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Date for at least 1.5 years without living together. Live together after the "I do's" are said.
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Determine their goals in life. As well as their religious beliefs (this will effect politics and everyday thinking, at least it should).
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live with them for at least 2 years
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Rethink that decision..LOL :)
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AS my huband if it's ok with him.
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make sure that you really know them and they really know you.
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work out finances.
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decide if you both are willing to compromise.
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Have a clean bill of health for each. Discuss money matters and bills for each. No pre-nup agreement. it can kill a marriage. Discuss children. Make sure you have many things in common. Both find an engagement ring thats suitable. Discuss where to live. And of course, have plenty of love and respect for each other. Avoid sex, if possible. ha ha ha
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Stroke the kitten
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love
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Secure your money.
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be asked! (for me at least) LOL +5
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Put your hand in his lap, get it hard, take it out, and find out if you can work with that rod.
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Ask yourself: "Why does marriage even matter these days?"
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Move in with them beforehand. Find out who that real person is. Which habits, finances, styles, problems, tastes and other aspects that affect a marriage they posses.
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make sure you both have discussed your thoughts on everything!!! what marriage is to begine with- and what is expected! kids money travel jobs goals... but not in a interrogation way, in a conversational way during the years that you have lived together befor eyou get married. =] but hey im not married so what would i know huh ;p
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have sex with them.
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There used to be a joke in my family, "before you marry her, you'd better look at her teeth." My aunt revised the saying to, "find out how many student loans he/ she has."
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Live with them, make sure both people are clean, imagine the other old and gray, make sure there will be NO CHEATING.
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i think it is important to live with them, and talk about money sexx and children, those are the biggie topics
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spend time with them
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live with the person for at least a year!
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Discuss the big issues about your future... kids/dreams/reality of life.
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Get her to sign a prenup.
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Know them and love them very well.
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Reconsider!
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buy a book on "How To Train a Puppy"
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kiss a lot of frogs.
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think better of it.
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remember that it's a good idea to marry someone who you will respect and love .... even when you're both old and gray!!
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always make sure you know them well and feel like you really love them! :)
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Make sure you know how to make compromises!
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Hire some one to shot you. Then you wouldn't DO that.
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do a background check on them!
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make sure you have similar interests and love each other unconditionally
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Live with 'em for at least a year so you can see all their dirty habits!
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make sure they are single.
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Do a financial and background chek to make sure they aren't deep in dept with bad credit or a child molester or a criminal! Other than that there are too many to list: know everything you can about someone, their general health, family history of health comes to mind. If you both want or don't want children and when you want to have them. Will one of you stay home and take care of the children after you have them. How you will divide the house chores between you and will it change if one is working and the other is not. If you will still go out on dates away from home after you marry. If you will both have girls or boys night out. What you will do about each others relatives. Where you will spend holidays and divide them between relatives. Everything, so there is no question as to what is expected after the marriage. It will make the marriage last if you do.
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make sure that you really love the person because marriage is not just a simple decision...
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learn to be happy with yourself as a single person, only then can you truly be happy with someone
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