• Get back at him for as long as you both live. Never tell him just make him suffer for something he didn't even know he did or you misunderstood. It happens all the time and to every guy I ever talked with about women. Nothing personal gals, just stating the facts.
  • I would just tell him. how is it going to get better if i dont? Lots of girls are to afraid to do that though
  • Guys are really literal, and if you mope around, and they ask what's wrong, and you say "nothing", they will assume it has nothing to do with them, doesn't need to be told to them and they will forget about it. Meanwhile you will be FUMING that he didn't notice how upset you were. Just tell him. Communication is the key to a good relationship. Obviously BigDaddy has had some evil women by his side, I wouldn't take his advice. You don't do to other people what you wouldn't want done to yourself. If you hurt him, you would want him to tell you straight out so you could both deal with it and move on with your life. The most important thing my S/O ever said to me was that our relationship was supposed to be the part of my life I DIDN'T worry about, the one person I could trust and go to when I did have something to worry about. If it ever got to the point where I couldn't talk to him, or our relationship was the number one worry in my life, it has failed it's purpose anyway - to make us both happy. Of course, there are ups and downs, but the best thing you can do is to smooth out the downs as soon as possible.
  • Yes, I have no problem telling my boyfriend if he hurt me emotionally, he usually gets defensive and than ends up getting mad at me for being upset with him..its awesome
  • Of course! How else can you work on fixing it if you don't tell him?
  • He is very very aware when he hurts me.

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