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  My name is Fabian. So there is this girl i have a big crush on, (not dating) I'm not ready to ask her out yet. But her name is Alyssa . I met her in middle school and me and her still text ALOT, like everyday. We sometimes hang out and chill. me and her care and love eachother alot, she loves me because i always been there for her, and i always made her feel better, she said she wouldn't know what she do without me. She said i am like one of the realest people out there. she said me and her will rock together forever. but these past 7 days i feel like me and her were getting dry, like if our bond wasn't the same , like if something was wrong with her. I miss texting her more, laughing and having funny and enjoyable convos, where we texted more and she replied faster. I noticed she has been sleeping in all day until 5 or 6pm , and she goes to bed earlier then usual, it made no sense to me. She also hasn't been texting anybody that much and she hasn't been on social media that much, i asked her and she "said You're the first person to actually notice. but idk, I've been sleeping a lot and idk why . Then i asked her what is causing all that and she said " I just got out of a really toxic friendship and it's been taking a huge toll on my emotions lately ". Turns out it was her bestfriend (Jony) they were really close. She really cared and trusted him. I asked what happened and she said "A lot of manipulation and mental abuse". What do you think she meant by that and what do you think might of happened? She said "We still talk a lil bit,, I just needed some space" But to be honest i don't know how to really help her, i need to find the right words to have her move on and whatever they have wasn't real anymore. I don't want her to think i am trying to talk her out her feelings, i also don't want to make her sound guilty or anything like that, i don't want to sound like An Asshole either. I am that type of person that is always going to be real with people and she knows that. I want her to be strong. Alot of people hurt
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  I have a baby painted turtle named Avery, as of now I'm not sure of its gender. I have UVB lighting on her basking rock, and keep the temperature at 80 degrees. It has calcium supplements, and I'm doing the best I can with it, as I've never owned a turtle before. Avery is two weeks old, and its shell is slightly soft. I've checked for rotting and pyramiding, but there are no signs of either. My questions are; 1. Is the soft shell normal? I have its UVB light on all day, although I turn it off at night. 2. What is a proper diet for baby painted turtles, is it the same as adults? 3. Am I missing any of the needs for Avery? 4. Do I need to buy vitamin supplements? 5. I change the tank once every 2-3 days, do I change it sooner? Things that I have for Avery: 60 gallon tank Filter UVB light that also provides heat Water thermometer Basking area where it can completely get out of water Water at 78-80 degrees most of the time (it cools down to 72 during the night but heats back up again during the day) Calcium bone chews (it is using them) I do not have a tank heater, but I am not sure if it's necessary due to the tank staying relatively the same temperature, but I plan to get one once winter hits. If you can help me I will be so relieved, I love this turtle and I'm willing to do anything possible to keep it as healthy as I can!
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  I lied to my doctor about my eyesight when I was smaller and I failed my eye exams on purpose, but now a couple of year later I've been having really bad headaches and my doctor told me it's because I haven't worn my glasses but that's because I don't need them. I have perfect vision I need help with what to do because if I go to my doctor again and do the eye exam and pass it with 20/20 vision she will question me but my headaches had gotten really bad so I need help. What should I do?
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  Help please. My friend is in trouble and I don’t know how to help her, she’s going through so much and she’s only 11. She’s an internet friend, so I just don’t know how I can help her over text. Here are her words, sorry it’s really long “It's not fair. I feel like I'm being neglected by my mom but I don't know. It's just.. Ugh. We're 11 and 12 and we haven't learned how to do laundry yet. Our mom doesn't do our laundry either. Yeah our washer is broken but there's a laundry mat not far at all from our house. But she still doesn't wash our clothes and she actually knows how to-- But like, she just lets our 61 year old grandma who is really weak and has asthma and lives in a hotel do our laundry?? When she can literally just take it to the laundry mat and do it herself Okay second off We're not getting an education since November. She pulled us out because we were being bullied but we never started any other type of school.. We haven't seen a doctor or dentist in TWO YEARS. Wtf. Make us an appointment mom A lot of times I overdosed on albuterol because..suicidal thoughts. Sadly I never died but, she didn't even take me anywhere to get help any of the times I overdosed? And she knew I overdosed? Like this has been going on for months and months. I can only have 4 puffs of albuterol in 24 hours-- I keep taking around 20-50 puffs of it in less than 5-10 minutes. Why haven't I died already?! Albuterol overdose can be fatal. It can lead to cardiac arrest or even death which is my goal. Next time I should use my whole fucking inhaler. Whenever I overdose I start feeling all shaky and weak and dizzy..and my head starts throbbing..and it gets hard to breathe and it feels like my heart is beating way too fast.. And I can't form coherent sentences and my vision gets all blurry.. I need help. She doesn't understand. All the times I overdosed, cried for no reason, yelled over nothing, felt sad and fatigued for hours and hours. She hasn't taken a fucking hint. The other day I told her I was having suicidal thoughts and t
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  Okay, sooo I have a girlfriend and i inserted my penis inside her for like 2 minutes before scaring away from it.This was on the 17th of January and i scared out completely and we both got really scared about pre cum and it had been the first time we had ever had sex. We both were also virgins. I bought plan b and gave it to her the day after. Shortly after, she had her period for 12-13 days. She regularly has it for 3-4days. She got off it on the 3rd of February, or the 4th.. i dont quite remember but she hasn't had it since and it's March 2nd. I read a lot about this and people say it completely messes up the cycle and im sure it does.. im just still so scared. To make my case scarier, i had sex with her without a condom for like 1 minute again before scarying away and i came in her mouth and not in her. Although i have never came inside of her.. it's my second time havingsex and im so scared of pre cum and im terrified. It's the next day since last nights incident butim still worried why she hasnt had her period yet. Also, a week ago when i was fingering her, she gets really wet and when i was fingering her.. a thin, sticky, clearish cloudy white liquid stayed on the tip of my fingers but people say it's cum and it's only when i finger her and it happens only sometimes... usually when im rubbing without a lot of friction in her so i guess its her wet lubricated vagina rubbing against my fingers accumulating on my fingers or i dont know. she hasn't had any white discharge out of her vagina.. its only been that when i finger her. Also, now that i remember... she used moisturizer around her clit one of the two times this cloudy white stuff stayed on the tip of my fingers so im guessing one of the times it could've been that because i ate her out and it tasted like the same moisturizer she puts on her neck that i dont notice when im kissing her neck.. the second time could be the cum though and what i stated before. im not sure if its pregnancy discharge because she hasnt had random discharge of white liquid
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  I am 14. For the past months I've been experiencing an anxiety like feeling. I usually worry about things that shouldn't be worried about it shouldn't be worried about that much. Then everyday it keeps happening I keep thinking and then I over think and it could be positive but if it's negative then it will get me scared or have me keep thinking about it. And everyday I fidget or walk around non stop back and forth and when I do I think. Good or bad. I think. Most of the times I overthink and I don't want that feeling. And I can't sleep well at night and I stay up late. Not like through until the middle of the night but my bed time is usually around 10:30 or suppose to be but I usually fall asleep between 12:30 to about 2 the most. Then when I wake up everyday I feel like I need to sleep in more because I'm tired and sleepy still. That's just one problem with my sleep. The other is that I'm afraid sleeping by myself in the dark. I just think if I try to sleep peacefully then I would hear whispers or I would feel something rub on me and open my eyes someone would be there. I believe in ghost but that experience never happend with me. Meaning I know it won't happen but my anxiety is taking over making me scared and rarely panic sometimes to where I have my mom sleep with me. Or I sleep with the lights on. And next one is my ear. I think I might either have the mineres disease or tinnitus or whatever because for years I've been hearing ringing in my ears or left ear mostly . but I figured it was normal but now since I gotten smarter and mature I decided to look up what it was. But I still hear it til today like this moment. Usually at night it gets loud. But on a daily basis I can hear it but it's no big deal. I just want to get it checked out just to be on the safe side. Rarely it goes to both of my ears or spreads but mainly it's been on my left ear. It might also be on my right ear but not as much but Idk. All I know is that I hear ringing like 24/7 and there has come times where I ignore it and forget it's the
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  So I joined college a week ago and it's been great so far. Haven't made a lot of friends yet but it's fine. My roommate is some girl I've never met before till like 4 days ago and she and her friends seem pretty cool. I'm not a very talkative person (probably awkward af) and I try to be social but it just turns into a very awkward situation. The hostel I stay in usually offer meals and since I can't eat some foods (tummy issues) I decided to order takeout on my first day stay. My roommate and her friend were on the top bunk talking during dinner and they told me to go get some food and I declined saying I was full and all but then my takeout arrived and when I got to eating, she and her friend weren't there so there's no way I could offer it to them. So when they came back, the food was already cold and I felt bad offering them cold food (bc it seems like I'm giving them my leftovers; rude) so I just kept it there till the next morning when I threw it out. A few days later, I hear her talking to her friends telling them how selfish I am. It really hurts bc we don't know each other that well and she's already making judgements about me. We don't talk much but I feel like I've been nothing but good to her despite being quiet and all. God knows what nonsense she's been feeding her friends. What should I do? I really do like her friends
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  Im only 15 and im in the worst possible situation in my life right now. im so stressed out. i dont do drugs, smoke, or drink. ive never had sex and im an overall good student. but there are things going on right now that i cant explain.what do i do!?
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  I Had sex for the first time 3 days ago and my vagina was dry while it happened and it still is. It wasn't dry before Whenever we would talk about it i would get wet but when it happened I was dry and I'm worried THAT I STILL AM. I bled the day I lost it and now 3 days later I'm bleeding again but it's still dry down there. Can someone help. Has this happened to anybody else? I don't want a dry vagina.
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  I had Sex Raww (Unprotected) With 2 guys In 2 days, now I'm Pregnant. The first guy came IN me and the second Used the "pull out" method. Can somebody help me Calculate this to see who the Daddy is? My last period was September 22, 2016. I had sex with the First Guy On October 12, 2016 He Came Inside Me But Said He Was Infertle but the tests were done When he was 19 and now he's 22, But the mourning after we had Sex my Stomach Was Cramping and My Head Hurt a little. The second Guy I had Sex with was on October 14, 2016 and He claims that he Pulled Out.... can somebody Help Me Calculate who is the daddy. I know it's "Hoeish" to have sex with more than one Man but I'm not in a Relationship and They Were both FRIENDS with BENEFITS.. can somebody help me Please? The first Guy I Like A lot so I'd Keep It and The Second One he's over age so that can't happen. I don't want to have a baby and tell one person they're the dad and then get DNA and Say I'm lying I don't want to look like a Hoe. Please help me with this!!! Thank you