ANSWERS: 8
  • It's an interesting advice.
  • Be glad he blocked you! Now you no longer have to hear his lies! He is an ex for a reason leave him in your past and don't give him another second of your present or future! Be sure to tell the 'friend' what he said so he is aware of the nature of their supposed friendship!
  • Sounds like it's time to move on with your life.
  • His comments can have as much power as you allow them, he is an ex for a reason.
  • I did reach out to his friend but only to show my ex that I didn’t try hooking up with him. After I reached out to his friend he said really hurtful things and blocked me. Over a week ago. We promised we wouldn’t leave in bad terms. He is normally a very mature man. Idk what to do
    • bostjan64
      Why would you reach out to your ex's friend? Seems like a lousy strategy to me. If your ex used to be mature and no longer is, then, well, he no longer is mature. Why do you care if he thinks you hooked up with his friend after you broke up anyway? In any argument, it's best to understand both sides. If his side is: "You shouldn't have slept with my pal," it really demands an answer to the question "why would that be my problem, if I had?" If your side is, "I didn't," and his response is "Yeah you did," then all you can do is shrug your shoulders and walk away. You know you didn't do the thing that doesn't even matter anyway, so who cares?! If that's what's going on, then this guy is just a toxic person. Best to move on.
    • bostjan64
      Let me put it this way, as a neutral observer, I don't even care if you did or did not do the thing. If you hooked up with your ex's buddy, that's breech of the bro code, and that's really between the two of them.
    • Heathergar121314
      He knew we didn’t sleep together. I’ve only met his friend once. His friend also lives 12 hours away. He said that he had just talked to him. When I reached out to his friend he said he didn’t say anything about me to My ex other than asking if we were still together. He said he was saying some weird stuff on when he talked to him. I only asked his friend what was going on and when he was clueless I said I was as well. My ex yelled at me then blocked me for the first time ever.
    • bostjan64
      So, let me ask this: Why does it matter? Does he have your dog or something? If not, then enjoy the rest of your life unfettered by jerks such as this.
  • "Think of what you're saying You can get it wrong and still you think that it's alright / Think of what I'm saying We can work it out and get it straight, or say goodnight / We can work it out We can work it out / Life is very short, and there's no time For fussing and fighting, my friend" --The Beatles "We Can Work It Out" (1966)
  • Meh. Just trying to dirty the waters before throwing you in. Ex has probably cheated/stolen/lied to you, but is trying to make it out as your fault for it happening. You should look to drop such toxic people from your life anyway.
  • Coming to an anonymous Q&A site sure isn't the answer since we don't know anything about you or your situation. And I'm confused about how one "randomly accuses" you of something. Were there other people there for him to choose from to accuse and just picked your name out of a hat?

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