ANSWERS: 7
  • It's hard to say. How serious is your relationship with him? I imagine I would feel bad if my s/o of 3 months kissed another girl. Just try talking out your feelings with him and let him explain his. By getting everything out in the open, it is much easier to sort things out. Good luck and best wishes! :)
  • You can't make anyone trust you no matter how much ass you kiss. All you can do is admit your fault and make sure it doesn't happen again because if you gain his trust again and you turn around and do something like that again... It's all over but the crying for you. Give it some time - Trust is the easiest thing to give yet the hardest to gain back after a fault is committed.
  • In any relationship, honesty is the best policy. To me, being bi means you are attracted to both men and women. Your boyfriend needs to understand that you are not his exclusive property. I once dated a lesbian woman, and I have had no problem with her seeing other women. In fact, I found this very exciting. Besides, kissing a girl is not the same as having sex with her. Nothing really happened in Brazil, as far as I am concerned.
  • He can trust you, you told him you kissed a girl, who did hide it from him.
  • Explain the situation, he's probably had to go the extra mile to prove he wasn't gay at some point in his life. He should understand the pressure you were under. if he doesn't, then he just doesn't get you.
  • Cheating and infidelity is the same no matter gay, bi or straight. You admitted it to him, I will assume you have apologized. Now all you can do is show him through your actions that you want his trust and you will have to earn it. That said, you can't "make" someone trust you, and if he is not willing to move forward, there is little you can do about it. Just keep yourself in check next time.
  • Decide if you want to live honestly. And you can't make him trust you again or ever. He has to decide. You can just try to reassure him and live 100% honestly.

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