ANSWERS: 31
  • It depends on which 'block' they've been around
  • yes be concerned... i wouldn't want my dick to fall off >.>
  • It did to me 21 years ago. I am glad I gave it a chance. We celebrated our 20th anniversary last year.Always faithful. You need to follow your heart.
  • yeah it would!
  • yes... i did. she told me everything up front. ( she is actually an ex gf who i made contact with 4 years later) anyways... she told me everything she had done and she wanted to get back together. i had only been with one partner my life and i am not ashamed to admit it but i still looked at her differently. She also did several others things but we aren't dating. I know it could be wrong to do this but i can't help it.
  • I would hope to reap the benefit of their experiance
  • Of course not. People are sexual. What's the difference if it's one or fifty?
  • Meh, probably not. I've been around the block myself. =P
  • No, their past is their past. As long as they are upfront and honest with you than what can you say? As we get older we all have more of a past. Some just more than others. If it does bother you than you need to be with someone that is more conservative.
  • i would probably think a little differently of them. but then again ive made plenty a stupid mistake in my past that i wouldnt want someone to judge me on today so i would look past it.
  • i wouldnt be like OMG GO AWAY if i really liked them. but i would talk to them about it and make them understand thats not exactly how you viewed them and arent really comfortable with knowing you might just be another number to add to their list.
  • my husband always lied to me and said he was with a few well at his 10year HS reunion i found out diffrent. and it made me sick! If I knew things may have been diffrent. I think if they are honest about it they are worth giving a chance to! good luck
  • Hey, you ain't talking about me again, are you?
  • If it was old past history that they were very sorry about and now had changed their behavior and were living an honest moral life, I'd have no problem with it. But if it was what they were currently doing, I'd have nothing to do with them. I don't think those kinds of people are ones that are serious about a life long commitment since they haven't been living their life that way. They probably wouldn't enjoy life with me either.
  • I would want to know the history behind of everything when I am getting to know a person i will be involved with, if someone is liek that now then i wouldnt go for it. If they arent like that then i would go for it. People do make mistakes in their life and no one is perfect, I know for sure I am not. But go for it if they are not like that
  • I wouldn't want to know their history, but I would definitely drive them myself to get tested.
  • I would be a little "iffy" about it, there are too many diseases out there. I would rather not get involved with an ex-slut though.
  • it would not be a definite determining factor but it would definitely play a role in how I perceived this person and whether or not I might form a serious relationship with them.
  • As a girl, if I knew that about a guy I had recently started dating, I would definatly question his intentions towards me...
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  • Not at all. Just because someone has slept around previously doesn't mean anything. People make mistakes, and they change. As long as it's a part of their past, I don't see an issue with it. Peace.
  • Considering my past, I would try to be open minded.
  • if they tried to hide it then I would not date them, I believe in complete honesty which means no deciet, the time for it to come up may be later but if one lies about it then there can be no healthy relationship. if slutty was who they currently are then I would not think twice about dating them... I would not date them.
  • call me old fashioned - but yes!!!
  • i would like to think not but probably yes
  • i thought about it for a few. but you cant be held accountable for the mistakes of your past in the relationships of your future. just because someone was promiscous in the past, doesnt mean they are today or will be tomorrow. we all grow and change. just think if we were reminded and judged for every mistake we've ever made...id hide under a rock!!!
  • There are just too many variables here. One variable is the circumstances the past relationships ended. the other variable is the number that constitutes "making it all the way around the block"... Age, again, is another variable. I don't think I want to entrust my heart and health (disease) to a 20 year old who has had 10 parners in the last 2 years... But a 40 year old who has had 10 partners over 25 years is not necessarily promiscuous. In this example, 10 people does NOT equal 10 people. So what is around the block? I'll tell you what I looked for as I matured: I wanted a woman with some experience in love. (good and bad experiences with both physical and emotional contact)... And I found one. I have found that these experiences (some may say "trips around the block") have tempered and molded a woman who is tolerant of my shortcomings, and appreciative of the good things I offer. So let me give you a shorter answer. A trip around the block should be much more than just sex... In this sense, I admire the experience and wisdom gained from these "mistakes"... On the other hand, I would not be interested in a person who just made the trips for the next piece of meat.
  • Of course...can I say STD?? Plus I don't want everyone to know what kind of sex I'm gettin at night.
  • yes, i would think twice. lack of sexual morals has a tremendous negative impact on a relationship.
  • Actually I'd prefer this to someone with no sexual experience.
  • People can change, but that wouldn't bother me though if the girl was super hot like you. i could care less. because if i really liked some one it would be because of the present moment, and the past is the past, when i was 2 i pee'd my pants... would that stop you from dating me? you know what i'm saying. Plus i think sex is over rated. people make such big deals about it. love comes from the heart and that's what should draw two people together... sex comes from the penis, virgina and the anal if your freaky... i would like to compare it with talking, some people you talk with, and there's some people you don't talk with. so NO I WOULDN'T THINK TWICE ABOUT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM (if there super hot like you)

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