How can you completely trust someone who is cheating their partner? I don't think one can. And if you are knowingly "dating" someone who has made a marriage or partnership commitment, then you are no better. A very important rule in relationships is this: clean up the old one before you start the new one. No one is betrayed that way. People can make a relationship work that is based on a certain level of dishonesty at the start, but it's not a good place to start. And while it may work, it often does not.

Stastics have shown many married men will cheat in their marriages but at the same time very few married men who would leave their marriages for another woman (despite what they say to the other woman). What does this mean for you? You cannot trust him. One thing is true, what he does to his wife is what he will do to you. You cannot trust someone who will cheat on his wife for you, because even if you become his wife, he will do the same to you. Cheating is acceptable to him. If cheating is acceptable in his moral code, then he would do it to you too. What he did onto her, he can do onto you. There is always that risk. Do you want to live with that?

You ask him to leave his wife for you. If he does so immediately then you might be able to think about trusting him. I bet he gives you an excuse though.

Or how does he trust you if in fact he ever did leave his wife.

You don't, you find someone else. Unless you like feeling unsure all the time. Not sure if he really loves you because he's married. Not sure if his wife and you are the only person he's seeing. Not sure if how he treats his wife differs than how he treats you. not sure not sure........ because it's not supposed to be this way. I think you should leave him alone and let him find someone else to confuse. I'm working on getting over the married man that got to me, it's hard but we need to do it.

I do not care what anybody tells you, i can tell you now, that there is no way to completely trust a married man who is in a relationship with another woman. Meaning he's screwing you, and his wife...reality check, i think you need a couple of those. He's not a good man, because a real man, does not betray his wife. He is a cheater, liar and overall obviously a scum bag. He's feeding you excuses, lies, and you are falling for it...just like he wants you to, into his trap. How about the other woman? The one that walked down the isle to her husband, and said, "for better or for worse", how do you think she's going to feel? Sometimes in life you need to think about other people, and how you effect other peoples lives. How can you sleep at night, knowing that some other woman is involved...She has a marriage to this man, and you are the other woman. It's odd, you are okay being the other woman, i'd never put myself in that position. I honestly, can't justify, what you're dealing with a married man. I want to give you some sort of advice, but my only advice is you're lying to yourself that this man has anything for you. If he did, he wouldn't still be with his wife...he'd be with you. Don't let him have both, there is single men you know...

The fact that you are helping him cheat on his wife makes me want to know why you even care whether he is trustworthy or not. You *know* that he's married, you *know* that he's got the duty of being her husband, yet you're going behind her back with him. That's really not fair. Think about his wife who has no idea of what's going on. She might have an idea and she might not, but I think this is all very inconsiderate. I don't think he should trust you and I don't think you should trust him, either. Move on, find people who are't "committed". What do you want from him? Do you feel happy with the fact that he wants to see you even though he's married? Does it make you feel better? How would you feel if you were in his wife's shoes? Your in a situation that could hurt another person and should get out of it ASAP! I don't care if it affects your "so-called love life", 'cause in my opinion, if a person is married or in a relationship.. they're TAKEN.. and especially if they're married.. and if that's mean, so is not caring that he's married. If you did care that he was married, you wouldn't be dating him.

you dont do it . You are destroying a family maybe no children and then again maybe 3. I am trying to figure out what women will do to break up a marriage because I feel ther is one trying to destroy the family I have held together through so much...because of her my children are in therapy and I am on medication... You women who consider being with married men are a disgrace! I consider you equal to murdering thieves because you kill familys and steal fathers and husbands.

You completely trust that his past actions will be repeated in the future. Why would he change when he is having so much fun?

This is a stupid question. How can you trust a man who is lying and being unfaithful to his wife (and family)? Hmmmm......WHAT DO YOU THINK?

What?

thats so funny

How can you trust him at all?

You don't.

Uh..hello? Married man? You don't.

Hahaha...I can only laugh!

He's betraying the person who should be most important in his life. He is not worthy of trust.

Go ahead. Trust him. I'm sure everything will be alright...... NOT.

You can't. Not even a little bit because he is unfaithful, a liar, a cheat, and lacks integrity. But if that is what you want in a man, then go for it.

You can't, you know that and you know why you can't.

LMAO, Great joke. I am sure you two will make a fine couple some day.

Ask him to file for divorce from his wife and get copies of everything. Otherwise, you'll never be able to completely trust a married man. If he were trustworthy, would he really be cheating on his wife?

You wont be able to trust him. How do you know he's not doing it to you.

You can't. He's a liar by definition and has broken the trust of his wife. What would keep him from doing the same to you?

I do not think that you can trust him... not even if you are both liars and are both married and having an affair. I guess it depends where you expect to take the relationship and if you are both in agreement. Again, I do not think you can ever really trust someone when your relationship is founded on lying to be together. The trust will have to be proven over a long period of time once you are in a full-time relationship together.

No, thats goes for you to, if you are seeing a married man to me you are a home wrecker, and you should be a shamed, you and him need your butts kicked.

... You don't. And why would you want to?

Hello? You don't. If he's stepping out on her with you, he'll do it to you too.

How can you trust a cheat?

why would you date a married man????? and why would you trust him???? don't you think that if he is cheating on his wife then he will cheat on you? well he really is cheating on you as well because he is married and with his wife....what a sad situation...does he have children??

Unless you are complete idiot, as well as a total skank, you don't!

you don't

You can't, and obviously no one can trust you either since you're dating someone's husband.

lol...lol...lol sorry I can't stop laughing ...lol... dating a married man and trust in the same sentence..lol...lol....oh please stop your killing me !

Unless this married man is married to you then you can't trust him as obviously he is untrustworthy, but then again, so are you. A match made in heaven!

If he cared about anyone besides himself in the first place, he wouldn't be "dating" while he's married... So if he only cares about himself, he doesn't care about you at all, and therefore you have ZERO reason to trust him.

if he is married and was honest about it believe me thats all he has been honest about. walked in your shoes once He told me what I wanted to hear other than that he was leaving the marriage. I wasted valuable time waiting and waiting and waiting a lot of time being lonely. He did evetually get out of the marriage and looked me up but by then I had finally found someone. Believe me get out of the relationship he is not worth your time besides the untimate question could you trust him not to cheat on you if you did get together? He did meet you while he was married to someone else. I say once a cheater always a cheater.

If you're asking this, you'll never COMPLETELY trust them.

Ask his wife, she probably completely trusts him.

Is it just me or are you contradicting yourself. You can't...

First, allow me to say that in my opinion, your question is the epitome of an oxymoron. As I sit here staring at your question I cannot think of where to start. How about here; you can never trust a married man that you are dating. Using the term "dating" to me is a bit farfetched too. What you are doing is... You know what? Never mind. I am not here to point fingers, tell you how to live your life, etc. So to reiterate, there is absolutely no way you can completely trust this man. Now or if he leaves her for you or even if the two of you get married. I would say that I personally would find it extremely difficult to ever trust him, under any circumstance, so to give you advice as how to do so is beyond me. I wish you luck and hope you find whatever truth it is you are looking for.

What do you call that? An oxymoron? Paradoxical? Haha. Come now, if you trust a married man who is dating you, you should have no trust in yourself for being so credulous.

You can't be serious.

There will always be uncertainty when you date a married person, but you can reduce some of the risk by dating someone who has as much, if not more, to lose as you do if things turn south. Usually you just make the best of it, enjoy what you can, and when it ends move on. There will always be another.

I would not date a married man. Why do you think this is ok? If he will cheat on her, he will cheat on you!

Is this a rhetorical question?

It's like hiring a pedophile to babysit.... Bad idea.

How? How. News. You don't.

This is a joke right? "How to completely trust a 'married' man"? Hmmmm could you repeat the question while speaking out loud?

If you are foolish enough to date a married man, you are sure to be foolish enough to trust him.

:) never,ever, date a married person

The fact that hes married means he is cheating on you everytime he goes home and shags his wife. =] Do onto others as you wish done onto you.

you dont

If you are not in a comitted relationship, then what do you need to have trust in?

You can't, and why the hell ya wanna date a married man for?

don' fool yourslf!you should not !

I'm not going to be the one to call you clueless.

YOu don't!!! He's cheating on his wife!!!!

?! well no offense but you sound like a gullible fool! There is no trust in a relationship where someone is lying and deceiving their partner to be with you..if he could do that to them there is NO way you could think they would ever be truthful to you. I can never figure out why people get with someone who is married and then think that person will be faithful to them and marry them and not cheat...if they can do it to their spouse they can do it to you! My advice; if you want trust, find someone who is trustworthy!

You're pissin' me off!!! Dating a married man. If you're stupid enough to do that, then you deserve what he will put you through.

Sounds to me you need to find your own man, why is that so hard for people these days?

You dont, he is already proving his dishonesty by cheating on his wife Find a man of your own why would you want to date another womans husband and worry if he is trustworthy.

"I would'nt date a married man in the first place!! I'll make shure before I date, as to whether he's married or not. Even if he doesn't wear a RING!!"

Oh No..... why should we trust a cheater ?

Trust that this married man is really not available.

You can't cuz he's not truthful...that's so hypocritical

You don't

better question would be, why would you? why are you dating a married man? you really should think more of yourself than that. you are settling for being some guys bitch.

yeah you are the one in the wrong with him .

Why the hell are you dating a married man? Go find someone that hasn't already vowed to devote his live to someone else!!!!

Its really very simple......... YOU CANT!!!!!!!!!!!

You dont!

what comes around goes around. history will repeat itself. remember that.

I would imagine the answer to this is very clear. You can't. He shows how untrustworthy he is every time he goes out with you.

the key word in that question is married! you should never ever trust a married man that you're dating! In reality one should never date a married man to begin with.

You can't. He's being disrespectful of his wife (unless she knows) and he's a liar.

Lmao!

By choosing to ignore the obvious. I mean, the evidence seems to suggest he sees nothing wrong with being a liar, an adulterer, and a user. But hey, you're an adulterer too, so it just might be a match made in heaven. Stick with it, I'm sure it'll all work out for the best.

You can't trust a married man, especially if ur dating him while he's married.

ummm U DONT!!! u shouldnt be with a married man

You don't. End of story.

You don't he will never leave his wife no matter what he says so be prepared to be the other woman. If for some reason he leaves his wife for you, he'll cheat on you with someone else and leave you for her.

haha if you do your stupid

you don't. he is a married man. Do it for the sex, but don't try to trap him; his wife will rip out your heart and eatit for lunch.

trust him? you have GOT to be kidding? once a cheater, always a cheater.

How could you ever trust someone who is breaking the trust of his marriage??????? He's scum for not having the courage to end his marriage BEFORE bedding someone else....and where are your morals? You are concerned about trusting a married man that you are dating...why resort to dating a married man in the first place?? There are some very nasty words to describe both of you, none of which I will use. I hope you wise up and leave married men alone......until they are single again. Hopefully is wife finds out and takes him for everything he's worth.......then maybe you can play house and support him..........LOL

will you like if your mother do sex with her boyfriend?

Uh...HELLO? He's already cheating!!! Would you trust a SNAKE--after it bit you?

That has to be the most ridiculous question I've ever heard. He's married to someone else and carrying on with you?! If he's a cheater, you can't ever trust him. What do you think he's going to do leave his wife and marry you?!! Not very likely! And even if he did, you would wonder who he was with every time he wasn't with you. And what kind of loser are you to date someone else's husband?! If he lied to you and told you he was single, you should have dumped his lying-ass the minute you found out. Don't you have an iota of self-esteem? Next time out, when you meet someone, make sure they are not taken. And I don't just mean married, I mean in a relationship with someone else. Make absolutely sure he is totally free in every way so you don't set yourself up for the ultimate heartache.

LMFAO. Well you can start by dating people who arn't married. Oh and I guess you can't, He would always be cheating on you...WITH HIS WIFE.

Well you shouldn't be dating a married man... He probably lies to you... he lies to his wife... what makes you think you are better than his wife... believe me you aren't.

You Can't!

Are you out of your mind?

now dis question pisses me off. y r u datin him if he's married. Get a new man and get off his D*ck! off course u can neva trust him cuz he's alreadi cheatin on his wife, y would u think u would be so special for him not 2 cheat on u? Dis Was A STUPID question.

ROTFL .... this is a joke right???? you are a mad women... You can't .......

Love he will NEVER leave his wife for you EVER, you should not wait for him to do this. Go and find your own SINGLE man that you can have to your own self.

You can never trust a married man. He's probably lying to his wife. So why should he be honest with you.

Duh, you can't. And you are not to be trusted either.

hah, you cant.. he is lying to his wife, so he is probably lying to you too, and after you he will lie to others once a cheater always a cheater..

Life is full of decisions that appear so easy but are very complex. Yes, we all know one should not get involved with a married man. But for more reasons than anyone really can imagine; it happens. To answer your question, NO, you can not trust him! Simply because right now the man you are dating can not even trust himself if he could he would not be in the situation he's in. We are only in control of our own actions and you can not let your hopes of a future with this man keep you in this horrible position. I pray that you find a way out of your current circumstance and into a loving relationship that you can call your own! You need more than this married man can offer and as long as you focus on if a married man can be trusted, you're sure to miss every single man that can be trusted. Hint: The single guys also have the greatest potential of becoming your trustworthy husband:) As for the wives who blame the other women, I do feel your pain but please keep in mind; the other women did not make a promise before God, family and friends to love, honor and cherish you. Your husband, on the other hand, did. So your cheating husband put his children in therapy not the other woman. This is one reason why men continue to cheat because women go after the other women and forget that you both have been hurt and betrayed. I highly doubt women are out there trying to destroy families, keep in mind, she(the other woman) has a family too that is being destroyed as well. All married individuals should be faithful but when they are not I feel the married party plays the greatest role in the wrong doing. The other women has probably been lied to and strung along for the ride while the wife gets to keep the sorry sack of shit she call a husband. Its a lose/lose situation.