When he denies to the press ever owning a 'blue barrel.'

When you start smothering eachother and there is no personal space or when a partner is abusive.

When he/she finds themselves in the hospital for working 18 hour days so that the significant other can drive the Mercedes and carry the Gucci bags.

I would say when the intimate moments are gone, resentment starts to take over when you together. The romance and lust is gone for each other. When you rather be some where else with some else. Lastly and this is the big one, when all communication breaks down.

11:25 pm

The three A's. Abuse, Addiction and Adultery

When you are hurting each other

When it is abusive.

When it is a possible that they might bring something home.(sexually transmitted) The other is when it becomes abusive(mentally, physically,and emotionally)

When you are unhappy.

When they try to control you.

I have a very basic philosophy for relationships. I believe that one should expect to be 'happy' 75% of the time. I do not think that is an unreasonable expectation and in fact, think it is actually quite magnanimous. If the percentage falls below that number then the relationship has become unhealthy. That may seem a very simplified formula but it has always worked for me.

If the start to lie to you, and start to cheat on you.. thats just really not normal and unhealth for both of you

When you find YOURSELF acting, in reaction to their behavior, in ways that YOU can't stand!

either when the couple are so engrossed in each other that they are not aware of anything or anyone around them (and how they are feeling) OR when the couple are not happy- may be abusive or depressing

Mental or physical abuse.

When it creates a negative effect on one's physical or emotional well being.

When you start to compromise your values to keep the other person happy.

wen jelously begin with each other...

When it becomes abusive.

when they start loading the shotgun and say they don't need their medication because spongebob told tem so when they were watching Nickelodeon (and they are past 20 and not a student):)))

When the hurt outweighs the joy....all the time.

9 times out of 10 it is unhealthy as soon as you have to ask whether or not it is healthy.

When the little stick turns blue! I kid I kid. I agree with the people saying if you have to ask chances are your in rough shape as it is

When two people argue all the time! And I am meaning you are out to the bar with them and they keep complaining and arguing. There is nothing more annoying than the constant bickering when you are trying to have fun.

The minute you feel that the relationship is unhealthy get out carefully. First talk with memebers of your family and the other person's family and freinds gently. Expalin why you want out and the tell them that they may see changes in the other person if they do they need to tell you so you can be aware of any thing that might be harmful for you. Next you need to talk to law enforcement people, perhaps a safe house person if there is one in your area, and a judge that might be able to advise you in what to expect if you do file a retraining order. Plus any thing that you know about the person you are braking up with that might be an indicator taht they might act offensively to you needs to be reported to you friends and family and law enfrocement people because the more others know the more they can and will respond to any problems taht might come from the break up. Relationship break ups sometimes trigge the least expected things in people and being aware of your surroundings all of the time is important. Retaliation sometimes comes to those in the family or our circle of freinds instead of directly at us at first. SO to break up a relaionship gone bad always protect yourself.

If you look back on who you were before and who you used to be, and you know it was better than where you are now. Why stay with someone who made your life less pleasurable. Also, a roller-coaster relationship (extreme good times and then extreme bad times)is always a warning sign. Those relationships are never good for you. They are more like a drug and you are the addict.

when the love, self respect, and the desire to be around that other person is gone, you know that you're in an unhealthy relationship.

I think, when the fighting or arguing are a constant in the relationship.  Or is you start questioning every thing he or she does.  If one of you don't call when you should, or don't come home, hey, if you have no kids, say bye, fast.

When nothing can be laughed about anymore. I know of more, just not right now. Permanent damage perhaps

I say when you have to ask that question. If you think your relationship is un-healthy and you are now just asking what is to much. Well to me that says you already have had to much. Good luck!

Just prior to the first restraining order.

I honestly think that the second you have to think... "is this unhealthy".... it's gotten to that point already. :o)

when love is already set aside.. and the relationship doesn't already work as "together"..

When one cheats or when one passes away.

When it starts affecting your health :-)

When I can't be myself.

when yo mama says it is GUURRLLLL!!!!!!!

WHEN THE KILLER COMES OUT OF YOU

when even the makeup sex requires you to go to the hospital for stitches.

hurting eachother... stop loving ... when some of the partner is abusive... disrepectfull. controlling..

If you already felt that he doesn't care for you anymore..T_T

When you ask this kind of question.

When you feel you are losing self respect at an ever increasing rate. When the thought of even spending another day with this person makes you cringe. When you wish you'd never met them and never got together with them. When you feel totally embarrassed for anybody to know they are your partner.

WHEN IT BECOMES A CHORE. OR YOUR HEALTH IS BEING AFFECTED.

When you're actually feeling confused about everything and being away from the person just feels more relieving.

When you constantly complain to each other about their sexual partners hanging around the house all the time. It really is annoying when you have to do that.

When drugs and alcohol are at the forefront. If ther is any verbal/physical abuse. If they dont flush the toilets....

When it reaches the level of hitting or physical harm.

cheating and lying

when you find yourself asking that question!

Anytime it leads to mental abuse!!!!

When it becomes mentally or physically abusive. When infidelity has taken all of your trust away [because without trust, you have nothing]. Also, when you are unable to effectively communicate. If you argue more than you get along, it is unhealthy. When addiction destroys your partner and also begins to mess up things in your life. All of these things are signs that suggest you're headed down heartache lane!

When you feel you need to ask this question i am asking myself now thats why i am looking into these questions but i am to weak and in love to move.

I think you need to ask yourself if you're more unhappy, than you are happy. Relationships are based on both parties and both putting in efforts to make it work and make one another happy. If you're already questioning this, perhaps you should talk to this person about the problems you're facing. If he/she does not want to change and work things out, then go your own way. There is a certain time when you come to the realization that you need to focus on yourself and better yourself even if it hurts.

when both of u are sick of each..all the feeling you had are dead..have fights for everything..both getting attarcted to other people...

WHEN YOU START BEING UNHAPPY...

When you don't feel good about yourself.

When you have to start taking penicillin.