ANSWERS: 28
  • tell him goodbye and run the other way.........
  • Kick him to the curb. He's becoming abusive as you become more independant. Who knows where his "control" will end. Leave, while you still can.
  • Okay.. um... you need to nip that relationship in the bud. He's either really trying to test you... which I doubt or he is a very controlling her person and that is never a good sign for a future with him.
  • Be independent and dump his ass! your family and friends are more important than some guy!
  • Let him leave.He's a jerk.
  • Tell him not to let the door hit him on the way out. You need this guy like a cold sore;)
  • Show him the door sweety.. You'll never be happy with him in the long run. Dont let his insecurities hinder you or your lifestysle. Give him some time..if he realises his mistake he might come back to you else he'll be gone for good.
  • Show this controling SOB the curb as fast as you possibly can ... This is the kind of man that becomes a Physical Abuser also ... It is evident that he wants to CONTROL your life like a remote car ... and IF you stay with him ; you are enabling him to do just that ... Kick his nasty azz to the curb and take a break ... when you are ready ; find yourself a real MAN who will treat you with the love and comapssion that you deserve ...
  • sounds like a control freak to me, get rid of him, that type of person only gets worse with time!
  • Get rid of him. Friends and family are way more important than a guy who doesn't know what he wants!
  • that last sentance is all I need. leave him.
  • OK, look, you have to see "I like independent women" for what it is - blackmail and priming. What he really means is "You are not an independent woman, therefore I have no respect for you and will always taunt you". He is just running a 'you are not worthy' line on you. In the same breath he is going to blackmail you and say 'you can't do this, you have to do that' and 'if you jump through THIS hoop then at last you might please me for five minutes'. Even you working hard to be more independent is just another example, in his head, of you doing what he told you to do. Let him leave. Send him packing. If you give in he'll feel powerful for a little while and then he'll : 1. Use that as an excuse to despise you even more 2. Think of something else even more humiliating and isolating, to make you do.
  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qn60PaV7KFk
  • Beat him to the punch. Leave him first.
  • RUN for your life
  • this boyfriend is no good for you, friends and family should always stay a part of your life!
  • get away from him. by telling you he "wants" an independent woman he is not telling you to be one, he is underhandedly insulting you by saying that you are not one. the last thing he wants is and independent woman, she wouldn't take his b*^& s*^$ insults. good luck sweetie. :) ++
  • Go by what they DO ...not what they SAY. He is punishing you for being independent and having your own support networks of friends & family. I say good riddance. Don't let the door hit you on the way out, honey.
  • You know what i would say to that? BYE BYE!!! That will shut him up!
  • Flee as fast as you can. The first thing an abuser does is to separate his victim from their support. Once they are separated and have no where to go, the abuser can do whatever he like without fear. Run now while you still can. This guy is planning to hurt you.
  • Love is being happy with a person the way they are. Love is being happy to be with the other person. He doesn't love you. Run.
  • You need to get out of that situation immediately. Anyone who tries to control who another person's friends are and even worse tries to distance you from your own family is a dangerous person that you are better off without. If you chose to stay, you are in for a life of misery. Good luck to you.
  • Looks like your lives are now in different stages and have reached the point were they will no longer mesh. Don't forget to wave good-bye as you make a permanent break. And, I mean PERMANENT!
  • Anyone who makes that kind of threat is really setting you up for disaster. Say goodbye, and quick!
  • Tell him good bye!
  • this is the situation: he wants independant so he doesnt have to take care of you, give you his time or affection, BUT, he didnt realize that by leaving you to fend for yourself, he would lose all CONTROL over you. What he really wants: he wants a woman under his authority, but without the responsibilty or hassle of having to give anything in return. outcome: you are going to be a miserable and neglected person. This relationship is all take and no give on his part. I would be very concerned if i were you.
  • As you know,you must leave him,instead of your friends & family. :(
  • tell him u'll leave all ur freindz n family 4 him if he left half of his freindz n family 4 you...

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