Sounds like nothing is wrong. She likes you?

she's co dependant and your not

Did you not have the ability to ask her to leave?

Maybe she got the hots for 'Ya.

if you let it happen then theirs nothing wrong

Not much that I can see unless e.g., she suspects that he's cheating and is asking for your input regarding that. If you had said, "My husband's ex-girlfriend", then I would say that there could be cause for concern. What do you think is wrong with that picture?

What's wrong depends on her reason for being there. I actually like my ex husband's wife and would much rather spend time with her than him. In fact, when we get together to drop off/pick up my son, he stands back, kind of annoyed looking, waiting for us to finish catching up. lol If she's there causing trouble, then just don't let her in next time.

Why was she there in the first place? I hope you weren't comparing Notes;)

Why did you let her into your house? That seems weird. Usually the girlfriend doesn't hang out with the ex wife.

She probably wants to do you? You know, both sides of the "X", like brothers or father/son.

Maybe she figures she's better off to have you in her camp as a friend rather than an enemy :)

Plenty wrong with it in his view I bet. Probably thinks she is fishing for information from you about him, I would think.

Weird, she likes you more than she likes him. Well, not really weird, you ARE very likable :)

Are you guys friends? What, your ex doesn't have a computer she can use? It is a bit strange but it's nice that you're nice for the sake of the kids.

You letting her walk on you. when she comes over tell her up front when she has to leave if she doesn't like it tell her not to bother coming at all.

I don't know :| It's pretty weird though... lol

To see if you are still in love with him. She is trying to figure out how to keep him, what is so special about you, trying to get as much info as possible, so that she wont lose him to you, etc.

Depends on who is creating the picture, namely you. If you are friendly with both then it is picture perfect. If you have a big problem then paint a new picture.

Nothing if you'r okay with it. If you have kids this is the best/healthy type of situation all of the adults in their lives getting along.

you invited her in? Your problem. she just walked in, have her arrested. Distance is best.

Where are your nads? If it's your home, you say who enters. Why did you put up with it?

Uhmm..seeing you are no longer married to him, are you still obliged in any way of having to entertain your ex husband's girlfriend. Especially for a whole day. I'm not too sure about the ettiquete involved there. I suppose you would have felt a certain obligation as the hostess to provide lunch and very likely, dinner as well. Meanwhile what did her boyfriend/your ex husband do for dinner?

She want to make team with someone who has been through the same situation...LOL both of you are his exes... same background.

Sounds like an episode of Reba to me, haha.

She doesnt seem to be threatened by you and maybe is looking to compaare notes... Maybe she thinks of you as a friend and enjoys your company.

She was in YOUR house, and you felt uncomfortable and did not tell her, "No, I need my computer, go to the library". You're stronger than me...;)

maybe she fancies ya, or shes trying to suss out what youre like, and how much competition she may have

The problem is why you let her in to begin with TJoe? Whats up with that? I'd like to hear the whole story to be able to judge properly though...

What's wrong is you open the door hmmmm

It's so strange and seems weird. Why did you let her into your house? Why was she there in the first place? It's very strange. Why are you allowing her inside your house? I think, she looks like jealousy on your relationship with your husband. She's not letting you to be happy with your husband. She's trying steal your husband back and trying to break you both of your relationships. Send her out instead of letting her inside the house. Once your husband broke up and left her and taking you as a wife and having family and permanent relationship with you. It's so strange to come back between you and your husband's life again. I think your husband still loves her and wants to keep her in his life I think. Why does she comes to your house to do her assignment work instead of going out? There are lots of computer labs around there, even library has computers too. There are lots of used computer stores are there, she can buy it cheaper one, instead of going to some body's house and making them uncomfortable them and messing up relationships again. May be your husband living in double life and he's hiding it from you. Nobody will allow after they break up relationships. She can visit often or call and talk to just like a friends do, not like coming home everyday and making others uneasy and uncomfortable them in their home and family relationships. Tell her that, now your boyfriend is now is my husband and we are family now, it's not good for you either us to come home all day and sitting until 11:30, we feel like guilty or misunderstanding on you, and our neighbour will also misunderstands our relationships.

Well, why was she there? Why did you let her in? Theres a lot wrong with this picture unless you guys are friends and this was all okay and sorted out between you before hand... But obviously if you asked this question this is not the case.