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  • I think "confront" is probably too harsh a word for this. You should definitely talk it over with him. Try not to be too judgemental and make sure you let him explain fully. He could be gay or since he has married you, he could just be bi-curious. Who knows? You certainly won't if you don't talk to him about it. Important to remember... Talk about it with love and don't judge. Marriages have survived worse. Hope this helps.
  • Here's a thought?...Couldn't you do something to get him off the internet?
  • WOW - Um, at first I would hope he was just trying to get dress or hair style ideas - if they were Hot sexy "naked" men then - Houston, we have a problem. I would ask him flat out.
  • hmmm, it doesnt look good does it, but who knows maybe hes got some project or assigment that requires his knowledge on this matter ( well, thats a positive viewpoint) but yes, I think you should ask him why he is looking
  • You need to talk to him. When kids are asleep, no distractions, be honest, see what he has to say. Soon.
  • I would let him know that I observed him looking at those sites and would inquire from him the reason that he was at those sites, and not be confrontational when asking about this.
  • If your husband is looking at gay man porn you need to start getting ready to be single, and find a man who has no interest in gay man porn but your body. Just my opinion.
  • I would let him know that the sites had been seen and you wanted to know what was going on. But make sure you do it in a non confrontational manner.
  • I had a guy friend/boyfriend in college who said things like Gay men were interested in him. What an idiot I am. I cried for three years over him. But I'm an idiot in general. I get attached to the strangest fellows and then destroy myself over them. It doesn't sound good and he should have a lot to explain. How irresponsible.
  • just ask him about it, he could be gay, or he could be bisexual, or he could just be curious. Crying about it or asking questions online will get you no where. Besides that, how do you know he's doing this in the first place? If your spying on him than there sounds like theres more wrong with your relationship than just his internet habits.
  • Hire a detective to find out if its a fetish or reality. He might just be curious and not gay.
  • maybe hes trying to turn you on?
  • He's gay and finally is coming out of the closet. Good luck.
  • You must be joking, right? Could be gay, could just be looking for a new look for himself.
  • If you are in an honest loving relationship just come out and say. "Honey, I see that there has been some viewing of hot and sexy men on the computer, is there any particular reason why I notice this?" Don't come out and accuse him of anything. Allow him to either open up or clam up. I doubt your husband is gay. Perhaps he has some self-confidence issues or might feel his penis size might not be adequate. Perhaps he is just looking to see what other men look like with no clothing on.
  • Yes, ask him, but don't expect him to tell you the truth. Many downlow or closeted gay men do not tell the truth even after they're confronted with evidence. There are several books written on the subject, The Straight Up Truth About The Down Low and Straight Wives, Shattered Lives. You can get the first book at http://www.straightuptruth.com. Until you get answers, USE PROTECTION.
  • he could just be curious. bi-curious. maybe he is looking at the, for you. maybe he wants to look like that for you. but definitely talk to him openly and honestly. and dont judge him for it. maybe he is attracted to men AND women? so what. we are humans. sexual creatures. dont tell me you've never looked at boobies. lol but really.
  • Straight men don't watch gay porn. They seek Straight Porn...trust me on this. Men watching gay porn is a HUGE red flag...proceed with caution.
  • maybe he's intending to make u a raunchy banner for your birthday?
  • U should talk to him. There are several stories like this, straight men turning gay.
  • dress in mens clothes, wear mens cologne and ask him if it turns him on? but seriously, just drop it into conversation "i saw you looking on this site earlier..."
  • maybe he is getting ideas on how to be HOT for you! Ive looked at porn online just to get new ideas of what to do or wear for him in private. This one could be innocent.
  • He may just be curious, on the ohter hand he may be hiding something, better off to find out. Just make it to the point, don't be judgemental just ask.

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