!!! What a great friend.
  • New Year's Eve 2009: Best friend of 10 years came to my house with her boyfriend. After the countdown to 09, she states that she wants to bang on pots and pans outside to celebrate. Mind you, we have a two-year-old and live around many senior citizens. My husband tells her no for the reasons mentioned above and she freaks out telling him he has a stick up his @$$. She leaves (on foot) and comes back at 140 am. She starts talking about how we are white trash (we had at baby at 18 and weren't married), how I go to school for free and she has to (ahhem, her parent's...) pay for it because she didn't "f*ck up and have a kid." Talking about how we live on welfare and have a zoo. First of all, we have many pets, we're not on welfare and even if we were, it's there for a reason. Anyways, I end a close friendship because I found out who the true person was underneath all the bullshit. A classless bitch.
  • I didnt; he chose to do it.
  • After having my baby she started acting like a bitch for the fact she got an abortion when she was 16. We been friends since 1st grade, now we are 19 yrs old.well ONe day she invited me to dinner with her n her bf and i accepted.so her bf was bn nice playing with my baby while we waited for our food and she started bitching to him about him touch my baby and for him to stop play with him because he doesnt want a baby from her so in other words he wasnt alowed to see other babies or touch them because he didnt want baby yet * i think tht was dumb but i ignore it.A week lateri try calling her to tell her im gonna leave town for few days her cell phone wasnt working she broke it i called her boyfriend(shes normally with him all the time) *i normally dont call him but that was the only way to get a hold of her* and if shes there he said no i ask how they doing and he tells me that they got in a fight because my "friend" doesnt trust me or him and thinks we had a "MOMENT" i still dont get what she meant by that and made him delete my cell number from his cell.. funny thing is that me and him harly talk just when we all go out He had my cell number on his because she put it there *DUMB Huh. Final PoinT; It didnt bugg me she made him delete my number from his cell the thing tht did was tht She didnt trusted me as a friend i been there for her and she thinks like that about me, i have my boyfriend and she know i love him how can she think that way. I though my friendship with her was something but when u cant trusr a person u have NOTHINg. this day was the day i notice my friendship with her wasnt true!
  • I fell in love with her, she rejected me and a few months down the line started dating someone else. I had to choose between remaining her friend and watching her be courted by someone else, or end our friendship and forget about her. I obviously preferred the latter option.
  • Long story but he stole about five grand from me.
  • they moved. four of my close friends :/ not at the same time, but each time I got a new one...
  • I screwed up and couldn't take the guilt of seeing her day after day. She was willing to forgive me, but I couldn't forgive myself.
  • if he is making money by breaking law of my country.i can not keep relation with that man
  • I ended a 15yr friendship when my best friend from college. She had blamed me when her husband caught her cheating. I knew she was cheating on her husband and she would come over and make calls from my house to a man she had met online. I had told her I did not appreciate her doing that in my house nor did I appreciate her using me as an excuse when she would go for an overnight with these men she met online. When her husband confronted her she said that the man was my friend and I had set them up while at my house. Her husband called my house and screamed at me. Although I did not admit anything to him that I knew and the facts behind her cheating, when she had called to apologize I told her to f**k off and hung up on her.
  • i heard her talking about me and telling lies about me to a person i was about to meet for the first time. we haven't talked in over 2 years. we have the same circle of friends so we kinda bump into wach other from time to time. but in my opinion she wasn't a good friend b/c she was a lier and she took lots of people for granted, including me! we were much better friends in grade school.
  • I didn't, haven't...should I have. Ok , what are'nt you telling me (all paranoid)..
  • I had finally gotten to the point of being sick of her always thinking she was right about everything, no matter who she hurt. So, I finally told her she was wrong about what she said at a club meeting. She got upset with me, immediately retaliated and back-stabbed me. So, my being fed up with her spoiled attitude led to the end of the friendship. But, I did apologize if I hurt her feelings (did not retract what I said though). We haven't talked in over a year.
  • Distance.
  • i never left any of my homies. cheating with my bf's n gf's on me? no homies come before anyone yeah its messed up but boy and girls come and go but its the homies that stay wil the end
  • When she called me 6 weeks before my wedding and said she would feel more comfortable going to my wedding as a guest than a bridesmaid. I haven't spoken to her since the wedding.
  • It took me a while to see that my closest friend was jealous and two-faced.
  • my ex was too posessive!
  • Her drug habit :( We were like sisters, too. Now I'm dating and in love with her ex-boyfriend...
  • By the time someone makes it onto the very, very short list of "close friends," there is virtually nothing that could make me end the friendship.
  • As many years as we had been friends, I just couldn't ignore the fact that she was an insaitiable gossip. She just wasn't trustworthy with private information.
  • this sounds sooooo shallow , but i felt i had out grown this friend , like there just was no point having that friend n e more.
  • When I decided to express my love for her. Sadly, she expected us to remain friends after expressing that she hadn't felt the same way.
  • Being practically hung up on because I was suffering from a very painful leg ulcer and didn't want to go shopping. There was never even a mention of how I was doing. And then, about six months later I get a message on my answering machine saying, "I hope all is well". "Give me a call." Are you kidding me?
  • Lies, useless lies.
  • One of my best friends got heavily into drugs. We haven't spoken in a year and a half, since I confronted her parents with what I had seen of her habit while living with her. She got treatment about 5 months after that, but we haven't spoken. All I know of her now is hearsay.
  • I got lied to and was talked about behind my back in a malicious way.
  • Weirdness and distance.
  • him banging my girl pretty much did it for me.which turned into a 4th felony for me.
  • Laziness. I have lost touch with many friends over the years just throught not making the effort to stay in touch.
  • She turned into a selfish ignorant bitch.
  • She just turned into (or I finally saw) someone who I didn't like or admire much. There were always things about her that I didn't like, but there were things I did like and we were able to enjoy each others company and have a good time together. But suddenly those things became bigger than the things I liked about her and I just couldn't tolerate or overlook them anymore. She was petty, jealous, competitive, nasty, mean, vindictive, back-stabbing... other than that, she was a barrel of fun! Oh, and she used to flirt relentlessly with my husband. That was cute and harmless in the beginning. Then it became more what it said of what what she thought of ME, and her lack of respect for me. Bye-bye.
  • I have never ended a friendship, mine have so far been wonderful. The only thing that has occured would be both of us drifting way, but never deliberately ending a friendship, thank goodness nothing has come to that :)
  • We went into buisness together. She took advantage, took money that wasn't hers, was nasty, and crazy. We were best friends since 8th grade. I can't stand her now.
  • constant putting down, guilt trips, and wanting me to put her above everyone else
  • A divorce.
  • Invited my best buddy over to my girlfriend's house, tried to hook him up with her friend... Next morning I wake up and he's disapeared and surprisingly there was 1000$ cash missing from the droor. Picked up a baseball bat and grabbed my car keys... a good thing there was a couple people to stop me from leaving.
  • She continually called me to talk about how her former husband was causing trouble (which involved her being uncooperative)talking on and on. She asked me to arrange a roommate for her at a convention, and then bad mouthed the roommate day in and day out (also a friend of mine). The final straw was when she did not take her diabetic medication and disrupted the entire conference (which I was a major organizer) by needing an ambulance. I finally told her to see a counselor for help.
  • She owed me money and obviously did not want to pay it back she just stopped calling and texting. It was my sister who has been my best friend all my life and I have always supported her .I have never asked her foor anything back so I presume she found somebody else to get money and help from.
  • i'm on the verge of closing a friendship due to the fact that my guy friend who i dated and now live with flipped when I started to see someone and called it cheating and lying when we didn't have a title. Now he's seeing someone and expects me to be Ok with it. Even though we had a past, I feel like I don't need a "best" friend like that to make me feel bad about myself and put a guilt trip. A friend should feel happy for you accept you for you listen make you laugh etc.
  • He hit on me when I had a boyfriend, when i finally gave in and we kissed he turned the whole thing around on me... saying that I should have known better, I cheated, he didnt respect me, etc. I cared for him as a friend. But he treated me like shit. He didnt respect me in the first place, maybe he wasnt really a friend at all
  • She poured some salt in my wounds.
  • They proved to me that they were not a TRUE friend!
  • When she couldnt deal with me going to lunch with someone she liked even though he wasssss not my type and was ugly and he had been my friend wayyyy longer then her. i was over her drama! you dont people in your life who arent comfertable with themselves to the point that they wont let you have firneds
  • Betrayal. This person and I were like sisters. However, i found out later that she would play one of her friends that i didn't really care for against me. Meaning, she knew that i didn;t like this girl for valid reasons(she has used my friend before for money, to go to clubs together while really just using her to get out of the house to go to a club after calling a guy she claimed to not like and tell him to meet her there and then act suprised when he showed up)and my friend would only tell me these bad things when they weren;t getting along. Simply her lack of self-esteem, her refusal to face facts and dump the other so-called friend. So instead, I dumped her. It was for the my best interest to get away from a backslider and phony.
  • The website performance got too bad.
  • I will NOT be friends with a LIAR ...
  • well my supposed best friend of 6 years stole my roomates gun from my house.....nuff said lol
  • She kept taking and taking, and not giving at all. After a while, I figured she would at the very least be good as a lay. She decided that such a thing would have destroyed this VALUABLE thing she called our 'friendship'. I figured a blowjob would have enhanced it a great deal. She refused even that. So I told her to hit the road.
  • An individuals perverted mouth! Every time he drank it was IMPOSSIBLE to listen to him!
  • Note; I'm a total rookie on this site! This was suppose to be a comment for someone who gave an answer!(sorry!) You should of told him what really happened! My best friend at one time was seeing someone who I was also friends with. She was cheating on him! It was very difficult not to tell him! However if she ever tried to involve me by saying I fixed her up with someone I would of told my friend the facts! I never told him however I felt like I was betraying him to a certain degree. MORE THAN ONCE I thought about sending him an anonymous letter yet I never did based on principle; they were both my friends!
  • the fact that i devloped feelings for him im still struggling with it and the friendship
  • One time I was friends with someone. She was cheating on her boyfriend for atleast two years! He was also a close friend of mine. They ended up breaking up. Atleast a year or two went by before I started seeing him. My friend was seeing someone else; however when she found out I was seeing her ex-boyfriend she had a fit! If she didn't cheat on him constantly maybe I would of understood. We were friends since childhood. Our friendship is forever finished. I tried to reach out to her once. I thought maybe she would of got past it however she didn't. It doesn't really bother me too much anymore. I think shes acting immaturely!
  • I have ended a lot of friendships most of them for them using me for things that I have and they don't, treating me like a doormat, lieing to me, giving out my phone number to somone who was stalking me,(which she did on porpouse) there are a lot of reasons to end frienships.
  • her boyfriend was the rudest, most horrible person ever. I confronted her about him, but she didn't believe me. I told her it was either me or him, and she chose him.
  • differences.
  • I'll go straight to the point, betrayed... Having a close friend is based on mutual trust, if there's no trust, there's no friendship.
  • The person being very selfish, not understanding, not patient, and her using personal info I had confided in her against me, and trying to make fun of my life, and trying to make me look bad. I forgave her a few times before, and it was really bad what she said to me (called me stupid, picks at me constantly, etc) I guess I was stupid for one thing. Letting her do this to me. IT wasn't worth the 20 yr friendship. I let it go. I am worth more than that.
  • she's a playgirl..she cheated me..the only things in her head-guyz & beauty...we're totally opposites..smtimes i wondered how on earth we once bezfren??...
  • He was becoming cruel, judgemental and verbally aggressive. He no longer trusted or respected me. It was all over little stupidities; I wish this hadn't happened.
  • Hearing that they were telling me one thing and telling others a complete different story was not reliable at all or so i found out. When i was there for them each time they got hurt, in trouble, scared, loss of family members, you name it and when i needed them the most where were they? Talking shit about me behind my back I don't need people like that in my life. Whats sad is they keep calling me cause they wanna hang out and say they miss me....sorry not gonna be that person who says its ok cause its not.
  • When i got stabbed in the leg....literally
  • False accusations and lack of turst
  • Finding out that a "friend" is a liar and/or cannot be trusted has ended a few friendships.
  • Guy was lieing a lot and owed me a shit load of money. I never got my money and at one point, I didn't really care about the money. I think he avoided me so he wouldn't have to pay or because he thought I was pissed about it. Which I wasn't. O well I guess.
  • going to different schools
  • We are close friends now but I sense something might happen. We were closer a few years back and so I think it has deteriorated due to the fact that she tends to pick friends. If she meets someone new she ditches her old friends spends all that time with the "shiny new toy" and then only calls us when she has issues. I love her to death but you know call me jealous but I know a lot about her. I have helped her through a lot...maybe she just doesn't value our friendship enough.
  • His wife, knowing that I was being treated for cancer, accused our dog of giving her leukemia in an attempt to extract hospital treatment money from us. We had been planning to employ her in our house if she had lost her job following treatment. Our solicitor and insurance company advised us to keep her off our property, and her husband (being loyal to her) got caught up in the flak.
  • Theft!
  • Too many secrets
  • betrayal
  • High school ending and growing up.

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