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That depends on who it is and what they said. I don't get my feelings hurt very easily, because I just don't care about people's opinions of me.
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D). Knock 'em out! Ahh just kidding. When I was younger it would've been A, but now it's definitely B!
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I usually try to figure out why I am so hurt. I will talk it out with others but it tends to distance me from the person who has (deliberately) hurt me.
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As a rule, I remind myself that the remark wasn't intended to hurt me. Basically I try to live by the following: "Always assume positive intent." Of course, there have been times when the comment was made specifically to hurt me. But unless it's someone very close to me, I can usually shrug it off.
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I usually ask myself why did that hurt me? Was it who said it,what they said or how they said it? then depending on my answers I either talk to thme or a close friend!!!!!!!!!:)
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I tend to get very quiet and sometimes distance myself from them, anywhere from a short time to permanently depending on the circumstances .
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I just go and have a good cry,sometimes i feel that i am not wanted there, and that i feel no one likes me and i just have a pity party.
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I do not show I am hurt and I keep it to myself.
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d) Other:
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Depends on the person and how they do it- but in general I would probably pick B) Share my thoughts and feelings honestly.
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It all depends on who it is. I can sulk, and I do often shaer my thoughts and feelings. Sometimes I'll even have a tantrum too, and other times... well, who knows?
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Really depends on who. If it's someone I care about or respect, I would be disappointed, but I wouldn't sulk. If it's anyone else, D - I don't give a sh*t.
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I walk away and put it out of my mind. Everyone can have a bad day.
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I share my feelings in a way that is calm yet showing that I'm concerned. I do admit that sometimes I let my emotions get the better of me, but most of the time I can remain pretty civil.
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I get kind of angry... Go for a run... And then I need someone to vent to.. and I figure out how I am going to confront the person... and then I confront them in the nicest way possible!! :o)
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I don't throw a tantrum..although I feel like ranting sometimes (depends on what kind of insult it is). may explain why I've had ulcers more than once! sometimes I sulk, and other times I can contructively discuss with the person how they hurt me. nothing ever comes of stooping to the level of the one insulting (or verbally harassing/abusing) you.
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c & d
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a)sulk, then I pout and whine.
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I'm Mr. Mt. St. Helens. So, that person would want to make themselves scarce.
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Hold it in, don't tell anyone, and cry to myself (depending on the situation). I usually hold things in and don't confront the person.
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A little bit of all of them honestly. I would probably sulk briefly (since I'm an optimist, that doesn't last long), throw a tantrum (most likely when I'm alone - just to get the frustration out), then attempt to share my thoughts and feelings.
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I do my damnedest not to let anyone know. At work, if they find a soft spot, they'll just keep poking.
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If it was done unintentionally, I would probably sulk for a little bit, then forget about it. If it was intentional, there is no way I would let them know that they succeeded.
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I choose option B.
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I'm very emotional but that tends to turn into me wanting to beat the living crap out of whomever hurt me! :)
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