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  • Sit quietly and watch him while he does something he really loves.
  • Find out what he likes by talking to him about it. Different guys like different things so I cant tell you one particular thing that you can do.
  • I suppose talking dirty is counted as 'anything like that'. That's my personal favourite and it works like a charm. You look him in the eye and tell him very seriously what looking at him does to you and what it makes you think and feel and what it makes you want to do to him. You don't have to use words like 'fuck' and 'wet', I'm told it's more of a turn on when you wax lyrical.
  • playing with her lips, especially if she have sexy ones like yours.
  • Just being in the same room is good....and any kind of physical contact does it for me.
  • Make him desperate to have you, do not be upfront about anything, act like your gunna go down on him and tease him a little bit then start to kiss him agian somewhere like his abs. Then play with his belt, then stop playing with his belt and go somewhere else that isnt close to his crotch, make him beg you to go down on him.
  • A massage with some scented oil butt naked!!! Listening to some R & B music
  • show up
  • I find that being alone with him and just looking at him the right way is enough. Though once I just leaned my head on a guy's shoulder in a movie and suddenly his soldier was standing at full attention. Guys are fun like that.
  • buy him a "CAT" baseball cap, lose a front tooth and learn to chew 'tabacca'
  • Talk to him and give small touches on his hands or arm.
  • Doesn't take much, but everyone's different: aside from obvious goping, try licking ear/neck, whispering in his ear(could be anything, what you want to do with him, the weather, baseball scores etc..it's the warm whispering in his ear that does it),soft touch to the arm/leg, a provacative gaze, eye contact,...like I said, almost anything. Actually, gotta go. Looking at her sleeping and laying next to her is enough, but it will have to wait till the morning.
  • Have a debate on a subject you both consider you know well.
  • Plan to spend a night together out on the town. Pay for a nice dinner, but nothing too elaborate or too expensive. Go for a drive out to the edge of town or to a secluded place. Best is a clearing surrounded by trees but with a clear view of the night sky. Have a blanket with you, and a bit of music selected for its seductive qualities - what he likes, not necessarily a pick exclusive to you (this might take some research to discover, but it pays). Lie together for a while talking quietly. If he doesn't respond, remind him that your clothing is removable. If he still doesn't respond, check his pulse.
  • flirting is the key to that! all a lady has to do is be suggestive.... and us men lose brain function.....lol
  • Her personality................M.C.S.
  • be fun, silly, and show cheeky smiles.. this may remind you both of your first dates if they were like that... I think its light, casual, and very fun :p
  • show a lot of tongue... lick your lips a lot... give sexy eyes too
  • smile and be suggestive... play a little!
  • There's a spot on the side of a guys neck mid-point right on the tendon if you catch it just right with a nibble can be very effective in getting things started. There's a very nice nerve bundle right under the surface.
  • Hit him from behind on the head with a good old frying pan. Next thing ya know when he begins to comes too, and sees you standing over him. He'll think your a *STAR*. What one!!!! Who knows?..................No really just be your self. Don't try to be who your not, or what your not. Just being yourself is always the best way to go.......M.C.S.
  • Something that Mrs. Duck does to me, is to call me at work and ask if anyone is in my office... If there is, she immediately starts talking about very distinct things she is going to do to me. She loves that I am defenseless and cannot answer back. It stirs a thing or two up, and plants seeds in my mind early in the day. By the time I get home, all it takes is a little neck kissing and soft voice talk, and I'm revved up hotter'n a housefire. Next thing you know, the hairpulling, neck biting and other reindeer games begin.
  • You are asking for the best way to turn him on? Ok, while looking at him in the eyes, just do the letter "O" with your lips them move your head back and fro a few times. It works in a fraction of a second.
  • If your guy is really into you, then you just being yourself should turn him on. My boyfriend is turned on just as soon as I walk into a room.
  • well all she has to do is rub a little and kiss a little for me, and maybe bite my ear
  • sit on his lap and kiss him
  • Make an exremely innocent face and just look at him kinda deeply. Works for me.
  • Just be her. Maybe bend down? Get a little touchy-feely? And then some.
  • suck his cock
  • i hear ear biting for some guys is pretty much an instant tun on, but like everyone has said, if he really likes you just being in your company is enough- a meaningful conversation, a glance, a smile- it should all do the trick-- or so i've learned.
  • Perform fellatio on one of his fingers. It works without fail.
  • Make love with your eyes. No touching.
  • hold his hand. sit next to him and let your legs touch each other. like knee and above. he will begin to the feel the heat, and he will turn on.
  • phone sex can be a big turn on or u can go 2 ann summers and ask him wat he'd like 2 c u wear or u can try txt flirting its great coz u can do it anywhere and none knows wat ur doing and you'll b less nervous coz u can think about wat ur saying
  • light some candles, put on a sexy nighty, walk out in front of him and talk dirty to me...gets them eveytime
  • Do something out of the ordinary. Get out of the routine. But by all means, do not "surprize him with anything ! ie; don't meet him at the door with a bunch of exotic plans that he is unaware of. He might of had a bad day and wants some rest. This will only make your feelings worse. Do however have a plan ready to go when the time comes. Tell him the night before, or call him at work and tell him that you'd like some one-on-one time with him this/tomorrow evening. Men usually get "tunnel vision" and only concentrate on what's happening NOW! Women tend to concentrate at everything all the time. If you have been together for some time, both of you already know what each other is going to do next. Break up the monotony. This does it for me........ Most of the women I've been involved with wear their hair long. I find long haired women more attractive when they pull their hair back. Secure the hair from front in the back. Then put on some "dangly" ear rings.Ya know, the ones that hang down at least an inch? I guess it's because day-to-day, I never get to see her cheeks and ears.Now I get to see her whole face. Some mascara and eyeliner to darken the border of their eyes, some MILD eye shadow helps too. (none of that purple stuff!) Get pretty. NOT SLUTTY. You don't have to wear a cocktail dress, or a ballroom gown. Just don't wear those same old pants and shirt. He'll know that "something" is going on in your head. If you need to "feel" sexy,...put on your best underwear prior to dressing. You'll know it's there, but he won't have no idea until later. NOW, this is important ! If he comes home with a friend , or doesn't immediately recognize how pretty you are,.......ABORT THE MISSION ! ABORT THE MISSION, and save it for when he is ready and totally acceptable. Don't get upset, remember that his mind is somewhere else at the time. We men can only concentrate locally. The mission may be able to continue later, after some time of "re-programming". Do not attempt to force the re-programming. The male does this on his own. Anything you do to help only makes it take longer. Whatever you do. Do not leave mad and stay all night somewhere else. He will wonder "Why in the hell did she get all dressed up and leave me alone"? "She must have wanted an argument so she could leave to be with another guy" You've just made the poor guy "reeboot" his brain. Oops, I've rambled long enough. Hopefully some nice lady will gain something from this :)
  • Tell him you want to have a threesome with him and one of your hot friends!
  • Right after he gets off work, sit him down on a comfortable couch and give him a relaxing massage. After you are done take him to the kitchen and serve him his favorite food. If a girl ever did that for me I would see her as the most sexest girl alive, no doubt.
  • bend over.
  • Know how to french kiss really well, breaking off the hot/steamy kiss to breathe onto his neck and then go back at kissing for a while. That should do it.
  • Ask him if he wants a blow job.
  • Vacuum Naked...
  • Stripping can be much overrated.
  • Fuck him.
  • If he's a teenager then most thing that can be taken in a sick way will. That's pretty much any kind of touch or sugestive words. As for older guys it's proably harder but guys are always going to be sickos.
  • she needs to get on top of the guy and strat striping her close off of her. and start from the botom
  • I like it when while hugging or kissing a woman mashes her boobs against my chest. OR IF we've already been there, or are going to shortly rub my crotch while hugging or kissing. Works everytime! Have fun, that's what makes lovin and sex enjoyable. Right?
  • well they always say the way for the mans heart is his stomach :) lol so let him eat then she can kiss him or whatever :)
  • Rubbing the inner thigh is greatly under appreciated. Give it a shot :)
  • PRETEND to!!! jeeeeeeeezzzz! He still thinks its the same!
  • moan when he pokes u or something, then smile and go "that felt....wierd" works every time DO NOT bend and snap
  • simply put, if i was that boyfriend, just be yourself. i'm sure that you can turn your boyfriend on if you just do that
  • While he's sitting (perhaps watchng tv) straddle him and just start kissing him, taking his shirt off, whispering naughty things in his ear, etc...
  • Nibbling on an earlobe and neck works wonders, kissing sensually on the lips working your way down his neck and onto his chest. Most men love their nipples lightly nibbled or caressed with the tongue too
  • if he is a normal male.. not much is required to turn him on simply breath and that should suffice
  • bite him ;[
  • if none of the responses work then try stripping or something like that but there is some great advice here good luck+3.
  • Like i told my buddy the other day - CLEAVAAAAAGEEEE!!!
  • Some good answers here. Although guys are very visual and basic (I don't mean that in a bad sense), remember that a 'mindfuck' is very powerful ;) I assume you know the kinda stuff he likes so use that to turn his crank. And also throughout the day, do things like sending him sexy text msgs, leaving him hot voicemails, leave a hot pic of you in his car, send a sexy pic of you to his phone, etc. And later on, act in a sensuous manner. Maintain sexy-gaze eye contact with him, walk and move with sexy confidance. Make out with him and whisper dirty things in his ear, what you wanna do to him, what you want him to do to you, etc. ;)
  • I agree, talk is the easiest way to arouse him...think about what would work best on you and turn the tables. His mind needs to be into you! Take control of his mind, his thoughts his everything. Absolutely no distractions to divert his attention from YOU. The Game of the Week cannot be playing in the other room. Seducttive music. Ask "Joy to the World" (extra wide grin).
  • honestly, i would say give him a shoulder massage. I gave one to my boyfriend on saturday, and he loved it. If you are really close and cuddly with him, lightly bite on his ear. lol that might sound crazy but it drives guys CRAZY!!

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