ANSWERS: 19
  • WHaat? She cheated AND she wants to be single??? What a way to have everything you want!!!
  • She wants her cake and eat it (so to speak). Working things out means that you STAY TOGETHER and NOT CHEAT. Tell her that if she doesn't want to commit to a relationship, don't expect you to sit around waiting for her to make up her mind.
  • If you still want to be with her, than you work it out as a couple, not single.
  • nothing... just wait till she 'sorts things out' :)
  • I think you deserve better! I know you say you love her and that is something that I couldn't put up with personally. You deserve someone that WILL NOT cheat on you at all NO matter what the circumstances are. The ultimate choice is yours but for you to still be willing to be with her after she cheated says alot and for her to want to be single is too much and in my HONEST opinion, you deserve better.
  • If you want to stay with her you can say you're single but if you mess around with anyone else she will hate you so you're really not single.
  • If you were contemplating marriage, is this the kind of woman you want to be the mother of your children?
  • Move on
  • Find a better one.....you will....
  • You say goodbye to a relationship with this girl,she wants to stay singleto sort what out??it just means she can do what ever she wants and not feel guilty about it then take you back when it suits her.Say goodbye shes not worth it
  • How did you find out that she cheated??? If she told you, then that says alot for her. Personally, I would have trouble EVER trusting someone that acted with such impulse. But if you love each other, then it may work out. Now about this wanting to be single thing... does she say that because she feels guilty for cheating, or does she want to be able to be free and date other people? I have been in the same position, and either way it sucks... hang in there.
  • She wants to 'play the field'. What you do is up to you yo...
  • Nothing you can do but move on. be thankful that she told you instead of played you.
  • Stay as best friends and move on,you will find someone that will not fool around on you, and you will be a much more happier person in the long run.
  • Eventually you will be able to be friends with her, but not right away. Stop talking to her and seeing her for at least a few months, until you are really over it, then become her friend.
  • 1) She cheated on you. 2) She wants to be "best" friends while "you guys" sort things out? It sounds to me like she want time to figure out her options between two guys. It really has nothing to do with you. She's talking to someone else behind your back. Trust me. How do I know? www.Monsterette.com - Women's training camp.
  • No, she wants other men, I don't believe the bullshit she got drunk..A guy took advantage of her, then it should be called rape...She wanted to have sex with him now she feel quilty and wants you to know just incase you hear about her and him down the road..She wants to keep you on the backburner while she plays this guy...Let her go...and move on..you don't need this crap.
  • forgive her because alcohol was involved, give her the space that she ask for and figure out what you want and be happy with whatever the outcome is and move on
  • Ask her to take a careful inventory of the relationship to help her understand why she did what she did. Give her some time to think about it and then have her tell you what she came up with. And LISTEN. If you haven't decided by then what you are gonna do, this will help you decide. Good luck.

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