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  • That is weird. I would remind him that he doesnt have the ability to nurse your son. Get a breast pump and put the milk in a bottle and let him feed him that way.
  • It isn't weird. Why not let him help take care of his son? EDIT Does "nurse" = breast-feed? If it does, I don't understand. Clearly he is ill equipped to breast-feed his child. Please can you clarify? EDIT cancer: i think i misstated my question. my husband wants to nurse off of me. he does not want to nurse my baby even though it would be nice at 3 in the morning. nevets: Ah... well - that is a little odd - but if you are comfortable with it why not let him? (I am guessing that it could be a fetish of some kind.) I am not sure how far he (and you) might want to take it. Ask him if he wants to be treated like a baby. You should do what you are comfortable with. It is not so rare though: "Damn, I wanna try that too! I heard that breast milk doesn't taste good though." http://tinyurl.com/yvxvdc
  • Your husband wants to breastfeed? Is that possible? Good gracious. Personally, you should stick to nursing; what if your child found later on in life? That would scar me for life! Women have breasts for a few reasons, lol, but the main one is to nurse their children! Don't get me wrong, your husband probably has veru nice breasts, but all in all, you should stick to it! It is great he is committed to your child though!
  • He needs therapy.
  • It's unusual, but I don't think it's weird. If you're comfortable letting him then I don't see a problem, but if it's a problem for you then my advice is to talk to him and tell him how you feel.
  • Before pacifiers, tribal men would "pacify" babies by letting holding them up to their nipples, then to nurse, they would be given back to the mothers. It's kinda weird in this day and age, but not unprecedented.
  • Okay, I'm reading it that he wants you to nurse him and the baby? If that's the case he's having some very sever jelousy issues and you need to get him to see a councelor rigth away or you're going to have even more problems later on. Yeah, men have a fasination with breasts, but most men have an adversion to lactating breasts, belive me I know, so for him to be trying to get you to this isn't normal. And it obviously makes you uncomfortable, so no, don't let him do this. But if what he wants is to nurse the baby offer to pump him a bottle of breast milk so he can feed the baby that way.It's what my fiancee and I did with our son. And they both found it to be an enriching experiance. And don't worry about nipple confussion, babies are very adaptive when it comes to food.
  • almost all guys taht i have talked to have at least one breast feeding fantisy. and leting him feed wont reduse the milk suply so i personaly see no problum with it if it waz me. but do what you think is best
  • Since he CAN'T nurse, what he really wants is for his child to suck his nipples. If it's giving him physical pleasure, and doing nothing for the child, then it borders of sexual for me and totally inappropriate. Would you let him place the child naked around his genitals so that he could pretend he was giving birth? The guy sounds very messed up to me. In China, the Last Emperor apparently breastfed till he was around 13. It's not our norm, and if I was to have my 13 yr old son sucking on my breasts, it would be inappropriate. I agree with the answer that asked, what if the kid found out later? And why would you let your husband do something that could so disgust your child and make him feel shame later? Don't let this man talk you into this. Does he sneak and let the baby suck his nipples when you aren't around? Does he gget erections if his nipples are stimulated during foreplay?
  • I have heard that some guys are just curious about this. If it does not bother you...let him.
  • They do make little devices so that a father can "nurse" babies. But it's for times when the mother is not around to do it. It's not intended to be used on men who want to nurse. I always say people should do whatever they want and I don't like to judge, but that is a little strange.
  • Yeah I do remember that. It is curiousity...by the way the breast milk tastes like warm sugar smacks milk. Very sweet!
  • Either way this is fine. If he wants to suckle on your breasts and get some milk or if he wants you to pump milk so he can put it in a device that simulates a breast so he can have the baby close to him. Tigueron knows all about male breast feeding with this device, he has done it, maybe he will respond.
  • It's not as rare as people would have you believe. There is a recognised relationship called Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR), where a man and lactating partner build a feeding routine into their daily lives. They claim it builds strong and intimate relationships, however that is for you to decide. Most men are just curious about breastmilk, partly because they love the female body and partly because it is a new, special and intimate thing. Not all relationships like this are sexual although it is more common than not. Your partner is probably simply curious. Let him suckle if you're comfortable wit the idea, he may like it, you may both like it or it may not be for either of you. I think it's important that anything to do with intimacy must be good for both of you. Christian sexual advice on the net suggests that there is nothing in the bible to make it a bad thing, I'm not sure about other religions. I think that some of the responders have misunderstood such things as perverted. It may not be to their tastes however most people (in the privacy of their own homes) do things that aren't to other peoples tastes. Enjoy each other.
  • It's not weird. Let him do it!
  • If he enjoys it and you enjoy it, there is nothing wrong with it. As for the people who are talking about males not being able to breastfeed children, science has found that males can produce breast milk.
  • maybe you shouldn't call it "nursing" when you're referring to your husband 'suckling' you breast/nipple in a sexual manner. Nursing is feeding - it sounds offensive and weird in the context you've used the term. Otherwise, there's nothing wrong with letting hubby have a little fun, you might enjoy it and it's not something he'll be able to do forever. I let him, but sometimes it was a little wierd when my husband did it, but only because I associated my breasts with the baby at the time and thinking of the baby while you're trying to have sex can be a bit of a buzz kill!
  • It's quite normal, many men try it and some couples even keep going after the baby stops. It's good for both of you emotionally and physically Have fun!
  • There are many couples who nurse, theres a whole yahoo group dedicated to it. SNCList It's really good for your health and fun too, and it's free.
  • DON'T go to a counselor. There is no need. Your husband is not "weird" or "abnormal." There is nothing wrong with it if you are both comfortable. Once he does it, you may become more comfortable with it too. My husband did this & now we both miss it. Enjoy it while you can.
  • Most men fantasize about breasts and most would like to try it. Apparently it's a common question asked of Doctors. Some men are afraid to drink the milk tho because it's seen as babyfood. Your husband will get all the same benfits from your milk as baby and the emotional support between you. It's not illegal or harmful in any way. When you think about it which is better, human milk for humans or animal milk? Enjoy yourselves!
  • men often want to nurse on their wifes milky breasts, to them it is also a type of bond.. also it is advantageous for the woman who can train her husband to keep the milk levels even between the breasts and to promote breast health by nursing evenly on each nipple.. It allows a more balanced approach on milk production and will keep the woman pain free due to fullness or nipple use problems. The man will have to watch his weight gain as the milk is quire rich and high in sustenance.
  • i'm madly in love with my girlfriend and someday I'd like to start a family with her. and i admit that i would be interested in feeding from her breast for three reasons. 1. I want to build a new bond between us 2. Women sometimes are overly full & need loving relief 3. I wonder what it tastes like
  • have you tasted that "milk"? let him have a taste its not a delicious as you might think. Maybe then he wont even want it :)
  • Great big question of the day............. How old is your son????
  • i think its a natural curiosity and i personally wouldn't mind. i probably wouldn't call it nursing though.
  • There is nothing to worry about. I think it is like any other sexual thing: you are either into it or it turns your off. If you are okay with it: IT IS OKAY. If...as seems to be the case...it freaks you, then don't do it. It's like anal sex. If you don't like it/ it's not for you, then don't do it.
  • If you are asking this it must be because you are feeling a little uncomfortable about it and that is all that matters really, how you feel. Have you talked it over with him? Why does he want to do this? Is he in competition with the child? Maybe feeling left out? Or is he just having a fantasy? If you find out his reasons, it may make you feel better about it, or it just may be something you don't want to do. It's your body and I feel if it doesn't work for you, tell him so gently and hopefully that will end it.
  • Depends on what your comfort level is, but I would have no problem with that. My ex did when we were in bed and it was very arousing. My current husband didn't. You don't see your kids in the same eyes as you do your S/O so for me it wasn't weird at all.
  • Are you being Sexist, Because he is Male its wrong for him to Nurse, I had to Nurse my son since i was a single dad, i did fine The word Nurse does not mean breastfeeding as other answers below plus males cant breastfeed so really the answers are senseless, in england it justs mean looking after them
  • I thought it was weird at first, but I let my husband nurse. We developed a wonderful sexual relationship around it. I think your relationship grows stronger from the nursing as well. My chil is now two years old, I weaned him off of the breast milk, but I still lactate. I didn't want my husaband to stop nursing.
  • The only thing that bothers me about that is having my baby's dinner become a sexual object. If you can separate the two, go for it. I don't see anything wrong with it.
  • as a guy i would love to try some.... it depends on your relationship, will it be to wierd... or maybe a turn on. i dont see a problem... but i am a guy... i think you need good old girl advice on this one.
  • I allowed my husband to do this after the births of our sons. It was a truly intimate experience that brought us more clsely together as a couple. It was also very relaxing for me, and helped my milk supply increase dramatically. There is nothing "perverse" about this. My husband did not partake in this for fetish purposes.
  • I don't know if you are a Christian, a Jew, or neither, but it says in the Old Testament in Proverbs 5:18-20 (New Living Translation) 18 Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love. 20 Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman, or fondle the breasts of a promiscuous woman? If you look it up in the original Hebrew the word satisfied is literally "filled to maximum capacity." I can't help but wonder how many less men would be tempted to stray if they discovered the joy of nursing at their wife's milk filled breast. Sweetie, once he's hooked, he will be yours forever. That's how Mrs Claus keeps me on the straight and narrow. ;)
  • I weaned my baby four years ago, but my 6'2' husband nurses from each breast every evening. We both find it a very sensual thing. He grew up in Europe and was breastfed until he was five. I am carrying around these very large, milk filled breasts - but we both enjoy it very much, in fact, it usually brings me to orgasm - a win, win situation
  • I weaned my baby four years agok but my wonderful 6'2" husband. a college professor, nurses from each breast every evening. Sometimes on the weekends, he will nurse each breast twice. We find it a sensual thing. He grew up in Europe and was breastfed until he was five. Maybe that has something to do with it. We find it a rather sensual thing - in fact, I usually orgasm when he breastfeeds. I guess the hormones are racing all around - and it is a win, win situation
  • let him do it if he wants to do it
  • i HIGHLY recommend that you nurse your husband also. your body will make enough milk for both if your husband starts out slowly. i think you will be surprised by the bliss that you will feel knowing that you are nourishing and relaxing your husband. he will worship you for giving him this gift. i have been doing it for years...just my husband. we have no children. a i have a happier and healthier marriage than anyone i know. i believe one important trick tho, is to make sure your children never have an inkling of this.
  • Just make it clear that your son gets his fill first. Other than that, it's perfectly ok.
  • If you are comfortable with it; then I say go for it. I had an adult nursing relationship with my wife each of the 3 times we had a child. We enjoyed the time we had together while she was lactating. The concept seems weird at first but once both partners are fully relaxed it can become to be something that both partners find intimate and a stronger bond is formed.
  • I did it with all my children. My wife didn't fine it weird at all. It gave her a break when the child just wanted to be comforted and not fed. Before you say anything, yes I did feed them too via a bottle. And that tasted good too LMAO
  • it's been a couple of years now ... are you still breastfeeding???

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