ANSWERS: 44
  • No, we were young...we'd be divorced by now!
  • No, my last!:):)
  • Yes, very much. And I did.
  • Yes. And the one after that, too. I finally gave up my dreams and it was then that I saw I wouldn't have made a very good mate. That kept me busy until age 36. Then I married :). But before that wouldn't have been a very good idea.
  • Yes, I wanted to. But, I am very happy I didn't. I thought I was going to marry my first 3 girlfriends because we had "serious relationship." They were all two years long, and then ended. I learned a lot along the way, and I am very happy with my wife now. I'm glad I never married that first one. People change over time, (at least they should mature), I've changed a lot since I met her, we wouldn't get along at this stage in life.
  • LOL yeah. Good thing I was too young then.
  • NO! She was WAAAAYYY too into the idea of marriage (we were 18!!) She never took the time to enjoy the present, only obsessed about the future. Not cool.
  • No ... I believe as each love comes and goes ... we learn more about ourselves and what qualities we need from our partner ... One love may work for some ... But the majority need other loves to follow the first to enable themselves to understand their own needs a liitle more ... In the end we can only hope that the lessons learned, have guided us to our soul mate. Thankyou
  • I did when we first got together, and then when our daughter was born. Now we are not together and he has completly shut himself out of all the good things in life, like family and friends all because of his GF. I dont hate him or her for that matter. I think he could have made better choices in life that would not have led him down the path that he has choosen to take.
  • I thought that I did, but he was a druggie and only cared about the drugs. He literally cared about drugs more than he did me and that's how it ended. That, and he cheated on me more than once...One of the girls he cheated on me with, I sat right next to at a party and didn't know it at the time. So, needless to say, he wasn't the one I was meant to marry...
  • my first love was when i was 14 and wow did i wanna marry him. now 3 "loves" later at 23 i think i wanna marry the man im with now. life changes and with it who u love. i wanted to marry him when i was 14, if i had i promise it would not have lasted too long. maybe if we got married it would have lasted b/c thats a stronger bond, but from what i know now and what i knew then, i doubt we would still be married. first loves are puppy love. just an outline/blue print of what u want or dont want in the next person ur with.
  • Not my first, but I would love to marry my last one..
  • Yes. Thank God I didn't. He never changed, nor traveled, or tried to experience life. I would have been confined to a stagnant lifestyle sheltered from reality. He turned abusive-ahhh first love.
  • Yes, and i am still with him and i still do. but i want to be able to experience other people too... plus we are only 16
  • I thought about it, but then I was just a kid. In retrospect I'm glad I didn't.
  • Yes very much so. Though I don't know why. She treated me like crap and used me for whatever she could get and constantly made it a point to tell me how repulsive she thought I was and how I would never be good enough to be her boyfriend let alone her husband.
  • I wanted to, but I was young and dumb and thought I wanted to party and be with other girls so I broke it off. Worst mistake ever!
  • I never thought there was any question... we were a 'couple' since we were like 8 or 9... I thought it was a done deal, till she asked me to put my hand out one day on the bus, and then she dropped the pieces of my picture that she had torn up earlier in them when I was like 13...
  • No, was to young to even think about marriage
  • Yes I did and we were to young.Now we are divorced.
  • Sure did his name was Troy Palmer and when we broke up I think it hurt our parents more than us. I missed him for along time after that. (young love...sigh)
  • yup, i thought i really wanted that, but now when i look back...............i had no idea what i really was asking for.
  • I did want to... and I did marry him... Oh, now I regret it! I am still waiting for him to finish the divorce, after he has been absent for three years!!!
  • I did marry my first love, BIG MISTAKE.
  • I don't even know who that was. But out of all the boyfriends that I've had, there has only been one that I thought about marriage with. He didn't feel the same way.
  • yeh i always have done and theirs still that little bit of hope not like it will happen now tho :(
  • Yes. I had many fantasies about marrying her.
  • Yes I do want to marry my first love. He already told me he wanted to marry me too. :) You can fall in love at any age, you just have to wait your turn until God decides it's your time to fall in love! He just had me and my boyfriend fall in love at 15, and yes we know what love is, and this love is real and true, you guys probably think "Ya I thought the same thing when I was young" But this is different, and this is gonna happen. believe it or not, it will. -Jessica Edgell soon to be Zeidler.
  • i THOUGHT it was love... and i THOUGHT i did... until an amazing man showed me what love really was. now i want to marry him <3 <3 <3
  • Oh, no. Let's not get crazy.
  • Yes, it was planned too. But our parents didn't agree of young love, so we were banned from seeing each other. I haven't seen him since. Religion was envolved too, but i left that a long time ago.
  • Of course yo...
  • Yeah and i was going to move in with him but then something happened and i dont even want to go near him anymore.
  • hell no
  • Yes she was the head cheerleader and I loved seening her in that short skirt with no panties and no top. I wish I could go back to that time but it is long gone.
  • Not at all.
  • If its REAL love, then yes, and I did. If its PUPPY love, then no.
  • I still do, we are in touch by the way. Who knows, maybe I will, maybe I won't!
  • i dunno i loved her madly like no one can descrbe but it was jus the wrong time and the wrong place 4 it to continue 4 a long time
  • Yes, and would of in a moment..:)
  • Yes but didn't know it at the time. But love he is happy now and love that I knew him :-)
  • Yes at first, but then he proved to me that marriage would be a baaaaaaaad choice. Now I have no idea where he is or what he's up to, and I'm ok with that.
  • Gawd no, perish the thought. There was a life to get out there and live before I even considered marriage.

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