Is 9 months too long to still not be over a breakup?
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angel_face
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Not at all. My high school sweetheart, it took me about 2 years of agony to get over him! Some guys it takes longer, some shorter!
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No it isn't. IF you believe that you loved them and that love can last forever (or at least a very long time), it would be expected that you can't get over a break up even for years. It's in every way possible to look back many years later and wonder what it would be like had you of still been like them.
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I'm going through getting over my ex he is the dad of my 2 kids, we were living together for 3 years and dating for almost 1 year, my first love, not no more after he took off in front of my eyes with a b*tch. I know is going to take me a long time before I can start dating without thinking about him, but I will get over him
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I have heard that it takes half the length of the relationship to get over it. (So if you dated for 2 years it would take 1 year to really get over it). I don't know if that's true...but that's what they say.
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Took me 5 years to get over someone once. It was a cruel time.
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It can take a very long time. The longest I went was a year, until now. He always comes in and out of my life, not to forget the constant reminder of the child we have together. We talk occasionally but he doesnt really call to take his daughter that much. He has problems. He has been dating someone for about a year and it still hurts. i still think he is my soul mate, but in no way would i get back together with him until he cleaned up his act. I think its harder when you have a constant remeinder and link to that person. If i did not have my daughter i am sure i would have gotten over it months ago. we did break up about 9 years ago and got back together 4 years later, then i got pregnant. if you do not have kids with this person and you dont think he was THE ONE it will be easier. You have to believe that there is someone better for you. Your heart knows. BELIEVE ME. You will be ok
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