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HELLLLLLLLLLL YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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It would be a done deal....he knew when he took the vows what they meant.
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Yes
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i cannot answer this with certainty...i would need to know the circumstances... maybe i was a cold fish and drove him to adultery....
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I'd kick him out a hot second. And I'd kick his ass.
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If they cheated, wouldn't they have ended the relationship? Something else I have no worries about happening. 20 years, same gal. Life is good.
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yes , i sure would esp if everything he went looking for was right here all along ppl need to find everything they desire in the mate they have and be satistified .. and im the type that wil never be able to deal with itll always be on my mind so yes i sure would leave my boyfriend for cheating.. never leave ur 80 looking for a 20 ..
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Yes. If they have to resort to cheating, the partnership/relationship is over already.
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well my b/f cheated on me twice, but that was along time ago and i forggave him for it, it also reallly depends on how the situation was and who and how long u guys have been dating for... you should give me more details on to what had happend?
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Probably not. It would depend on the circumstances.
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at this point i will say absolutely.
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In a nano-second.
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Not necessarily. If he cheated, then it would tell me something was missing in our relationship. If he was willing to work on it with me, and if we seemed to overcome the problem, I would give him another chance.
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That would be a deal-breaker for me. I realize that if a partner cheats, it's likely because something is missing in the relationship, but if you are committed to the relationship, you are obligated to talk about the problem before you stray. Trust is the #1 compononent of a relationship - if a person betrays that, it can be impossible to get back.
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i would only end it if i asked him and he lied to me about the whole thing
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The cheating is only a symptom of a larger problem. I would be hurt, but I would not end the relationship.
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Yep... there's no point in sticking around. It'll just cause you to get hurt over and over again. You'll waste so much time trying to regain a sense of trust and fix the past with the wrong person when you could be moving on.
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Just because he "cheated?" There are many worse things in a marriage. I love my husband and I know he loves me. If he has had a fling or two -- or even a long term affair--I would accept it as part of our life together. I would not consider this to be grounds for destroying a family or a marriage of two adults who love each other. In addition, must consider one's children and he effect that a divorce would have on them. Many men are simply not capable of fidelity with suppressing urges that evolution implanted hundreds of thousands of years ago. I imagine that some men can suppress these urges, but who wants a man who represses a part of his nature? Not me. I am happy being married to a man. I have no idea whether he has had these flings or affairs, but, believe me, that alone would not end my marriage.
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You bet I would
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I chose not to end my marriage and I, my husband, and our children are the happier for it. My children have a full time father and I have a loving husband.
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In a heart beat. If they cheat once, they'll cheat again and then they'll lie. I've droped more than one just for that reason.
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THIS IS REALLY HARD TO ANSWER BECAUSE I DONT KNOW HOW LONG U GUYS HAVE BEEN DATING OR HOW FAR HE WENT WITH THE OTHER GIRL. ALL I CAN TELL U IS THAT U NEED SOME TIME ALONE AND THINK ABOUT HOW MUCH U LOVE HIM. WHEN UR READY TO TALK TELL HIM HOW U FEEL. IF U LOVE HIM YOU'LL FORGIVE AND ALSO PUT UR SELF IN HIS SHOES BECAUSE IT EASY TO JUDGE BUT HARDER TO UNDERSTAND. GOOD LUCK.
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Absolutely, I would never cheat and I expect the same respect
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Yes..Especially If I give him all my trusts and love him dearly..Then all of a sudden he do those things to me.
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yes of course i would i would not like to have to love a partner knowing that he/she cheated on me i just would not love him/her any more!!!!
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depends
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almost positively. unless they were drunk - then i'd end it because they lied got drunk AND cheated
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It would depend on the circumstances, but I can't definitely say what I would do unless I was already in it.
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yes. i wouldn't be able to trust my partner again. it would always be in the back of my mind and i don't want to live my life that way. most certainly, i will never allow somebody to put my health in danger with all the diseases circulating.
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yes. and i've done so before.
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yes, definetly, and right away with no doubt.
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Hey, you know what, eveyone is telling you to end it, but what the hell, if you still love them, go for it.
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no question.
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Yes, I forgave once, 21 years ago. I did not forget.
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Before I used to be so blinded in love like most of the people that answer no to this question, I forgave him even tough he never admitted cheating on me, and even though he gave me a disease being pregnant, he promised me it would not happened again, all right after that he started taking advantage of my forgiveness and took off with another girl, so once a cheater always a cheater and so true, NO next time I will be smarter and leave them
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YES I WOULD, that would ruin everything for me and us, i would never be able to trust him again and with out trust you have nothing.
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In a heartbeat.
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YES no explanation needed here!
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Immediately. We both know it, and both accept it. Trust cannot exist in such an environment, so we have a rule - One strike and you're out.
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In a second
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defo once a cheater always a cheater in my eyes love
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WOW I HAVE EXPERIENCE W/ THIS ONE I HAVE BEEN CHEATED ON AND I STAYED WHAT A TERRIBLE MISTAKE I AM FINALLY ENDING IT AFTER 7 YRS ON AND OFF CAN'T WAIT UNTIL THAT TRASH IS DUMPED OUT FOR GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I would NEVER be able to trust him again, so yes, I'd end it.
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That depends. Cheated at what?
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Yes. :)
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Love only exist if both of you believe it...
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yeppers
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Most probably. Unless there was a damned good explanation.
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A question for you... Would you ever trust him again?... This is very personal. Everyone have an opinion. For me, I would terminate the relationship. I need to trust a man to respect him. And, I can not respect a man that betrays. I can not love a man that I do not respect. Aside from that... I wouldn't be able to kiss him again without asking myself if he has other woman saliva in his mouth, or make love with him without feeling he may be dirty from another woman's bed.
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more than likely yes, but who knows how much harder I'm going to fall;-)
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If that were the case, Nobody would remain married. When they say 50% of married people cheat, They should really be saying 50% of married people "admit" to cheating. Big difference.
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It depends on what else was going on in the relationship. If there seemed to be nothing to hold onto then that would probably end the marriage.
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All he would see would be the door slamming behind me.
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Yes I would, even if I loved him, a relationship is based on trust, how could I go on not trusting him
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Depends, if I was married or dating the person and a few circumstances.
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yes biggest deal breaker for me betray my trust hit the road who needs you
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