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  • It's hard to say without knowing the whole story. I have four kids from two different fathers but I don't think I'm irresponsible. I was married to the father of my oldest three and am now married to my fourth child's father. If she has had long lasting relationships then sometimes people aren't lucky. If she's going about her business irresponsibly, getting pregnant without any serious commitment or consideration for her actions then I'd be concerned for yourself. Don't take her word for it if she says she's taking precautions for instance. She could be a lovely girl just looking for love in all the wrong places so don't pass judgment, just act in caution. As far as the daddies go, it depends on what kind of daddies they are and what kind of men they are. If they give your g/f trouble they'll be likely to do the same to you. If they're hands on daddies but nice guys you should be ok as long as they don't see you as a threat. Take it step by step. Good luck. I
  • Why? Was she not allowed to be with others before she met you?
  • 1-9-2017 The first question is whether she had three husbands. You want a woman who knows how to act like a wife, not just a horny babe who is too stupid to take her contraceptives.
  • Whatever else you do, don't use it as an excuse to get drunk. If you do, you just might find the babies' daddies might start bothering you because they don't want a drunk anywhere near the babies. If the whole scenario bothers you that much, why not find another girlfriend who doesn't already have kids from an old relationship?
  • Years ago I dated a woman who had three daughters by three different men. It didn't bother me at all. I loved all three like they were my own. We broke up for who knows what reason. I should have stayed with her and maybe married the mother. I wish I knew where they all were today the girls are now in their 30s and 40s. If you really care for this woman don't let the fact she has three girls by three different men. Just make sure you and she love each other and want to make the relationship work.
  • just make it clear that she is a stupid whore and move on
    • Nosmo King
      Good grief, that was uncalled for.

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