Have you ever felt ugly even if people tell you that you are not?
by 
PerfectlyFlawed.
ANSWERS: 100
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Yes, very much so. I kept recieving so many compliments that i actually started becoming really self-concious. even though they said i'm pretty, i started noticing myself more, fixing every hair out of place, etc. After a while I felt ugly cuz i was so nervous and self-concious. Whatever. I got over it.
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A lot of the time!
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Yeah, but most of the time it's just because I'm feeling down due to something else. Otherwise, I don't really think about it much (beyond just looking presentable and not sloppy or shabby).
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Every time I look in a mirror.
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Yes pretty much all the time. But then I have to admit I am not a very attractive person, but I like to think I make up for it in personality.
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Yes.
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Not really, though look at me! LOL.
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yes, its a major nagative quality i see in myself, i keep arranging my features when i see a mirror, but my partner freaks out when i do that so im not too bad with it, a little bit narcissistic, but not bad lol.
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i have ugly days and better days.especially since i gave up smoking and put some weight on.in the process of loosing that though.
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all the time - glad to know there's other people out there who feel the same!!
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All the time. I don't think I'm ugly, but I know without a doubt that I am not pretty. I hate it when people think they are making you feel better about yourself, but you can tell that they are lying through their teeth! : )
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I feel ugly all the time even if a ton of people tell me that im not. Because it doesn't matter what other people say, u think what u think about yourself.
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Haven't we all?
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Yes... but I think the people who tell me that I'm not need their eyes checked. ;)
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Definitely...people really don't tell me that I'm ugly...who would?
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Oh yes!!
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Yeah I have. You don't need people to tell you, when you have the media to look towards. You come up with things on your own, by comparing yourself to what you're not.
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yes i have, but im getting better now.
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yeh i always feel that way
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All the time, especially when I was really sick and very underweight. It is hard to believe it, when you feel like crap, LOL.
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i have to always to not let other people down
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well yeah, but that is because I have seen people tell really ugly people they are pretty. I am the only honest person out there. I saw one baby looked like a gremlin. beauty is like speciality, I'd like to quote "the incredibles" (everyones special dash. WHICH IS ANOTHER WAY OF SAYING NOBODYS SPECIAL) I talk like I think I am uglier than I really do because it sets up jokes, I honestly believe I am average, but being a guy that means I am ugly.
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Yes I am sure a lot of us feel that way some of the time..
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Well, I'll tell you something that I've learned. People tend to be contrary, and they don't even realize it. When you say something like "I'm ugly", another will be quick to say that you aren't. In a similar--albeit judgemental--way, they'll try to deny when you talk highly of yourself. Calling yourself "good looking" so openly may set you up for ruin. So yes, I have felt ugly even if people tell me that I'm not. It would take an honest face and a sincere tone to convince me that they're not just saying thing.
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Yes, but then I think of Sylvester Stalone's mom and realize that there's always someone else out there that has been beaten with a larger ugly stick. Not nice huh?
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YES! when i go dissed by somebody i was in love with, felt like i had something missing or something. but i got over it... and after that i found new loving arms that don't get tired of telling me stuff and make me feel special.
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i am not a book so nope
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yes i always feel ugly...
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Yes. I always do, but the only people who bother to say I'm not are my family. Everyone else just comes right out and says I'm ugly.
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yes, all the time.
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All the time. See my prob;em is that I can have a thousand people say good things about me and point out the good things about me but all it takes is just one person to tear me down and it makes it all the much more difficult to believe the thousand who say otherwise
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more often than i'd like to amdit. it seems like good things people say go in one ear and out the other, but any thing bad or, anything i take bad, stays in my head.
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yes
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That happens to me all the time. I think it has to do with low self asteem. You don't think very highly of yourself so you feel as if you are ugly.though some traits on ppl are less attractive than others we all have something pretty about us. And there will be days that you don't feel as attractive as you might of been the other day but thats very normal. i suggest that u should begin to think more highly of your self but all at the same time don't brag about yourself either.
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I think we all have
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everyday i feel ugly
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Nope I have seen some really ugly, and I mean butt ugly people,so I know I am not.
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I'm pretty sure everyone does at some point.
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yeah i do sometimes
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of course
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yes lots of times, because most of the comments i get is that am ugly. And so when people tell me am beautiful, sometimes i think that they are only saying that to make me feel good. But hey i dont really feel like that no more, because God made me beautiful in His own image!!!
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Everyday, and I don't see the point of trying to make myself believe otherwise.
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yes and my m8 used to take me to town and ask complete strangers if i was ugl and the normaly said no but it didnt help
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Sure do. I think there are days when everyone feels that they are unattractive. Even supermodels and celebrities who are supposed to be "pretty." It boils down to loving what you see every time you walk past a mirror and taking pride in yourself.
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Yes, but sometimes I feel hotter than I am too.
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yes al the time
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Yes :)
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i do feel ugly alot of the time. but, sometimes i feel that even thhough i feel bad /ugly, theres not alpt to do. so i just smile. although, when my b/f tells me im beautiful, i believe him :)
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many many times...
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All the time!
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Yeh! when im a bit depressed!
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Yes, but i think that happens to everyone. As humans we always doubt ourselves.
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UGLY IS SOMETHING WE ALL FEEL ITS JUST A PERSPECTIVE OF WHAT WE SEE GOING ON AROUND US SO MAYBEY SOME PEOPLE JUST HAVE TO LOOK AT THINGS IN A LITTLE BIT OF A DIFFERENT WAY? LOL
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all the time :/
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yeah, especially if i dont shave and it's morning :D
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Just until I have a second to think about it and realize thier lying..
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Yes. Sometimes I hate looking into a mirror. I guess there are allot of people who can relate to this. Depending on what mood I'm in
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All the time.
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yeah, all the time.
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Everyone feels "ugly" at some point! I have felt that I look like total crap before, and men have told me that I look absolutely beautiful. People view things, like looks, differently....
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oh yes many a times !! but so does everyone now and again!!!
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Yes! I feel that way all the time. Iam not sure why but I get uncomfortable when i'm told i am pretty, sexy, or beautiful.
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Not really. If someone tells me I'm pretty then I'm happy about it and actually believe I'm pretty.
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All the time!!!!
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who doesnt?
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Yup. Ugly is how we feel inside. Its kinda like a self esteem issue. We need to feel good about ourself first. We need to love who we are and know we are special. It takes time but it can happpen. Sometimes we were told otherwise as kids and still think that is who we are. We will feel better when we can see our selves as beautiful inside too.
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I have found that ugly is a state of mind - if you feel ugly then not many people find you attractive, if you are confident in yourself then you feel pretty/handsome and other people pick up on it and feel the same way about you.
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Yes. It has a lot to do with all the negative attention I got, as a child and teen. I still feel ugly. And also, fat.
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hi i have the same problem. ive been a model but never think im good enough! i think everyone is better then me to! i think for me it started when i was still at school i would get bullied about the way i looked! now alot of people i knew in school walk pass me because they dont no who i am! but even tho i have changed in looks, i still feel the same inside as i did in school. oh and this mite cheer you up one of the good lookin girls at school that bullied me was in the pub that i was in, and she had gone really fat i sed hi to her and her face dropped! i guess what comes around goes around! lol xx
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No. I don't think I'm good looking either. I try not to judge myself, I leave that for my peers.
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i always do
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All the time cause some people are like your so pretty,cute,hot ect. and others are like your ugly so tht makes me think the ones who say im pretty are lyin i mean it don't bother me when ppl call me ugly but when I think the ppl who say they tellin the truth are lyin ugh it is so confusing
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always
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Sure, I believe everyone does at some point in their lives. To be honest with you, your answer lies within you. You decide wheter you feel ugly or not. If a cosmetic change would help, do it! You need to like yourself first before you can change your outlook. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change.
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Yes. It's also like, I'll have "ugly days."
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Yes, almost 99% of the time.
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absolutly. all the time. no matter what people say, you will never believe it unless you tihkn so.
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yes, quite a lot..especially when i was pregnant. Also when i was a teenager.. i always had problems with my weight and it used to get to me when i was trying to buy all the nice clothes the other girls had, i tried diet after diet.. i still have weight problems, but i dont feel ugly any more :)
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sounds like a low esteem issue
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yes, i go up and down with my wieght all the time and when i get heavy theres no one in the world that can tell me im pretty and make me belive it, but when i loose the weight i think im very pretty.
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from looking at your pic. home girl you dont have nuttin to worry about you looks hot. lol everyone feels this kind of stuff from time to time. Don't worry about it that is just life on earth.
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Sure. I think everyone feels that way at times.
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Yeah, I get called pretty a lot. But I don't buy into it. I don't want to get an ego. Plus, I just think they're doing it to make me feel better. Bleh.
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OH YEAH I think everyones been there though atleast once
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Yes. A whole lot.
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yeah, quite often actually!! :(
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It can be a long road but surely possible. I say this to myself three times a day " Marc meet Marc" " A truly wonderful person"I feel happy; I feel healthy; I feel terrific". I say this while looking at myself in the mirror. I find it helps me to feel good about myself Hope this helps!
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yup
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absolutely!!! I am one of those people that look better in real life than i do in photos I get compliments from men often and looks and smiles most men i get to know stay around me for a long period of time but alot of the time i look at myself and i am just so unhappy with me, I know I am not an ugly person but in my heart i want to change my apperance and i start and then a couple a days later my opinion of myself changes then i stop but the picture of myself does not seem to lie, I guess its true you are your own worst critic
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nope i never care what people think about how i look! all the that matters is how u feel about your self!
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I think everyone does at sometime in their life.
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yes. my bf tells me I'm beautiful, but I feel so ugly. I think it hurts him that I think that way about myself.
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ugly is just a word being happy is all that matters so dont feel so down
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Yes, I have felt that way before. But I noticed that I didn't beleive them until I finally beleived myself that I was not ugly. You can't let someone else love you unless you first love yourself. Fall in love with your own features, because they are the only ones you will ever have. Fall in love with the way you look, because you are a unique individual human being.
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Yes of course! If you haven't then you are probably so full of yourself that nobody could tell you otherwise. I think it's good to have some insecurities. Nobody is perfect and to admit that you aren't either builds character!
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oh yeah. when I was a kid, I got made fun of and stuff. my parents used to tell me all the time that I am beautiful. I never believed them though.
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yes lmost every day.
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Only my whole life.
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People are always complimenting me, but I ALWAYS feel ugly.
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sometimes, only when i'm felling down.
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