What do you think of extremely shy people?
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Zack Be Gone - All Hail Firebrand.
ANSWERS: 21
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I hope good because i am pretty shy...
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my girlfriend doesnt like shy people.lol. because she likes people to talk. but i think shy people are ok because i mean if they dont want to get very active thats there decision. but it is good to become "unshy?" or however you say that. but anyways. thats just me, im a crazy kind of person i just kind of be friends with everybody.
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i feel bad for them. i used to be REALLY shy and i remember being miserable and depressed all the time, thats no way to live. i got lucky and grew out of it
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I feel very uncomfortable around shy people, because you never know what they're thinking, and they don't want to talk or do anything, and I don't know how to act.
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I don't mind shy people it's the loud obnoxious people that get on my nerves.
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I know the feeling far too well. I usually try to get them talking. Most the time its just that.. they dont have anything to really say. So if you ask them a question directly, it gives them grounds for discussion. Being shy is an awful feeling, I hated it and still do. Because I get those moments. BUT its not too bad. Usually theyre just..nervous. ~+~
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I was one of them..extremely shy and very much an introvert. So I feel for them..it is painful and sometimes people think you're a snob and think you think they are beneath you when in fact you are crying out to be accepted and have friends but your shyness prevents that. :)
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I walk up and give em a big bear hug, they usually pass out but most of the time they're more outgoing when they come to
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I think its a nice quality in both I do like a girl who is somewhat shy It gives her an aura of sex appeal
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Shy people make me feel awkward as I have to do all the work and this makes me more outgoing and talkative than I'd like to be so I feel I'm being forced to behave differently. I also feel at a loss to think of things to keep the conversation going so I tend to move away to more confident company. Shyness is a form of egocentricity as the shy person is thinking of themselves more than of others. We are all vulnerable and maybe shy people should imagine the difficulties that many people face when they are put into the pro-active role all the time. Sometimes I've ended up embarrassed by myself after trying too hard to 'get through' to a poor shrinking violet! (No offense intended :))
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It's not that they don't want to talk or interact. They do, but they lack confidence, and they think about what others think about them. They are most certainly not snobs, nor do they ever think they are above others. They don't have great egos, nor are they selfish. It is natural for people to be extremely shy - they cannot help who or what they are. But they, in their own time, eventually overcome most of their shyness, or they remain extremely shy. They should not be treated as though they are selfish. shyness is just a character trait. It is not an illness. It is for the individual with the shyness to develop themselves or to remain as they are. It is their choice, and they should not be judged if they remain extremely shy
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I feel bad for them (respectfully) because they miss out on so many things life has to offer, just because they stay behind or in a corner (metaphorically speaking).
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i used to be one of them. now , people just think i have an attitude.
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I used to be one, and I feel sorry for them. They are missing out on the experience called "life".
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I think they are really cute
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I feel bad for them. I used to be painfully shy, so I know how they feel.
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Yeah. I feel bad for them. They just need to step out into the world, and see it's not 'that bad.'
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Shy people spend so long tring to work up the courge to make a friend ask for someting ect. People think they are snobs so nobody wants to be their friend I don't think all they think about is themselves they think about the person they are tring to talk too. If they were so selfish they woudnt bother tring to make a friend cause all they would care about is themselves. Shyness is like a curse and its so hard to get rid off.I read an article about shy people aand they are almost always caring selfless people!!!!!!
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The reason people are shy, Is because the think about being shy so much, They get worked up over it Non shy people dont think about being shy around people. Therefore there minds are thinking about the matter in hand, Were shy people only think about OMG I am scared in situations
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I am currently interested in a shy person. Man are they difficult to persue. I talked her into going out with me a few times and she talks constantly, really shows genuine interest. but when I see her again she totally clams up. I send her emails she admits to getting them but she never replies. I asked her why she never responds and she said she doesn't know what to say. I think she likes me but when a person ignores another, one can only make the assumption that they don't want you anymore. I don't know what to do. Any suggestions from the shy readers out there should I continue to send her emails cause my gut tells me she likes them, but I also can be in denial.
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I sympathise with them. I am extremely shy especially with females. Never had a proper relationship with a female and time is not on my side and I have worried about it too much which probably pushed it away. I've had infatuations with females in the past but just sat back and fantasized about being with them instead of trying to get to know them and suddenly there gone. Hmmm! P.S - Not done my career development much good ether.
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