she gon say Humor!

Humour even on the second and third ya gotta have humour!!

Definately Humour. Romance on a first date would scare most women off, especially if they didn't know you very well. They would be worried that you were only after one thing.

Humor please.

a bit of both for me please.

romance

Humour is always best on a first date.....ALWAYS!

How 'bout both?

Humor..hands down. You don't even know the guy if it's a first date so why would you want to get kissy-facey? But laughter? Wit? That absolutely would guarantee more dates as far as I'm concerned! :)

Humor, infinitley If the person gets all romantic on the first date that would seem quite creepy and stalker-ish to me. Hello, I don't even know you! Stop touching me! lol

It's all about the humour I'm afraid

First date, definately humour!

Humor...it creates a more relaxed atmosphere..I don't think I would be comfortable with romance right off the bat. Well, maybe just a little but only if it were appropriate in public.

humor gets second dates then romance comes after a few dates:)

Humor, there the rest of the life together for romance....

Humour with a second thought! :)

Definitely humour, it portrays the guy as someone who will be fun to be with, not dull.

i say humour.... id choose humour over roamance any day..

humor

Humor, I need someone, I can have fun with, Romance is awesome, but I would rather laugh.

Definately humor. If you can make us laugh your golden. Laughing relaxes us and makes us feel familiar with you.

humour. romance is waaaay too intense.

Definitely ladies:)

humour it makes you warm to a person then you're interested in the romance. if romance came first, i'd think the guy was cheesy or after a shag

romance or no romance, humour all the way! ;-)

humor 100% romance for a first date is soooo lame.

Humor.

Romance. Definitely romance. I want to KNOW this guy isn't afraid of intimacy (not sex, I mean REAL intimacy) or emotionally absent.

Humor!

Humour.Romance might scare me on a first date.

Humor ...that would be enough to lead me/us to romance :) !

Humor. How do I know if I even really like the person. If he wants to go for romance right away, I[m sorry, he's not for me at all!

I agree with the others, humor is the way to go.

Humour. You don't know her well enough to romance her properly.

You might get lucky and have the fool bring you roses ;)

HUMOUR IS ALWAYS THE BEST I THINK IT MAKES PEOPLE FEEL AT EASE

Humor.

Humor always!

i would like both, but more humor on the first date. more romance on the next.

Romance is welcome with a lot of humour!

A combination of both.

75% humour 25% romance

Humor all the way!!!!!!

Humour, I like to laugh! =D

Humour.

The lack of humour is unbearable, but consider a first date without romance! I think both are important, and for many people, difficult to combine.

Romance...theres enff humour!

humour of course! relaxes the whole vibe. Dates actually make me a bit nervous. A great mix of light flirting, humour, & some wine do the trick :)

both

humour first. you have to learn to laugh with someone before you can learn to be serious.

Humour!

Humor first please.

humor definately

Definitely humour

Definitely humor. I can't deal with someone trying to paw me all evening when I'm not even sure I like him. Now if he's a great conversionalist and is funny, there may be a second date.

Humor for sure. Romance on a first date is a bit presumptuous, and a little staunch-y. I prefer to laugh and have a good time. Romance for me comes later.

HUMOR!.....romance it sorta awkward as a first date

humor, i like things lighthearted and playful.

ROMANCE ON THE FIRST DATE I WOULD SAY A KISS OR MORE

I think mostly humor, but maybe a little romance, especially if you know already that you have chemistry. If you've known the person, and you like each other enough to consider dating, it should all happen naturally anyways.

First date i say humor unless you know you have some chemistry. Because usually on the first date you dont know them that well and there tring to make out or go farther they wont get a second date but they might get a slap in the face

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I want to have fun and laugh on a first date.