ANSWERS: 35
  • Change the locks,charge an outrageous amount of rent.
  • Give him an ultimatum. He has to find a job by the end of the year or he his out. Five months should be enough time.
  • Stop feeding him
  • Change the locks
  • Forget the motivation, just tell him enough is enough he needs to get the hell out of your house.
  • Do you have a shot gun? If not, virtually any fire arm will do. If you don't wish to threaten violence just pony up to him and say, " It's time to go son - pack your goodies and leave". If he gives you any trouble call the police.
  • stop feeding him, get him to buy his own food, stop doing his laundry, and take back the keys to your car. . . Otherwise seek the assistance of an intervention group :) . Sell house and Move. . Do not tell him where you go.
  • Start walking around the house naked. That should be motivation enough.
  • I just kicked my 19 year old son out. Without going into the whole story, I told him it's my house and my rules so you pack you things and leave. He did. It is painful but I couldn't imagine 16 more years of it. Now that would really be painful.
  • 35? Um. Just give him the boot.
  • If you are married, you will need to enlist your wife's help, because if she is opposed to getting him out, it may be difficult. Tell him it's time to put on his big-boy pants and live on his own. Offer to pay a deposit on an apartment, plus one month's rent. Move him to the new place yourself if you have to. Wish him the best and change your locks.
  • Move house when hes not home haha.
  • You just said leave home, why should he leave it's his home. Do you get that or understand my point?
  • open the door and tell him to leave.
  • Walk around naked
  • Start by charging him rent and work out an agreement with him. Once he moves out, use his rent money to help him get settled. + 5
  • Stop giving him he weekly allowance.
  • Don't make it pleasant for him to stay there! If you or your wife cook for him; tell him the rules have changed and he will be expected to help prepare the meals and do the dishes. If someone washes his clothes for him; stop doing it! If he lives rent-free; charge him to live there and make him responsible for paying a portion of the utilities too. If you do all of the food shopping; let him know he will be expected to do his share there too. I moved out on my own when I was 16 years old. I had a job, an apartment and took care of myself. I think the biggest reason for that was that I did the majority of cleaning at my parents home; and they never gave me anything at all. It was easy for me to leave. Don't make it too easy and comfortable for him or he'll stay there forever. I can't believe he's 35 and living there! If you can't do it, call Dr. Phil and he'll take care of it for you!
  • - Charge rent and make him buy his own groceries - Tell him his life, as a child, is over - Sell the house and move - Send him on a holiday, and make his room into an office before he gets back - Take him to see the movie "Failure to Launch" three times - Tell him men who have their own digs get a lot more sex
  • Tell him to turn around, get your foot ready...and a give him a nice big kick up the butt!! only joking :)
  • tell him even JC left in his early 30's!
  • Ask him to pay mortgage?
  • Set boundaries. Explain in a nice way that normal people who are his age don't live at home. Tell him in 15 years he will be at the hill. (Not trying to be funny, it's a scary realization). Explain he must contribute very much if he wants to continue to stay under your roof. If he has no job explain that he must put in atleast 3 apps a day showing you copies. Help him look for a nice apartment. To motivate him if and when he does leave, maybe reward him with new furniture or a gift card to a place he likes. Being that you'll probably spend that same amount on feeding and supporting him. Hope this helps.
  • A choke slam, or clothes line him!
  • Pack his things up and put them on the front porch that should be a hint..:)
  • Charge for room and board. Let supply and demand do its thing.
  • Give him a deadline to move out. Help him pack.
  • Since he has obviously LIVED there and established a residency ; you have to go thru a Formal Eviction ... Serve him his Notice To Vacate and follow the legal proceedures to get his lazy azz out of your home .... +5
  • Explosives may be called for.
  • Take his belongings and put them outside and change the locks.
  • Change the locks on the doors and don't give him a key.
  • Cancel your internet and cable access for a couple of months. Sure, it'll be a pain in the arse for you, but as soon as the free porn is gone, I'm sure he'll look elsewhere.
  • He is 35 .Tell him straight he is a can take it he is a grown man who loves all the comforts you provide .Stop providing please yourself and enjoy your life .If he does like it tell him to shut the door on the way out.You must be firm.annmac
  • Stop being his enabler. Sit him down and tell him you love him but for his own good you are setting a deadline of 3 months and in that time he has to move out. Do not go back on your word or listen to any BS excuses. Tough love is what is needed here. Unless of course you want to end up like my In laws......their daughter is 49 and is still freeloading off them, living at home.

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