ANSWERS: 52
  • so far i have.
  • Your first love tends to occur when you're young, when the world is fresh and new and you have no emotional perspective, so maybe first loves are harder to get over or more nostalgic to think about, but people get over them.
  • I've thought about this, and decided I must have never really HAD a "love". Three husbands, dates here and there, but no real love, because I don't give any of them a second thought.
  • Maybe not love them forever; but, I do think one always remembers his/her first love.
  • No.....I since switched teams. Friends yes, but real true love, impossible.
  • my first true love was in kindergarten, and i don't love him right now. so no.
  • No. I think I will always "love" the times we had together when he was the old him. But he changed and I cannot love that person. I have someone better. Who treats me better and knows how to treat himself better. I have no room for deadbeats. I can like memories but that's about it.
  • I still love my first love, but not in the same way. We're great friends, and I no longer feel attracted to her at all. I think that when you've been with someone for so long who you loved so much, you'll always care about them. However, I'm sure if I get married to someone and am with them for years on end, I'll forget about that old love pretty quickly. =)
  • i still love my first love, and i think that i always will, it is not the same as i love my fiance now my ex will always have a spot in my heart
  • No, it took years & a million boxes of tissues but my first true love although I don't hate him, I do not love him at all anymore
  • No, people sometimes change and the love can fade away.
  • well it depends on how much in love u were its been 5 years since my first love and i stil deep down love him and my current boyfriends know that too
  • I'm sure i'll love him forever. I just hope it doesn't hurt so much for long..
  • Hmm, I'm still with my first love, and I do feel this deep connection/bond with him, but I know that's not solely attributed to the fact that we're each other's firsts. I felt this connection with him when we were just friends. We have a lot in common and have great respect for each other. We really are like two halves of a whole, and I know he will always remain in my heart and I will never love another the way I love him.
  • Absolutely, doesn't mean I love the one I'm with now any less. There are things I really didn't like about her (actually how she reacted to circumstances), but remember, love and hate go hand in hand. Ambivalence is the death knoll when it comes to feelings.
  • I will always love my first love, but I love my husband more.
  • If it is true love... ABSOLUTELY. It has been YEARS and I dont love him any less today than the day that I married him and I would still do anything in the world for him. If you really truely LOVE someone I don't believe that that EVER goes away. That's not to say that your life doesn't go on or that you necessarily sit and think about that person 24/7, but when it comes right down to it... you would jump in front of the bus for them without a second thought...
  • I think you will always love your first love, but you will no longer be "in love" with them. To 'love' is to care for, and have fond feelings for. Being "in love" is so much more!!!
  • if it was truly love, not a crush, or lust masquerading as love.. then YES, real love is til you draw your last breath
  • Belive It or Not...yes.I used to think that scenarios like this always happened in movies...until I ran into my first love from Junior High today....I haven't seen him in five years and I kind of forgot about him...he recognized me first and gave me his number....the feelings came rushing back...i've been in a serious relationship since him and thought that he was just the past...but after seeing him for the first time in years ...everything had changed
  • Need to know what he.she want....Give him everything and that will be enouogh to be happy aabout getting apart from his.her first love....... Love means Love....happiness....and happy life...
  • Goodness YES - my first love cheated on me (with three different women that I KNOW about)and then dumped me for one of the 'other' women... I have slowly forgiven him and we are now friends but everytime I see him I go through about five minutes of heart flutter... And when I think about what happens I still feel like crying. He got engaged two months ago and I cried like a baby!!! (pathetic) I am with someone now (2 years) and I LOVE him like crazy, but there's always going to be that little thing flutter I think... God, am I pathetic?
  • I don't have feelings for the first person I really had a "crush" on. I mean. The first person I ever really loved wasn't until after college. I don't really care about any of the guys I liked before I was 21. Not at all...and I am a very sentimental and emotional person!
  • It would hurt. But in the end I wouldn't have the impetus to keep loving someone if they didn't feel the same way about me.
  • personally I don't love the first lobve of my life any more. He was mentally abusive and cheated on me, I know that I deserve a lot better than that. It took about 6 months to get over him (we were together for 5 years) but I was able to move on and am now much happier with a better man. good luck
  • My first love and I were friends all through middle and high school. After graduation we dated for a year. Then I broke up with him. A decision I regreted as soon as it was made. I spent the next 5 1/2 years thinking of nothing but him, even when I was with someone else. We each were in a long term relationship. I had a daughter. He got married and had a son. My fiance and I didn't work so we split and I heard that he and his wife got a divorce. About 5 months later he showed up out of nowhere. He told me that he missed me and that he wanted to try again. So we did. The way we see it, we were made for eachother. He said I was the only girl he was ever in love with and that all he thought about was me and that his marriage never felt right. I believe we had to have the time apart to have our children, and in a way grow up. We are more in love now than ever. I will ALWAYS love my first love! :)
  • I am still in love with my first love. We were together when we teenagers, took a five year brake, then got back together. When its meant to be you just know it. I love him with everything that I have. I never stopped in those five years, and the same with him, which is why we got back together.
  • Think about them fondly and smile occasionally when I thought of times we had, yes... Continue to 'love' someone who'd decided that I wasn't what they wanted after all, (despite all that devotion?) and walked away? I'd say I was in love with what I'd hoped it would be. Not what it became. So any left over love I had would eventually run out of steam, through lack of new material to feed it.
  • yes, i will always love my first love. no one could possibly compare.
  • it's been 13 years since my first love broke up with me after dating on snd off for 2 1/2 years. Two months after he broke up with me, the final time, he wanted to get back together. I chose to date someone else who is now my husband. I love my husband - he is my best friend and the best thing that has happened to me - but there isn't a day where I don't think of my first love -even on my wedding day. My first love is now married with 2 kids - I've been married for the past 8 years -happily - but wonder if/when I'll ever stop thinking/wondering about my first love. It's almost torture trying to figure out what this means.
  • me and my boyfriend split up a year soon we were together for nearly 4 years i thought he was the one i am with someone else now but am constantly thinking bout my ex its detroying me i hate it. it was my fort we split up becuase i made him jelous but we were drifting apart but cant help wonder if we could make a go of things againn i think hes my soul mate
  • Well, I know for sure I would. Even if we went our seperate ways, I would always...always care for my boyfriend.
  • I think so, but you have to define was it love or lust first... no one ver forgets their first love, but can forget the first one they lusted over..... You will love the your 1st love forever trust me...
  • Yes but in an animostic way.
  • ya like we can neva forget them...i mean may as love or hatred they wil be there in our lives...n somewhr in hatred thrs love:)
  • Probably, although the feelings diminish with time. I'll go to her funeral if I outlive her and know about it.
  • Yup! I love my first love still for what he was, but I don't love him for what he is now. He's changed so much! (We broke up.)
  • I will always care my first love in a friend way. Things didn't work out and we went our seperate ways. Neither one of us was at fault. If you look back and your 'first love' was someone that abused you or cheated I don't think you could have actually loved them. It seems like those are only lustful situations.
  • I still love my first love ??? i can't stop thinking of him and its been 12 years now,i still see him time to time and we have got together 4 years ago, but we driffted appart!! but every time i see him i just can't get him out of my head,i know deep down i will always LOVE him forever..................x I HOPE HE STILL THINKS OF ME SOMTIMES TOO....X????
  • You probably will not love them forever. They just opened your eyes to love so they will always be very special though.
  • No. You loved that person because you shared a part of your life with them and because you were willing to die for them if ever the case. But, to love your first love forever is kind of ridiculous. The person that you promise to stay with later on in your life you will love them more because the years spent with your first love will be uncomperable to the amount of years and life you will spend with that other person; you will love that person more and if you love a person with all your heart there will be no room for your first love. So, your first love will pass to history. Therefore you cannot love your first love forever.
  • Honestly, yes I do because I still think of him every single day. When I graduated I had a choice to make between him and the man I am married to now (12 years) and I love my husband with everything that I am and our 2 beautiful children but there is not one single day that goes by that I do not think of him. I know my life is so much better without him but he still holds a peice of me and always will. He is also married but has been in and out of jail and on drugs so I would NEVER act on my feelings or thoughts and in fact I hate myself sometimes for not being able to forget about him. I think the one thing that is always in my mind is "Does he think of me after all these years (16)?
  • No. I only love my first love as a friend now; we broke up because we no longer felt the romantic kind of love for each other.
  • Yes. I'll love him forever. It doesn't take away from the love I have for my husband. That first love helped make me the person I am and no matter what happened to break us up I will pray for him when I pray for my own family until the day I die. He's part of my very being, cherished the same as my own husband and children are by me. Love freely given is a gift that you don't take back.
  • Yes I will love her until I draw my last breath. She is the one who taught me how to love. Our relationship helped me grow and our break-up helped me become stronger and wiser. The love I have for her will never get in the way of me loving someone else but it will help me undertsand my current relationship more.
  • Not unless they are in your life now. I think you'll have fond memories (in most cases), but not "in love" with them.
  • in my case yes because i cant forget her or but truth is i dont want to... i still lover her
  • Guess so. Had this girl I really liked at one point and I'm still a little bit more fond of her than most girls even though we don't socialise all that much anymore.
  • I am 43 and I still am in contact with my first love (thanks to myspace).We started dating when I was 13 and broke up when I was 18. He still is in my heart and my dreams and if I lived in the same state as he we would be together again. That feeling will never go away and I dont want it either.I love him madly and forever,as you will your first. By the way we have both had 3 failed marriages over the years.
  • Yes, you will always love your first love. I know I will love my first love till I breathe my last breath. I spoke to him today after 10 years and I agree.. Heart fluttering. We have a quiet mutual understanding that we will always love each other for the rest of our lives, even though we are not together.
  • I remember my first love-although I don't think of the person all of the time - but a sweet memory. It was special and pure way back in the spring-the springtime of my life. I loved the person then - in that space and time. You move on - and life opens doors that you would have never dreamed of in a million years. You arrive where you should be in your journey. Then you realize you probably wouldn't have reached your home if you took a different path. But you'll always remember with fondness and love-the first one to enter your heart (still in there and stirs around now and then) until you're gone.
  • No when I think about them I can remember some of the good things but so much has happened since then that it is all so faint and far away and a long time ago. I question whether anyone should "completely devote yourself" to anyone really - after all they are only human so imperfect. Best to devote yourself yes but have enough going of your own that does not depend upon them that if they leave you still have enough of yourself remaining to carry on with.

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