I get really nervous around attractive girls but I have to work with them all day. What can I do to stop getting like this?
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N I C K
ANSWERS: 18
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Stop thinking with your d***
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Ignore it? You don't have to look at everyone in that way. If you're finding it really difficult, look at them and picture all of their internal organs. If I do that, I usually don't find the individual attractive anymore.
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Always listen to The Rocky Song eye of the tiger before u chat 2 a pretty woman works always
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If you're not thinking about sex (as you replied to another answer) what is there to be nervous ABOUT? You know what I think your problem is? YOU, my friend, think too much about EVERYTHING. You might benefit from a course in meditation. Before you drive yourself and everyone around you crazy.
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Get to know them better and you will find they are just normal people.
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clean your mind nick,yeah everything man yes evan that,and get to normal now,you hear.
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The women that you are working with are working with you because they need a job too; NOT because they are trying to flirt with you. They are just there to work and probably have no romantic interest in you at all. Just do your job, treat them like regular co-workers and everything else will fall into place. And, also, think of them as co-workers NOT attractive girls. Also, doesn't the bible say that if a man looks at a woman with lust, he has committed adultery in his heart? You do have a girlfriend you're thinking about marrying, don't you? Better stop thinking about other women and stay faithful to her.
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Masturbate every morning so that the word sex would go out of your mind for the day. It will work for you.
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I think the flirting you think you receive is mostly in your imagination. My experience is that if you adopt an "all business" style at work any flirting will stop. Treat them as professional colleagues, nothing more. Avert your eyes if that makes you feel better. This is meant sincerely in a spirit of helpfulness. +5
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Let's swap jobs.
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A bout of hand to gland combat might relax you. Give it a tug or two and Reeelaaaxxxx.
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Imagine them in their underwear. Oh, whoops! Bad idea! That's for public speaking....;-D..
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One of my best friends in High School suffered from "Pretty Girl Syndrome" so I got to witness it first hand. Pretty Girl Syndrome Symptoms include, People treating you mean because they automatically assume you're a b..ch. They don't invite you because they assume you'll say no. They write off any chance that your life isn't perfect because if only they looked like you! They assume you have a boyfriend because why would anyone who looks like you be single? My point is that if your nervousness isn't sexual rejection based, it might just be rejection rejection based.... pretty girls get rejected too. And Good Luck with that whole face to face interaction thing.
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Attractive or not attractive people are all human, same with girls:-) They have their strengths and they have their weaknesses. Try seeing them as people and not by their physical appearance. You may actually make some good friends if you just relax and realise that all humans have value, their experience is on the inside and that is what matters. Just greet one of them and see the reaction. Ejoy your new friendships.
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I have a similar problem. I deal with it by trying to mentally block out the fact that they are female and concentrate on the reality that they are my work colleagues, nothing more. They are all aware that I am not interested in socializing at work (even with men) and this seems to be an acceptable situation. +3
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I had the same problem when I worked . I just enjoyed looking at them. None of them ever talked to me anyway.
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i find im witty around em so if they laugh itll make me feel more relaxed coz i think they r 2
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keep working around them!
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