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  Should I cut off this friend? I have this friend of mine that can be really selfish at times. It normally happens when hes drunk. He can drink on weekends and he drinks all weekend long. He just got a DUI a few weekends ago and he told me its his 2nd but I know hes still going to court for his 2nd DUI. So I think he lied to me there. His step dad died a couple weeks ago and he never even told me about it. He never told me when the funeral was. He came over the next day and asked me for gas money. I still helped him out because it was $10. Hes not the type of friend that would go out of his way for someone either. I remember I bought beer for us when we went to this party one weekend. Then the next day he didn't even give me a ride home. He excuss was hes too hung over so I took the bus. Also if he doesn't get what he wants from someone he can get mad at them. Hes done it to me and other people. I've been thinking about ignoring him from now on.
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  My girlfriend and I were happy together had a dog lived together and talked of marriage. My friend would always come over and hang with me, after a while him coming over turned into a everyday thing. Long story short, situations happend like me and my buddy hanging in the garage and him saying goodbye and then an hr later I go upstairs and he's sleeping on the floor next to the couch we're my girlfriend is sleeping. Other things like they had exchanged phone numbers without me knowing. I asked them both if anything was goin on I felt like an idiot when they both said no. Time passed then more stuff like I pulled into the grocery mart parking lot and there sitting there talking . I ended up asking my girlfriend and my friend a ton of times if what I was feeling like they were hooking up was real No no no your insane and insecure. Ok my girlfriend ended up leaving me because of all this she told me that they never talked at all. We're broken up now and my friend still comes around but he dosnt seem like a real friend he says I would never do that, and then bragged to me the other day about how he hooked up with a chick who has a boyfriend.
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  My name is Fabian. So there is this girl i have a big crush on, (not dating) I'm not ready to ask her out yet. But her name is Alyssa . I met her in middle school and me and her still text ALOT, like everyday. We sometimes hang out and chill. me and her care and love eachother alot, she loves me because i always been there for her, and i always made her feel better, she said she wouldn't know what she do without me. She said i am like one of the realest people out there. she said me and her will rock together forever. but these past 7 days i feel like me and her were getting dry, like if our bond wasn't the same , like if something was wrong with her. I miss texting her more, laughing and having funny and enjoyable convos, where we texted more and she replied faster. I noticed she has been sleeping in all day until 5 or 6pm , and she goes to bed earlier then usual, it made no sense to me. She also hasn't been texting anybody that much and she hasn't been on social media that much, i asked her and she "said You're the first person to actually notice. but idk, I've been sleeping a lot and idk why . Then i asked her what is causing all that and she said " I just got out of a really toxic friendship and it's been taking a huge toll on my emotions lately ". Turns out it was her bestfriend (Jony) they were really close. She really cared and trusted him. I asked what happened and she said "A lot of manipulation and mental abuse". What do you think she meant by that and what do you think might of happened? She said "We still talk a lil bit,, I just needed some space" But to be honest i don't know how to really help her, i need to find the right words to have her move on and whatever they have wasn't real anymore. I don't want her to think i am trying to talk her out her feelings, i also don't want to make her sound guilty or anything like that, i don't want to sound like An Asshole either. I am that type of person that is always going to be real with people and she knows that. I want her to be strong. Alot of people hurt
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  Im getting a parcel from my friend. It on the way but stopped on turkey cause of clearance service fee. My friend already pay for shipping. The fee is $1,320. I was surprised when i see the fee, they told my friend that there only a little fee. The company name is United Express Delivery Service. I got the letter say i have to pay so it can continue delivering to me. I got a phone call but i was busy and unable to talk. Then i check the number on google and i saw there's many bad comments about that numbers. What should i do? Guys
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  I was with my ex for 3 years, she was my first and I was her first. we've lived together for about 2 years and recently broke up in February. She dumped me because she had thought I was cheating on her but when she realized I wasn't wasn't things started slowly coming back together. Couple weeks later we got into a huge argument after our argument she started acting different and coming home late. It was unusual of her to come home late because she's a nurse and her schedule required her to work the 5-7 shift. I would stay up until she got home to talk about her why she's been coming home late, she would she grab whatever she needed and she would leave again and not come back home until about 2 or 3 am. One day she gets texted saying she needed her space and if I could stay at my parents, for the first week I disagreed to it but shortly after I changed my mind thinking it might be a good idea and that I should respect her space. Two days later I had found out she slept with her coworker by logging into her Snapchat. I asked her if she had done anything with anyone she kept telling me she had not done anything with anyone, so I pulled up her snapchat to show her that knew what had happen after I gave her space. We were officially done I grabbed my stuff and had completely moved out, couple weeks later she started texting me about how she had made a mistake so I went back to her. For about 5 months she was going back and forth between me and her coworker. Last week she broke down mentally and was calling and texting me non stop saying she wanted to hurt herself and she felt like a piece of shit for doing this to me, she wanted me to come over to help her out with her breakdown so I told her she needed to text her coworker and have him deal with it because I was really upset about the last few months. She continued to text me saying that he doesn't know how to deal with her when she's like this only I did so I agreed to help her out and comfort her, she asked me to be her boyfriend again but I refused because everyt
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  What are some of the things you have in common with your friend/friends?
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  2 days ago I met Gril that her friend has a crush on me. I walked with her to that.girl and she didnt look any way sympatied about me she just facepalmed and get a bit shy when she saw me.Next day she asked me about my name I decided to tell it. When i came back from school I looked on facebook and they in fact invited me. Today I decided to ask for real whats going on she still says that her friend has crush on me stuff. But still the girl that she was talking about doesnt show any kind of feeling to me.They are propobly 1 year younger than me (Im 17) . So my question is are they just joking or theres something more that I dont noticing. Sorry for my english but its not my native laungage
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  18 about to turn 19. I moved in the US about 3 years ago. My mom came to the US when I was 2. She's been here for 17 years now. I grew up with my aunt who is amazing and who raised me really well. My mom never came back to visit in my country for 17 years. And she had her papers she Just didn't want to come I think. She was the one paying for my school when I was back home and gave me what I needed but I still felt like I needed her more than money. It's hard to live with someone you didn't spend your life with. At first we would be fighting and she will stay days without talking to me. My aunt never did that I mean as a teen we did stupid things but she would be mad and then everything will go back to normal but she will never stay a day without talking to me. So when my mom started doing that I was like shocked but I got used to it. My mom is the kind of person who will be spending her money on shoes clothes makeup (you should see her closet) she'll find herself not having money because that's what she spend it on. Sometimes she would ask me to do something for her and I'll be doing homework and I'll tell her to wait a little and 5 minutes after I'll go to do what she asked me and I'll find her doing it. Then she'll be telling me that I dont do anything for. Sometimes she'll ask me for money and I'll give to her and she will be saying that I have it to her but deep inside that's not what I want and that I have a wicked black heart. I'm used to all that now. My stepdad(who is amazing) I'm really close to him. I've just known him for 3 years and I talk to him more than I talk To My mom because he is more open minded. He told me that my mom came to her before and told her she wanted to go back to school so he gave her money so that she can go back but she didn't. She kept the money and came making up stories to him. Recently she said she wanted to be a caregiver so my stepdad gave him money again to do that but she didn't do it. 3 weeks ago I was ready to go to school. I'm in college now and I don't drive yet so
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  Well my girlfriend and I broke up after she decided to text/mess with a guy at her church. We got back together and she wants me to go to church with her. I don't know what to do because everytime I think of the guy I want to flip out, beat him, and just fall apart for the amount of pain he put me through. He pretended to be my friend and it totally betrayed my trust. I don't know what to do or how to handle the situation. Her family goes to the church but I don't know if I want to ever see that guy again. Can somebody please give me advice? Btw this happened 5 1/2 months ago and I still haven't gotten over it.
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  LADIES: What do you like to do to turn your s/o on? What do you like that he does to turn YOU on?