I don't know how many times I have answered this question for different young ones. If she doesn't remember, that means she was either drinking heavily or taking drugs. This is a warning to her: STOP. Drunkenness and drugs pull down your inhibitions and you do things you regret later. I have no doubt she does regret what she did. I cannot say that you should or should not take her back, but if you do, it must be under strict conditions. Moderate to no drinking, and NO drugs. The most important thing you have in this world is your reputation. If you lose it, it is hard to get it back again, and it is so hard to regain the trust people once had for you. ONce again, let this be a warning. Don't drink to excess. Pace yourself. Women can only drink 2 glasses of alcohol in a first hour and one per hour thereafter to be over a legal driving limit. Let that be the UPPER limit of what she drinks at a party. In between, drink water and some juice. And young men: your limit is 3 drinks for the first hour and one each hour after that to take you over the limit. That should be the UPPER level for you too. For all of you, drink even less than that. It is possible to have fun without being drunk. You might find out that the people around you have interesting lives if you are sober enough to listen to their stories.

who is she to put you through that physical and mental stress and heartbreak. you will always remember it, it will always be burned in your mind and heart, while she claims to not remember a thing and can go about life with only a guilty conscience.

I wouldn't trust her again.

ohhhh she remembers!!!!

Was she hella drinking....yeah if you say no....well she's does remember. Oh and even if she didn't drink you need to drop her cuz thats going to be her main excuse in life. "boo hoo hoo I don't remember....MY A$$!!!! I'm telling ya put a stop to this...she'll walk all over you! =)

Doesn't remember or doesn't WANT to remember? I'd say if she's not willing to admit to it and remember it, she's trying to hide it and deny it. Therefore, if it happened again she'd just "forget". No, she probably isn't to be trusted.

I say move on.

If she can't remember, she's either a liar or a lush. I wouldn't trust that person any more, personally. Oh, and Magic 8-Ball says "Very Doubtful".

What exactly did she do at the party? You were there, so you would know how drunk she was. If you were at the party and you let her get so drunk that she doesn't remember, then is it really completely her fault?

What was it she was doing? If all you care about is whether you can "trust" her then forget it - because its not about trust but about how well you get along with and enjoy each other. Can you "trust" anyone? Probably not because people are selfish. If she claims not to remember anything then perhaps she has problems with alcohol and drugs which does not sound great. But think about it: do you think she really needs you to "trust" her to get along? If you have a great time together then stay together. If she prefers other men to you then let her go.